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By (user no longer on site) OP    30 weeks ago

I saw this and had to comment:

“No recent fave pic or no verifications we won’t reply”

That’s all well & good but how will we get verifications & be seen as sincere and serious?

CATCH 22.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman 30 weeks ago

your head

Get a cam veri? Or go to an organised social and you could get a few veris in one sitting.

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By *ustAnotherMan 30 weeks ago

wherever I may roam

Dude, you might as well add "starts a hundred threads about how things are stacked against me" as one of the reasons you're not getting any.

Don't take it personally, accept the situation and move on

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By *naswingdressWoman 30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

- cam verification

- go to club and behave like a decent human being

- go to social and behave like a decent human being

- meet someone who doesn't have that stipulation and is interested in you

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By *illan-KillashMan 30 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"I saw this and had to comment:

“No recent fave pic or no verifications we won’t reply”

That’s all well & good but how will we get verifications & be seen as sincere and serious?

CATCH 22."

Cam veri.

Social veri.

Club veri.

Group social veri.

Take your pick.

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By *uxom redCouple 30 weeks ago

Shrewsbury


"- cam verification

- go to club and behave like a decent human being

- go to social and behave like a decent human being

- meet someone who doesn't have that stipulation and is interested in you"

This

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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago

Not everyone needs a verification, personally I'd avoid anyone that did.

You may have a penis but you still have choices on here.

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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago


"You may have a penis"

Solid advice.

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By *oozleMan 30 weeks ago

high wycombe

Try posting in forums, making friends and connections… I’m sure that not everyone needs verification and from forum posts they can get an idea of you etc. things can happen naturally over time then..

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By *y AmoreMan 30 weeks ago

london


"- cam verification

- go to club and behave like a decent human being

- go to social and behave like a decent human being

- meet someone who doesn't have that stipulation and is interested in you"

Exactly and treat women with respect and you should be good.

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By *ularliWoman 30 weeks ago

Worcester

Organised socials are great for getting verified or if you don’t mind going on cam then use the cams on here

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By *illan-KillashMan 30 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"I saw this and had to comment:

“No recent fave pic or no verifications we won’t reply”

That’s all well & good but how will we get verifications & be seen as sincere and serious?

CATCH 22."

If you want to "be seen as sincere and serious" it's best to be seen.

CATCH 22

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By *r SproutMan 30 weeks ago

the middle

It really isn’t difficult if you put a little bit of effort in . Good luck

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By *uenevereWoman 30 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

As above, but also your profile is hidden.

People are highly unlikely to respond to you whilst it's not available to view.

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By *ts the taking part thatMan 30 weeks ago

southampton

A verification doesn't mean any reply will be positive.

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By *eroLondonMan 30 weeks ago

Mayfair

Echoing the advices above — get yourself to a Fab organised social.

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By *agatoXXXMan 30 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Bribery and corruption, AKA buying cake for ladies.

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By *empest2KMan 30 weeks ago

Derby

It's relatively straightforward, to be honest. But it can be expensive for single guys initially.

I just went to a club (or two) and chatted to people there, so I made myself memorable (for good reasons such as wearing a flamboyant and distinctive outfit) and some of the people who were there then verified me afterwards.

It's easy to think it's ‘Catch 22’, but it really isn't. Verifications aren't the be all or end all, but a few recent ones do help further down the road... well, they did for me anyway

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By *naswingdressWoman 30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Bribery and corruption, AKA buying cake for ladies. "

Still have to get someone to want to meet you to be able to buy them cake.

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By *agatoXXXMan 30 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.


"Bribery and corruption, AKA buying cake for ladies.

Still have to get someone to want to meet you to be able to buy them cake."

The cake is also bait.

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By *TG3Man 30 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Try posting in forums, making friends and connections… I’m sure that not everyone needs verification and from forum posts they can get an idea of you etc. things can happen naturally over time then.."
Then boom shakalaka you're in, knee deep in klunge

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By *agatoXXXMan 30 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.


"Try posting in forums, making friends and connections… I’m sure that not everyone needs verification and from forum posts they can get an idea of you etc. things can happen naturally over time then..Then boom shakalaka you're in, knee deep in klunge "

And I thought fisting was extreme...

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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago


"Dude, you might as well add "starts a hundred threads about how things are stacked against me" as one of the reasons you're not getting any.

