Got a nice response, happy to chat etc but confirmed not attracted and it wouldn't go further. What an absolute star of a response. Don't have to wonder about anything, just look for someone who might. So refreshing. Wonder how many respond that way? |
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Plenty probably do if they get an appropriate message to respond to and haven't already been drowned in the mistake of responding to the hey hru messages just to get various abuse and insistent but why messages  |
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"Got a nice response, happy to chat etc but confirmed not attracted and it wouldn't go further. What an absolute star of a response. Don't have to wonder about anything, just look for someone who might. So refreshing. Wonder how many respond that way?"
Was it a man? I hear they have empty inboxes  |
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"Got a nice response, happy to chat etc but confirmed not attracted and it wouldn't go further. What an absolute star of a response. Don't have to wonder about anything, just look for someone who might. So refreshing. Wonder how many respond that way?"
It's always nice to get a response even if it is a no thanks.
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By *TG3Man 35 weeks ago
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"Got a nice response, happy to chat etc but confirmed not attracted and it wouldn't go further. What an absolute star of a response. Don't have to wonder about anything, just look for someone who might. So refreshing. Wonder how many respond that way?
Was it a man? I hear they have empty inboxes "
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"It was a woman and given the imbalance here, it's nice to receive a polite no"
Genuinely can I ask why? A no, is still a no regardless. No response is also still a no. Why is it some men seem to place this 'value' on a woman telling them no (politely of course!). Is it that it ticks men's narratives of women MUST acknowledge them, and in some cases their unwanted approaches. And then be polite to not hurt the man's feelings? |
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"It was a woman and given the imbalance here, it's nice to receive a polite no
Genuinely can I ask why? A no, is still a no regardless. No response is also still a no. Why is it some men seem to place this 'value' on a woman telling them no (politely of course!). Is it that it ticks men's narratives of women MUST acknowledge them, and in some cases their unwanted approaches. And then be polite to not hurt the man's feelings? "
Innit. We don't owe anyone anything. |
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