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What would it be?
Anything looks, personality...
For me I guess it would be my negativity,so I've said many times on here before regards my personal self loathing and how much I hate just about everything about me.
But I think all of this stems from my negativity and how I percive myself and the rest of the world.
So negativity would be binned off.
Mr.
What about you?
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"Oh god just one? Which do I pick? My over thinking or my face/body? "
As a terminal over thinker myself ( I class it as terminal because it will be the death of me)
I'd go with the overthinking.
Looks are overrated, everyone is beautiful in their own way and sexiness is in my opinion in the little imperfections that makes us an individual. |
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I'd motnhave ADHD, social.media has made it look like it's a superpower but in reality it's crippling at times and soul destroying.
For the first time in years I'm actually really happy with my weight, but previously I would have said I'd like to be thinner. Dreams can come true x |
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"Taller legs, I always wanted to be taller."
But you are quite tall! Or did you just have heels on when we met?
"No one wants sex with you when you're tall."
The only thing I find tricky with tall girls is holding hands. Feels all mismatched and awkward walking down the street.
That’s staggeringly unlikely to be a problem with you, so count me in for the sex. |
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"Taller legs, I always wanted to be taller.
No one wants sex with you when you're tall. "
My friends are all taller and getting plenty. It's definetly my height holding me back. 
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"Taller legs, I always wanted to be taller.
But you are quite tall! Or did you just have heels on when we met?
No one wants sex with you when you're tall.
The only thing I find tricky with tall girls is holding hands. Feels all mismatched and awkward walking down the street.
That’s staggeringly unlikely to be a problem with you, so count me in for the sex."
Yup I had massive heels on it was a Christmas party after all! 
I'm only 5ft 4in. |
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This is possibly controversial because everything now is all about wider acceptance, finding your superpower yada yada yada, but I'd not be autistic. Not having sensory input overload, or not having to consciously think about every minute component of social interaction etc. That would free up so much energy and headspace and I'd have something left for me once all the work, parenting and domestic chores were done!
I'd be a totally different person though, and not necessarily an improved one  |
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"Taller legs, I always wanted to be taller.
No one wants sex with you when you're tall. "
I'm 5ft 11 and my husband is 6ft 2. We love tall women. We have had fun with 2 ladies of height. One was 6ft 3 and the other was 6ft 2. They were both hot as hell!!
I don't agree that people don't want sex with tall women at all. I've been told by lots of men that they love taller women and some men have a fetish for it. I've never been short of offers of sex from men in this lifestyle and I'm about 6ft2 in heels.
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"This is possibly controversial because everything now is all about wider acceptance, finding your superpower yada yada yada, but I'd not be autistic. Not having sensory input overload, or not having to consciously think about every minute component of social interaction etc. That would free up so much energy and headspace and I'd have something left for me once all the work, parenting and domestic chores were done!
I'd be a totally different person though, and not necessarily an improved one "
That's actually very interesting as you said it might not improve you,but it's the part of you, you find the worst which I guess is the same for all the replies.
Whatever we change may not improve us but it's the thing that has the biggest impact on our own lives. |
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"Taller legs, I always wanted to be taller.
No one wants sex with you when you're tall.
I'm 5ft 11 and my husband is 6ft 2. We love tall women. We have had fun with 2 ladies of height. One was 6ft 3 and the other was 6ft 2. They were both hot as hell!!
I don't agree that people don't want sex with tall women at all. I've been told by lots of men that they love taller women and some men have a fetish for it. I've never been short of offers of sex from men in this lifestyle and I'm about 6ft2 in heels.
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The general consensus from men is they prefer shorter women. You see it everywhere.
The amount of times I've been told they like me despite this or they'll make an exception, fyi that isn't a compliment.
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"Taller legs, I always wanted to be taller.
But you are quite tall! Or did you just have heels on when we met?
No one wants sex with you when you're tall.
The only thing I find tricky with tall girls is holding hands. Feels all mismatched and awkward walking down the street.
That’s staggeringly unlikely to be a problem with you, so count me in for the sex.