Don't take it personally, accept the situation and move on "

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By *till gameMan 30 weeks ago

two doors down

Positivity attracts people, negativity makes them run away

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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago

Got to say, being new here i'm not worried about getting verified or not .. as someone else said, i'm just here for the banter, have a laugh, try an be positive .. anything after that is a bonus

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By *orbidden eastMan 30 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Patience and never take things too seriously

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By *eiaorganaWoman 30 weeks ago

Dundee

Also be aware that cam veris are not taken seriously by a lot of people, if I looked at someone's profile and they had only cam veris I would consider them as not having any - a cam veri doesn't tell me that you turned up and are true to your profile and pics.

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By *elloWoman 30 weeks ago

alpha centauri

How do men get verifications ????

Unless I'm missing something, don't men and women on here get verifications the same way .

Are you once again making a forum thread trying to make out that this site isn't working out the way you expected it to go because of your gender and not because of you as a person.

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By *naswingdressWoman 30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Positivity attracts people, negativity makes them run away"

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By *eroLondonMan 30 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Also be aware that cam veris are not taken seriously by a lot of people, if I looked at someone's profile and they had only cam veris I would consider them as not having any - a cam veri doesn't tell me that you turned up and are true to your profile and pics."

I was going to say something similar. I don't place much value in cam verifications. If I'm contacted by a woman who's armed to the hilt with cam verifications then it just proves she's a sentient being with a pulse, and nothing more.

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By *emidemiWoman 30 weeks ago

basingstoke


"Also be aware that cam veris are not taken seriously by a lot of people, if I looked at someone's profile and they had only cam veris I would consider them as not having any - a cam veri doesn't tell me that you turned up and are true to your profile and pics.

I was going to say something similar. I don't place much value in cam verifications. If I'm contacted by a woman who's armed to the hilt with cam verifications then it just proves she's a sentient being with a pulse, and nothing more."

I think most men on here actually *prefer* us to be sentient beings with a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago

Easy when you’re fucking gorgeous like I am.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

As has been said, many times, clubs and socials are the key to getting a verification if everyone you want to meet has that stipulation.

But a verification won't change how attracted they are to you.

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By *eroLondonMan 30 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Also be aware that cam veris are not taken seriously by a lot of people, if I looked at someone's profile and they had only cam veris I would consider them as not having any - a cam veri doesn't tell me that you turned up and are true to your profile and pics.

I was going to say something similar. I don't place much value in cam verifications. If I'm contacted by a woman who's armed to the hilt with cam verifications then it just proves she's a sentient being with a pulse, and nothing more.

I think most men on here actually *prefer* us to be sentient beings with a pulse. "

But I want more! I want them to have a porcelain smooth derrière, silky soft breasts and a majestic décollatage, coupled with a fragrant quim and kissable lips.

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By *eroLondonMan 30 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Easy when you’re fucking gorgeous like I am. "

You are the champion lover, Extraordinaire.

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By *naswingdressWoman 30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Also be aware that cam veris are not taken seriously by a lot of people, if I looked at someone's profile and they had only cam veris I would consider them as not having any - a cam veri doesn't tell me that you turned up and are true to your profile and pics.

I was going to say something similar. I don't place much value in cam verifications. If I'm contacted by a woman who's armed to the hilt with cam verifications then it just proves she's a sentient being with a pulse, and nothing more."

Sure.

But if the question is "how do I get verified", the bar is pretty low.

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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago


"Easy when you’re fucking gorgeous like I am.

You are the champion lover, Extraordinaire."

I was only joking don’t be mean

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 30 weeks ago

North West


"Also be aware that cam veris are not taken seriously by a lot of people, if I looked at someone's profile and they had only cam veris I would consider them as not having any - a cam veri doesn't tell me that you turned up and are true to your profile and pics.

I was going to say something similar. I don't place much value in cam verifications. If I'm contacted by a woman who's armed to the hilt with cam verifications then it just proves she's a sentient being with a pulse, and nothing more."

I'm not sure about my pulse. It's often hiding at the wrist, certainly.

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By *eroLondonMan 30 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Also be aware that cam veris are not taken seriously by a lot of people, if I looked at someone's profile and they had only cam veris I would consider them as not having any - a cam veri doesn't tell me that you turned up and are true to your profile and pics.

I was going to say something similar. I don't place much value in cam verifications. If I'm contacted by a woman who's armed to the hilt with cam verifications then it just proves she's a sentient being with a pulse, and nothing more.

Sure.

But if the question is "how do I get verified", the bar is pretty low. "

I'm 5' 7" — a low bar suits me fine.

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By *r Black 85Man 30 weeks ago

nottingham


"Easy when you’re fucking gorgeous like I am.

You are the champion lover, Extraordinaire."

Large up your status

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