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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents? |
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It's a great profile but I personally think people may be put off with by the statement " good looking people only " as a lot of people may feel they're not good looking even if they are. Just my thoughts x |
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I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.
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"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.
Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?"
Only if you're trying to shag her I guess. |
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"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.
Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?
Only if you're trying to shag her I guess."
That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.
Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?
Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.
That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead."
Inappropriate but not completely off the table? |
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By *essTTWoman 30 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?"
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"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.
Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?
Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.
That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead.
Inappropriate but not completely off the table? "
Technically it’s on the table… that’s where I keep her urn. |
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By *TG3Man 30 weeks ago
Dorchester |
"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?"
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Obviously it's up to you but you don't need to ask for only good looking people, it's subjective after all.
You can choose to ignore, or politely decline, those that you aren't attracted to. It does seem to be seen as a negative by some on here so might be worth removing it. But it's your profile, your choice and hope you find all the gorgeous peeps you are looking for.
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"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?"
To me your profile comes across as "we are gorgeous and have lots of money and only meet the same" and as such is likely to put off the average swinger.
I'm sure that wasn't your intention but it certainly doesn't appeal to me. |
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By *elloWoman 30 weeks ago
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I'd be out at the quality over quantity part, I don't think I'm that good a quality.
And then you want attractive people, doubly out for me.
Then you say about 420 , phew now I'm relieved I'm out  |
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"I'd be out at the quality over quantity part, I don't think I'm that good a quality.
And then you want attractive people, doubly out for me.
Then you say about 420 , phew now I'm relieved I'm out "
I'd rather people admit to 420 etc... excellent filter so I can avoid them. |
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"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.
Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?
Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.
That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead.
Inappropriate but not completely off the table?
Technically it’s on the table… that’s where I keep her urn."
well that escalated  |
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"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.
Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?
Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.
That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead.
Inappropriate but not completely off the table?
Technically it’s on the table… that’s where I keep her urn.well that escalated "
was it wrong to laugh  |
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"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.
Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?
Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.
That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead.
Inappropriate but not completely off the table?
Technically it’s on the table… that’s where I keep her urn.well that escalated
was it wrong to laugh "
it was dead funny  |
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
"It's a great profile but I personally think people may be put off with by the statement " good looking people only " as a lot of people may feel they're not good looking even if they are. Just my thoughts x"
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
"I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.
Sorry to be equally unhelpful. "
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
True and clear - Soft Swap is just us having sex - but we love to kiss and play with others and close out the oth each other - Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
"Agree with my esteemed Forumites above. "Good looking" is subjective. Also the "soft swap but open to everything" is super confusing: what does that even mean?! "
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
True it can be overbearing - it's just the way it is now X Thank you
- Happy Fabbing XXX
"I'm not sure the hundreds of messages and unsolicited pics would class as paradise for many.
Mrs "
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Yeah Hubby here I may do that - Maybe it's better - but I am sure it's shot in the dark
Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
"Hey OP
Same as what the above 2 gorgeous peeps have said 
But also have you considered setting up a single womens profile?
S xxx"
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
"I would also ignore your profile based on the "good looking people only"
Good looking is subjective, I've zero idea what you find good looking, it comes across a little pretentious.
Mrs "
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
lol Good Looking is subjective - who are we to say we are good looking - Point Taken and Happy Fabbing Xx
"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
RIP and sorry - Happy Fabbing XXx
"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.
Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?
Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.
That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead."
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Male Half - Happy Fabbing X
"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?are you a woman or a couple? "
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
That is not the intent and I have re worked it - but we are generally good ppl
Still finding our way - Happy Fabbing X
"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?
To me your profile comes across as "we are gorgeous and have lots of money and only meet the same" and as such is likely to put off the average swinger.
I'm sure that wasn't your intention but it certainly doesn't appeal to me."
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"I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.
Sorry to be equally unhelpful.
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Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
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And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too.  |
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Absolutely quite so - There is someone for everyone in this wild world - I am just looking for consistency- and someone who carry a conversation and all the extras is a bonus - Happy Fabbing and Be Great Xx
"It may seem that but everyone has preferences so we would only match with a tiny proportion of those people. Yes if a woman will fuck anyone then she will be busy but how many women would that be?"