Yup I had massive heels on it was a Christmas party after all!
I'm only 5ft 4in. "
We both love short women x I'd love to see my beast of a husband tossing a tiny woman around the bedroom. (Ooh I've come over all peculiar now  |
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Nothing really.
Sometimes I’d like my brain to be a little less chaotic. But generally it works in my favour.
I don’t love my face, but others do & I don’t have to look at it.
I’d quite like my bones to not break quite so easily…. |
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"I'd say I wish I was more confident. Some people are so effortlessly confident and here's my overthinking ass feeling like people will think I'm a knob"
You’re definitely not a knob, Joe. I can tell you that much. |
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"I'd say I wish I was more confident. Some people are so effortlessly confident and here's my overthinking ass feeling like people will think I'm a knob
You’re definitely not a knob, Joe. I can tell you that much."
Yeah, because my lack of confidence doesn't allow me to be but thank you, I appreciate that  |
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"I'd say I wish I was more confident. Some people are so effortlessly confident and here's my overthinking ass feeling like people will think I'm a knob"
It's quite interesting how many men have self esteem and confidence issues. Some modern women claim to be alpha women which completely destroys a man's ability to be masculine and assertive as they should be. I'm happiest when my husband takes control and wears the trousers, makes me feel all small and feminine. (Goes weak at the knees)
Over thinking is a terrible disease, cognitive behavioural therapy really helped me get it under control. |
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"I'd say I wish I was more confident. Some people are so effortlessly confident and here's my overthinking ass feeling like people will think I'm a knob"
*Scratches head looking confused*
You must be the king of all over thinkers, because that couldn't be further from the truth  |
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"What would it be?
Anything looks, personality...
For me I guess it would be my negativity,so I've said many times on here before regards my personal self loathing and how much I hate just about everything about me.
But I think all of this stems from my negativity and how I percive myself and the rest of the world.
So negativity would be binned off.
Mr.
What about you?
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Probably loose skin after drastic weight loss and also my anxiety levels... I worry about everything... Carla |
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"What would it be?
Anything looks, personality...
For me I guess it would be my negativity,so I've said many times on here before regards my personal self loathing and how much I hate just about everything about me.
But I think all of this stems from my negativity and how I percive myself and the rest of the world.
So negativity would be binned off.
Mr.
What about you?
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Or is it my chronic overthinking that causes my negativity  |
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"What would it be?
Anything looks, personality...
For me I guess it would be my negativity,so I've said many times on here before regards my personal self loathing and how much I hate just about everything about me.
But I think all of this stems from my negativity and how I percive myself and the rest of the world.
So negativity would be binned off.
Mr.
What about you?
Or is it my chronic overthinking that causes my negativity "
Tey not to overthink your overthinking! Lol |
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"What would it be?
Anything looks, personality...
For me I guess it would be my negativity,so I've said many times on here before regards my personal self loathing and how much I hate just about everything about me.
But I think all of this stems from my negativity and how I percive myself and the rest of the world.
So negativity would be binned off.
Mr.
What about you?
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Sending hugs Sometimes, or rather, most of the time we're our own worst enemies |
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One thing? I could say my whole body but then I'd eat cake and be back at square one
Instead, I wish I didn't wear my heart on my sleeve. No matter how many barriers I try to put up, the bloody thing gets me in shit situations all the damn time |
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"Just the one thing is difficult. Probably boobs. Go with that. MrsAbz
I like your boobs, beaver! (How would you change them? Bigger/smaller/perter/gravity-defying?"
Thanks RTG
I will have them made bigger. Not worried about them being perkier, just bigger
Beaver |
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By *ookie46Woman 30 weeks ago
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"One thing? I could say my whole body but then I'd eat cake and be back at square one
Instead, I wish I didn't wear my heart on my sleeve. No matter how many barriers I try to put up, the bloody thing gets me in shit situations all the damn time "
Meet your twin |
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"One thing? I could say my whole body but then I'd eat cake and be back at square one
Instead, I wish I didn't wear my heart on my sleeve. No matter how many barriers I try to put up, the bloody thing gets me in shit situations all the damn time
Meet your twin "
The more attractive twin clearly   |
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"My boobs"
This keeps on coming up. And again, you have great boobs. What’s with all this boob dissatisfaction? Is it a bit like faces - they’re right there all the time and you end up hyper-critical of them? |
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"My boobs
This keeps on coming up. And again, you have great boobs. What’s with all this boob dissatisfaction? Is it a bit like faces - they’re right there all the time and you end up hyper-critical of them?"
