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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people will do anything to get themselves a bit of friends and family discount 
Don't be worrying about lying, be smiling because someone asked you out.
It is a nice feeling.
Sometimes being on sites like this, we forget about the simple stuff  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"then why lie?
being married wouldn't necessarily put some off anyway"
Because I didn't want to be nasty so was easier to say I was married then say no I'm single but your not for me, easier to do it on the Internet but not face to face xxx |
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"Just been asked out by a customer in the shop, lied and sad I couldn't as I was married. I'm widowed but still wear my ring. Hated lying "
. Do you class yourself as married still although your widowed.??? I was widowed 18 mths ago I class myself as a married woman but single if that makes sense......don't know your circumstances but I've learnt since becoming a widow you don't know what's round the corner so I'd say go for it. Apologise to him as you were a bit taken aback by the invite,,, but do it,,,,,,,,,go girl
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"Just been asked out by a customer in the shop, lied and sad I couldn't as I was married. I'm widowed but still wear my ring. Hated lying . Do you class yourself as married still although your widowed.??? I was widowed 18 mths ago I class myself as a married woman but single if that makes sense......don't know your circumstances but I've learnt since becoming a widow you don't know what's round the corner so I'd say go for it. Apologise to him as you were a bit taken aback by the invite,,, but do it,,,,,,,,,go girl"
I'm not sure, yes in a way I still class myself as married, even spent yesterday with my lovely in laws but I know I'm single as he's never going to be here but also even though its been years would still feel a bit awkward having a boyfriend I know one day it will happen and I can't be alone forever but I feel the guilt as well |
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"Just been asked out by a customer in the shop, lied and sad I couldn't as I was married. I'm widowed but still wear my ring. Hated lying . Do you class yourself as married still although your widowed.??? I was widowed 18 mths ago I class myself as a married woman but single if that makes sense......don't know your circumstances but I've learnt since becoming a widow you don't know what's round the corner so I'd say go for it. Apologise to him as you were a bit taken aback by the invite,,, but do it,,,,,,,,,go girl .......
I'm not sure, yes in a way I still class myself as married, even spent yesterday with my lovely in laws but I know I'm single as he's never going to be here but also even though its been years would still feel a bit awkward having a boyfriend I know one day it will happen and I can't be alone forever but I feel the guilt as well "
. Know exactly where your comin from with the guilt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's funny the lies you tell to avoid continued conversation with strangers, when I was first widowed I told strangers that asked about it that I was divorced, saved dealing with that whole conversation, never was sure whose benefit that lie was for, seemed that I couldn't handle false sympathy, but also didn't want to put them in that situation either.
Similarly when out with female friends I have been husband, brother, friend or some guy she met in the last bar, depending on how much she fancied or otherwise the guy doing the asking. |
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