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By *elloWoman 27 weeks ago
alpha centauri |
I'm not very good at being in a relationship, gets very claustrophobic.
But I do miss having access to a safe willy, without having to plan meeting up in a neutral, populated area to make sure they're not a complete nutter or their photos weren't actually 15 years old. |
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Tbh I like some aspects others not so much I’ve been single 7 years I’ve tried dating apps joined here bc they were so disappointing I’d like a happy medium so a fwb but even that seems impossible to find |
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I kinda like it - can do what I want and answer to no-one. However, there are times when I miss it. When I've had a shit day & just want a cuddle, Christmas, special occasions. Luckily I'm happy going on holiday and doing most things alone, but sometimes you need more than an FWB, or fuck buddy. |
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"Tbh I like some aspects others not so much I’ve been single 7 years I’ve tried dating apps joined here bc they were so disappointing I’d like a happy medium so a fwb but even that seems impossible to find "
Join the club! It ain't easy  |
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By *rBobbMan 27 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"I kinda like it - can do what I want and answer to no-one. However, there are times when I miss it. When I've had a shit day & just want a cuddle, Christmas, special occasions. Luckily I'm happy going on holiday and doing most things alone, but sometimes you need more than an FWB, or fuck buddy. "
I agree with this. Both have their benefits and sometimes you need a little bit of both |
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Mr and I don't live together, but we are very much a couple. I think we have the best of both worlds. We've got the special someone in our lives, but we both like our independence and have no desire to move in together. Best relationship I've had! |
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By *C79Man 27 weeks ago
Caterham |
I now like being single after what turned out to be a bad relationship. I enjoy the peace and freedom that I lost but I do hope to find a Fab FWB some day so that we can go to events together & enjoy some couples fun & sharing/swapping. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 27 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Mr and I don't live together, but we are very much a couple. I think we have the best of both worlds. We've got the special someone in our lives, but we both like our independence and have no desire to move in together. Best relationship I've had! "
This 100%
All the joys of single life with the added bonus of an emotional support human.  |
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"It’s good because I get much better sleep by myself.
It’s bad because having sex with single men is proving difficult.  "
Why are us single men difficult? Interesting to hear from the other side of the fence |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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This. This right here.
I was in relationships for pretty much my whole 20s. Yes there are some big benefits (someone to go home to after a shit day, someone to go to bed beside at night, sex on tap etc.). But there’s just something about the freedom. Getting up when you want, watching what you want, deciding when you want to do something. |
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By *929Man 27 weeks ago
newcastle |
I like it now but still have the odd sad moment/night out of nowhere. Took a lot of getting used too after 15 years living with someone was sad and lonely for a long time think being in the same house we once all lived together in made it harder to move on. Now enjoy it more had a great couple of weeks with the weather making feel so much better overall I like it a lot more now |
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"I kinda like it - can do what I want and answer to no-one. However, there are times when I miss it. When I've had a shit day & just want a cuddle, Christmas, special occasions. Luckily I'm happy going on holiday and doing most things alone, but sometimes you need more than an FWB, or fuck buddy. "
That and the statistical probability a married man will outlive me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Lone wolf and more than content in life. Still, if someone truly special comes into my life then what will be will be; we never say never. Just like money and power can change a person so can unconditional love. |
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It’s good to not be in a bad relationship.
It’s bad to not be in a good relationship.
Fucking hell. That wore me out. No more thinking tonight.
I like being single. I don’t have to worry about my snoring. |
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"It’s good to not be in a bad relationship.
It’s bad to not be in a good relationship.
Fucking hell. That wore me out. No more thinking tonight.
I like being single. I don’t have to worry about my snoring. "
Well said, and the effort is appreciated as that makes sense.
I’ve never worried about my snoring though it’s never bothered me. It’s only ever others than have complained about it and neighbouring houses  |
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"This. This right here.
I was in relationships for pretty much my whole 20s. Yes there are some big benefits (someone to go home to after a shit day, someone to go to bed beside at night, sex on tap etc.). But there’s just something about the freedom. Getting up when you want, watching what you want, deciding when you want to do something."
I’ve had more sex in day on fab than I had in two years in my marriage. |
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"It’s good to not be in a bad relationship.
It’s bad to not be in a good relationship.
Fucking hell. That wore me out. No more thinking tonight.
I like being single. I don’t have to worry about my snoring. "
This  |
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I enjoy being single and doing what I want when I want. I would really struggle to live with someone again.
I do miss the affection and closeness and I guess meaning something to someone. Though i’m not at a stage where that outweighs the benefits of being single. |
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I’m fine being single there’s things you miss about relationships but if you have a hectic lifestyle with work, family & other elements it can make it easier in other ways. Do I miss things about a relationship yes but these things happen when they happen until then I’ll keep my eyes out for a FWB! |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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It’s a mixed bag for sure. I catch myself wandering between ‘it’d be so nice to share my life with someone’ to ‘oh I couldn’t deal with someone’s incessant presence/ I need my space’.
Obviously for the right woman I’d imagine a compromise would be found, but add in the unnatural/ un-organic ways of meeting people eg dating apps with shallow/ one dimensional profiles and half efforts on small talk and I fear I’ll be dying alone haha.
Having said that being alone has meant I’ve been able to live my own life, I’ve been able to live and work overseas without worrying about the implications on a partner, I’ve been able to live my authentic self I guess.
But sometimes when you realise how touch starved you’ve been or ‘when was the last time…’ it can be a bit depressive. |
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Indifferent is probably the best description.
When I’m single I often think it'd be nice to share experiences with someone, when I do have a GF, I often think it’d be nice to be single and do whatever I want!
Probably not healthy, but I came to terms with it a long time ago so now just enjoy (ish) the situation I find myself in. |
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"Sometimes it’s lonely being single, but not quite as lonely as when I was married to the wrong person. So there’s that "
You were lonely married to the wrong person, I felt like I was in jail married to the wrong person. |
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Affection?
Ewww no. I'll take a marriage thanks.