I’m not entirely dissatisfied with the pair I’ve grown. I’d just fancy bigger ones if I was to change one thing about myself. Id imagine they’d be perkier, bigger, and more fun. |
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"My boobs
This keeps on coming up. And again, you have great boobs. What’s with all this boob dissatisfaction? Is it a bit like faces - they’re right there all the time and you end up hyper-critical of them?
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I’m not entirely dissatisfied with the pair I’ve grown. I’d just fancy bigger ones if I was to change one thing about myself. Id imagine they’d be perkier, bigger, and more fun. "
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Would they sway seductively like pendulums against the sands of time? |
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"My boobs
This keeps on coming up. And again, you have great boobs. What’s with all this boob dissatisfaction? Is it a bit like faces - they’re right there all the time and you end up hyper-critical of them?
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I’m not entirely dissatisfied with the pair I’ve grown. I’d just fancy bigger ones if I was to change one thing about myself. Id imagine they’d be perkier, bigger, and more fun.
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Would they sway seductively like pendulums against the sands of time?"
Maybe.
I’d go topless at every opportune moment though. |
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"My boobs
This keeps on coming up. And again, you have great boobs. What’s with all this boob dissatisfaction? Is it a bit like faces - they’re right there all the time and you end up hyper-critical of them?
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I’m not entirely dissatisfied with the pair I’ve grown. I’d just fancy bigger ones if I was to change one thing about myself. Id imagine they’d be perkier, bigger, and more fun.
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Would they sway seductively like pendulums against the sands of time?
Maybe.
I’d go topless at every opportune moment though. "
As long as you keep doing what you do and send me a picture of them three times a day, I’m good with whatever you choose  |
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Height I guess
Longer legs required
I'm not hung up on being a shortarse (I actually quite like it overall)
I would, however, like to be tall enough to carry my podge better
I'm not bothered by being chubby either, I think weight just carries better on taller men |
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"My boobs
This keeps on coming up. And again, you have great boobs. What’s with all this boob dissatisfaction? Is it a bit like faces - they’re right there all the time and you end up hyper-critical of them?
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I’m not entirely dissatisfied with the pair I’ve grown. I’d just fancy bigger ones if I was to change one thing about myself. Id imagine they’d be perkier, bigger, and more fun.
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Would they sway seductively like pendulums against the sands of time?
Maybe.
I’d go topless at every opportune moment though.
As long as you keep doing what you do and send me a picture of them three times a day, I’m good with whatever you choose "
Thrice a day? Who has time for that? I’d be living life. Larger. |
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"My boobs
This keeps on coming up. And again, you have great boobs. What’s with all this boob dissatisfaction? Is it a bit like faces - they’re right there all the time and you end up hyper-critical of them?
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I’m not entirely dissatisfied with the pair I’ve grown. I’d just fancy bigger ones if I was to change one thing about myself. Id imagine they’d be perkier, bigger, and more fun.
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Would they sway seductively like pendulums against the sands of time?
Maybe.
I’d go topless at every opportune moment though.
As long as you keep doing what you do and send me a picture of them three times a day, I’m good with whatever you choose
Thrice a day? Who has time for that? I’d be living life. Larger. "
I’d be prepared to negotiate down to twice a day, I’m not an unreasonable man  |
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"My boobs
This keeps on coming up. And again, you have great boobs. What’s with all this boob dissatisfaction? Is it a bit like faces - they’re right there all the time and you end up hyper-critical of them?"
