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"Would want a pic of the broken foot , how many days before did he cancel op ? "
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Both times it was me messaging on the day to confirm the time, that he cancelled.
If he had contacted me it might have been different |
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"Same guy ......
1st excuse he was too nervous
2nd excuse he broke his foot
Not giving him a chance for a 3rd
I mean I'd give him the 1st time, I'd ask for a pic of said broken foot lol."
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I didn't believe him, if the shoe was on the other foot  I would have sent a pic |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Would want a pic of the broken foot , how many days before did he cancel op ?
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Both times it was me messaging on the day to confirm the time, that he cancelled.
If he had contacted me it might have been different "
Yeah after hearing that would not be giving a third chance , didn’t even let you know  |
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I had one who said he couldn't get online, to reply to my message asking if we were still meeting.He managed to get on fine the next morning.
He then tied to tell me when we'd meet again, I don't think so sunshine, blocked. |
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By *elloWoman 32 weeks ago
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When this question is asked of always seems to be mostly women and some couples who answer about men who have given crappy excuses.
Do women and trans/TVs not cancel with crappy excuses, do they just tell the truth or aldo they actually turn up to meetings they've arranged |
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"Do women and trans/TVs not cancel with crappy excuses, do they just tell the truth or do they actually turn up to meetings they've arranged?"
I’ve had my share of cancellations from women. They’re usually reasonable and believable excuses though. You could even call them reasons, rather than excuses. |
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After almost 2 hours after the agreed meet time in a hotel we’d paid for, a Guy told us he had got a better offer!
A week later he had a new profile and messaged saying he’d like to still meet us.
We didn’t meet him |
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I used to keep a list of excuses for cancelling on me. It did get to the ridiculous stage. These are from different guys.
Rain was too heavy
Injured themselves playing with kids
Firework damaged car
No show but had ended up in hospital
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The one I had was a message to say on way in car on motorway. Then message not far at motorway Junction near me. Problem which I already knew was that they could not be on motorway as closed . Had been for several hours. No show of course . At least I was at home and not travelled. |
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Do women and trans/TVs not cancel with crappy excuses, do they just tell the truth or aldo they actually turn up to meetings they've arranged "
Social meet: “I have a driving lesson I forgot about”
At the time. I thought at least it is a step up from I’m washing my hair.
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Same person: I forgot I had said I'd help my parents in their garden and then 2nd time, I'm feeling poorly and a bit dizzy
Someone from the water company is here to do some work
Work booked me onto another shift and hadn't realised |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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The only cancellation I’ve ever had was a person who I met socially, and made plans with to meet a few days later.
They were stuck in traffic for hours, supposedly, but fancied chatting for hours. Finally, made it back and then needed sleep because they were supposedly up all night walking over ten miles as their Uber left them in the middle of nowhere. They were on a work do at a horse race the night before. They were overly communicative during all this, tbf. Three plus years later, they still try to get me to meet them again. I won’t waste my time. |
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ooh the guy that 40 minutes before we were going to meet for a social he had insisted on - im sorry i am going to have to cancel my sister is in a bad way and needs me, her husband died last week, so i need to be with her.
a couple of days later was displaying a verification and picture from outside a club - where he had been on a meet!!  |
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By *rBobbMan 32 weeks ago
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We were supposed to meet for a social. I was there early and 10 minutes before the agreed time. I had a message saying she couldn't make it as she had to break up a dog fight and needed to comfort one of the owners. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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I have had a message before to say they are on their way and never turned up, deleted profile and never heard from them again, makes you wonder what happened |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Forgot it was his mum’s 50th birthday party so needed to cancel last minute, bless."
Proper translation, "his mum would not let him out until he finished the washing up, did his homework and walked the dog" (leave the children alone  ) |
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Had someone saying sorry I didn’t think you were serious about meeting and I’m now in bed - it was 9.30pm and he lived no more than 30 mins from hotel
Next hotel meet he did turn up - slept rather than had fun as was tired and gave me covid
(If you are reading this …. I didn’t name you as I don’t fancy being blocked) |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"When this question is asked of always seems to be mostly women and some couples who answer about men who have given crappy excuses.
Do women and trans/TVs not cancel with crappy excuses, do they just tell the truth or aldo they actually turn up to meetings they've arranged "
I was noting that all the excuses were from men. I've never had a no show, though I have shown up to find she had another gentleman with her - completely forgot she double booked, I just pretended I was a friend calling round (we had known each other a while!) |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Had someone saying sorry I didn’t think you were serious about meeting and I’m now in bed - it was 9.30pm and he lived no more than 30 mins from hotel
Next hotel meet he did turn up - slept rather than had fun as was tired and gave me covid
(If you are reading this …. I didn’t name you as I don’t fancy being blocked)"
Shhh, I know that feeling. I used to imagine I could be up all night, but a nice cuddle and a comfy pillow and zzzzzz |
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"Had someone saying sorry I didn’t think you were serious about meeting and I’m now in bed - it was 9.30pm and he lived no more than 30 mins from hotel
Next hotel meet he did turn up - slept rather than had fun as was tired and gave me covid
(If you are reading this …. I didn’t name you as I don’t fancy being blocked)
Shhh, I know that feeling. I used to imagine I could be up all night, but a nice cuddle and a comfy pillow and zzzzzz"
I have two comfy pillows he could have used  |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Had someone saying sorry I didn’t think you were serious about meeting and I’m now in bed - it was 9.30pm and he lived no more than 30 mins from hotel
Next hotel meet he did turn up - slept rather than had fun as was tired and gave me covid
(If you are reading this …. I didn’t name you as I don’t fancy being blocked)
Shhh, I know that feeling. I used to imagine I could be up all night, but a nice cuddle and a comfy pillow and zzzzzz
I have two comfy pillows he could have used "
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Had someone saying sorry I didn’t think you were serious about meeting and I’m now in bed - it was 9.30pm and he lived no more than 30 mins from hotel
Next hotel meet he did turn up - slept rather than had fun as was tired and gave me covid
(If you are reading this …. I didn’t name you as I don’t fancy being blocked)
Shhh, I know that feeling. I used to imagine I could be up all night, but a nice cuddle and a comfy pillow and zzzzzz
I have two comfy pillows he could have used
secretly views profile "
hmmmm - that didn't go well! |
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"Forgot it was his mum’s 50th birthday party so needed to cancel last minute, bless.
Proper translation, "his mum would not let him out until he finished the washing up, did his homework and walked the dog" (leave the children alone )"
He was a fully grown man in his late 20s  |
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"Forgot it was his mum’s 50th birthday party so needed to cancel last minute, bless.
Proper translation, "his mum would not let him out until he finished the washing up, did his homework and walked the dog" (leave the children alone )
He was a fully grown man in his late 20s "
even worse - needed to tidy his room !! |
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"Forgot it was his mum’s 50th birthday party so needed to cancel last minute, bless.
Proper translation, "his mum would not let him out until he finished the washing up, did his homework and walked the dog" (leave the children alone )
He was a fully grown man in his late 20s
even worse - needed to tidy his room !!"
We’re clearly talking about the same guy! |
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