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Ladies paradise means I now think of the garden of Eden as a video game where you as Eve have to swat away a constant deluge of unwanted penii, and if you game over and just delete the whole inbox you lose the level prize of someone actually worth talking to |
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Sigh Sonia the world lol - Happy Fabbing XXX
"Ladies paradise means I now think of the garden of Eden as a video game where you as Eve have to swat away a constant deluge of unwanted penii, and if you game over and just delete the whole inbox you lose the level prize of someone actually worth talking to "
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed
"I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.
Sorry to be equally unhelpful.
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Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
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And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too. "
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Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed
I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.
Sorry to be equally unhelpful.
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Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
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And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too. "
Upgraded to beautiful now. Lol GL |
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By *ark73XXXMan 30 weeks ago
North Staffs/South Cheshire |
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Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed
I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.
Sorry to be equally unhelpful.
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Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
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And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too.
Upgraded to beautiful now. Lol GL"
I’m afraid some people are beyond help |
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Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed
I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.
Sorry to be equally unhelpful.
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Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
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And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too.
Upgraded to beautiful now. Lol GL
I’m afraid some people are beyond help "
Normally I would sigh and wonder but reading the profile and the responses on here, suggests the OP themselves have a healthy self esteem level (good, it is nice to see positivity) and possibly assume that others have the same confidence. Hence, they think most other people are assured of their own beauty?
It actually doesn't read that badly to me really.
MrsAbz |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed
I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.
Sorry to be equally unhelpful.
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Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
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And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too.
Upgraded to beautiful now. Lol GL
I’m afraid some people are beyond help
Normally I would sigh and wonder but reading the profile and the responses on here, suggests the OP themselves have a healthy self esteem level (good, it is nice to see positivity) and possibly assume that others have the same confidence. Hence, they think most other people are assured of their own beauty?
It actually doesn't read that badly to me really.
MrsAbz"
That's because they took on board the advise and tinkered with their profile
Which is, I think, the 1st time in ages that that's actually happened!!!!! |
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Respect changed as per your guidance Happy Fabbing XXX
"I'd be out at the quality over quantity part, I don't think I'm that good a quality.
And then you want attractive people, doubly out for me.
Then you say about 420 , phew now I'm relieved I'm out "
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Dubai is amazing - Great Scene Happy Fabbing X
"Not sure I'm qualified to even reply to this thread tbh lol.
One thing I can say, if you are going to swing, Dubai looks like a lovely location for it lol."
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Hello and thank You - Yeah it's for Male half will give it a shot X
"I'm not sure if you as a couple are looking for a single women or just one of you if so which one ..
If its one of you maybe make a singles profile and go from their.. "
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Always take advice and always listen - no one is perfect and sometimes you need another pair of eyes - ahem boobs and balls lol - Thank You X
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Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed
I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.
Sorry to be equally unhelpful.
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Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX
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And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too.
Upgraded to beautiful now. Lol GL
I’m afraid some people are beyond help
Normally I would sigh and wonder but reading the profile and the responses on here, suggests the OP themselves have a healthy self esteem level (good, it is nice to see positivity) and possibly assume that others have the same confidence. Hence, they think most other people are assured of their own beauty?
It actually doesn't read that badly to me really.
MrsAbz
That's because they took on board the advise and tinkered with their profile
Which is, I think, the 1st time in ages that that's actually happened!!!!!"
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"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?"
Socials, clubs, chatrooms... as you said, Message boxes are full. |
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I host Scissor Sisters WOMEN only event on Wednesday 3rd July in Flirts at Xtasia.
Women who are interested in meeting other women for social, play or both?
Read bottom of my profile for more information.
Any questions, feel free to ask.
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
West London |
Awesome X
"I host Scissor Sisters WOMEN only event on Wednesday 3rd July in Flirts at Xtasia.
Women who are interested in meeting other women for social, play or both?
Read bottom of my profile for more information.
Any questions, feel free to ask.
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I don't think that's always true.
You're best bet is to always read the profile and make sure you're actually compatible.
Send a polite msg with a face pic.
Always offer to have a no pressure social first.
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By *XBCPL OP Man 30 weeks ago
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Fair and appreciate the advice - Hapoy Fabbing X
"I don't think that's always true.
You're best bet is to always read the profile and make sure you're actually compatible.
Send a polite msg with a face pic.
Always offer to have a no pressure social first.
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