Aww thanks RTG I've never liked mine. I do put pics up now with them but never used to. I'd prefer them to be a bit bigger, a bit more top heavy and more perky. I basically need a boob job |
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My skin. Well, that's what I would pick right now. I just want clear skin. 20 years of acne and maybe a few good days a month is starting to really get me down realising this is a life long problem.
I hope you manage to have more of a positive outlook as time goes on. I used to be the same, well, self-loathing. But I'm much kinder to myself these days and I feel much better for it. |
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Just yo learn that sometimes you have to tell it as it is rather than being nice all the time. It does not come natutally and my patience has really been tested today. I don't mean to be nasty but to just tell some home truths. I am working on it |
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"Just yo learn that sometimes you have to tell it as it is rather than being nice all the time. It does not come natutally and my patience has really been tested today. I don't mean to be nasty but to just tell some home truths. I am working on it "
This is more it less what I was about to write!
I sometimes think I'm "too nice" and just say yes to people to keep the peace etc |
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"Just yo learn that sometimes you have to tell it as it is rather than being nice all the time. It does not come natutally and my patience has really been tested today. I don't mean to be nasty but to just tell some home truths. I am working on it
This is more it less what I was about to write!
I sometimes think I'm "too nice" and just say yes to people to keep the peace etc"
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"Taller legs, I always wanted to be taller.
No one wants sex with you when you're tall. "
Really height doesn’t matter when you’re lay down or bent over!!
Is it because you tower over the guy and they feel insecure? |
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Physically so many things I'd change but I'd like to be more relaxed when it comes to letting guys join us . Think it's because I don't think I'm as hot and sexy as hubby tells me . So find it hard to relax at 1st around guys joining us xx |
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Maybe I’m at that stage I don’t worry about the physical things. I can only be what I am and I can work a bit in my weight and squiggly bits
I’d like more confidence in talking to people at things, maybe it was easier when younger and drinking at pubs/clubs in the day with that ‘fuckit just talk to them’ |
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Motivation
I want to lose weight but don't help myself. I have home improvements to finish but can't find the time. Same with going to the gym, meeting friends, finding meets etc.
I have the power to fix all of this but my motivation is severely lacking. I get home from work and after sorting the kids out have absolutely nothing left for myself.
I don't want anything in my life to magically change but I wish I could change my ability to do it for myself. |
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"Motivation
I want to lose weight but don't help myself. I have home improvements to finish but can't find the time. Same with going to the gym, meeting friends, finding meets etc.
I have the power to fix all of this but my motivation is severely lacking. I get home from work and after sorting the kids out have absolutely nothing left for myself.
I don't want anything in my life to magically change but I wish I could change my ability to do it for myself."
This , so much |
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"Could do with a new back, but apart from that I’m good.
The mr
If yours is holding you back with your Mrs, just drop me a line and I will pop over to help!"
No I’m good mate, the more you message and the more you comment, the more you make my skin crawl.
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"Could do with a new back, but apart from that I’m good.
The mr
If yours is holding you back with your Mrs, just drop me a line and I will pop over to help!
No I’m good mate, the more you message and the more you comment, the more you make my skin crawl.
The mr "
And there was me thinking we were allowed free speech
Sorry, I won't bother you any more. |
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"Could do with a new back, but apart from that I’m good.
The mr
If yours is holding you back with your Mrs, just drop me a line and I will pop over to help!
No I’m good mate, the more you message and the more you comment, the more you make my skin crawl.
The mr
And there was me thinking we were allowed free speech
Sorry, I won't bother you any more."
A budding bromance on the cards here
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"Could do with a new back, but apart from that I’m good.
The mr
If yours is holding you back with your Mrs, just drop me a line and I will pop over to help!
No I’m good mate, the more you message and the more you comment, the more you make my skin crawl.
The mr
And there was me thinking we were allowed free speech
Sorry, I won't bother you any more."
Say what you want youth, but for a man desperate to fuck my wife, you’re going the wrong way about it.
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My weight if I exercise a lot i can stay trim, but I stop or have a binge I pile on the pounds. Especially as I've gotten older. Maybe it's exercise/ age or maybe it's dad tax stealing sweets from my kids. |
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