For me it definitely isn't no feelings. I've met people only once before and had feelings...not ' lovey dovey'. But definitely felt something. It's just no commitment or expectation of any commitment. |
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It's not a term I use.
When I have people ask me about it, most often they seem to mean "living breathing sex toy" or similar, or maybe "living breathing sex toy that I'm minimally polite to".
For the most part I develop friendships here, just friendships that also involve sex. I'm very clear that I don't want a relationship style commitment or children out of the arrangement, and act accordingly, but I've got strings galore. |
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To me it is just that. We can fuck. If that goes well we can do it again but that is where the line is. We aren't getting involved in each other's lives. Doesn't mean no respect and certainly doesn't mean we can't be friends. It's about boundaries and sticking to them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"It means you are not in a committed relationship - your meets are just for fun and you don’t owe anything to the other person than to be a decent human."
Totally this.  |
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As previously mentioned, and has been demonstrated here, I tend to ask what NSA actually means to anyone I might be considering engaging with. That way I can make an informed decision over whether to continue because actually, I DO want some strings - how can you form a friendship without some strings? And for me, there's rarely any intimacy without that friendship/connection. |
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I'm never clear on this because it's open to interpretation, and therefore I never use the term myself.
I don't need a relationship or a spousal type commitment. But I need feelings. Lots of feelings and an emotional connection of varying degrees. |
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Many things.
Get a text, turn up, fuck and go.
Have a cuppa first/wine/food, little chat, fuck and go.
As above with added chat after the fuck before the go.
Dinner and drinks, fuck, stay overnight and go in the morning.
Shopping, spa, restaurant, fuck, stay the weekend, go.
All can be done with no strings.
I have platonic relationships that are no strings.
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"It means it's not for me. I'm not sure there's a clear definition but I like strings. "
Strings, strings , strings.
All I pictures is cum strings...I don't want those. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"After reading another thread I have to ask, do we agree what No Strings means.
For me it doesn't mean no feelings or no respect "
You can respect someone but don't develop inappropriate feelings to someone. NSA |
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By *eliWoman 32 weeks ago
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"It means it's not for me. I'm not sure there's a clear definition but I like strings.
Strings, strings , strings.
All I pictures is cum strings...I don't want those. "
Weirdo. I once read a description of it as ropes across a woman's face. I'll take the strings. |
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"But isn't about that. It's about no drama, no commitment."
Exactly. You still have to fancy the person. Mentally, physically, emotionally, the lot. You just both agree that it’s sex, not a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"But isn't about that. It's about no drama, no commitment.
Exactly. You still have to fancy the person. Mentally, physically, emotionally, the lot. You just both agree that it’s sex, not a relationship."
Maybe not emotionally. But the rest yes.
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