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Afternoon fab familia hope you’re all well 
Do you like getting messages that compliment your photos?
Or would you just rather not get them?
I often see photos / videos and just want to say WOW but then think ‘what do they care’ haha
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By *rBobbMan 31 weeks ago
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I think paying compliments is a nice thing to do. If you really appreciate the time and effort that people have put into something and you like the end result, then I think a compliment is the right thing to do.
Equally if someone treats you well and is kind to you then it's nice to pay a compliment for that too.
When I pay someone a compliment, it is genuine and heartfelt and I do for no other reason than I appreciate who they are and what they have done. |
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I know how I look. I don't find compliments from strangers particularly relevant to me, and often just seem like the thing they think they have to say to get an in rather than an honest compliment.
Compliments from my partners though, they mean something to me  |
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By *TG3Man 31 weeks ago
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"Afternoon fab familia hope you’re all well
Do you like getting messages that compliment your photos?
Or would you just rather not get them?
I often see photos / videos and just want to say WOW but then think ‘what do they care’ haha
Intrigued to know "
Yes i take a compliment as just that a compliment  |
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I’m not one for compliments. On another site where I have my face pics, someone send me a really OTT compliment recently and I found that it really turned me off.
I did say to the person thanks but tone it down, and they did it again. That was it, blocked.
I wonder why I react that way? Not sure. I think I have a keen eye for insincerity, possibly |
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"I like to pay a compliment if a lady has good banter or looks great in pics is this wrong?"
It's not wrong, but it might not be appreciated.
I mean, I'd rather hear a compliment than an insult, but it doesn't mean that the compliment will result in anything other than a delete either.
(This is hypothetical, my message filters don't allow for such a thing) |
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"It’s hard (impossible even) to tell what’s genuinely a compliment and what is copy/pasted
Hi (insert username). You are so (insert compliment)! Fancy a (insert sexual act)?"
Hi (insert username). Your (picture) is the most stunning thing I have ever seen. You are the most beautiful woman on all the earth. I must meet you!"
This happened to me before I uploaded a single picture. It wasn't that... rational though. More deranged, like, angels had blessed the earth I walked on sort of shit. |
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"It’s hard (impossible even) to tell what’s genuinely a compliment and what is copy/pasted
Hi (insert username). You are so (insert compliment)! Fancy a (insert sexual act)?"
If I start getting messages like that I’m blaming this thread |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Yes I hand out compliments but that’s just me being me
Telling someone they beautiful doesn’t mean i instantly want to shag them I just being me being nice and trying to give them a little smile as they read
I don’t mind a compliment ither as long as it’s not totally blown over the top
Like your the most beautiful on fab or world or something like that now I know your bs I don’t need my ego stroked
Now if you would have just sed your beautiful it would have went a longer way that most beautiful on fab world or what ever |
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I like them so long as they’re not generic. If it’s about something in my profile I’m happy to receive them…
I have a problem with words like goddess and sex bomb. I’m neither…
I’ll happily give a compliment too x |
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"I know how I look. I don't find compliments from strangers particularly relevant to me, and often just seem like the thing they think they have to say to get an in rather than an honest compliment.
Compliments from my partners though, they mean something to me "
Seems fair….  |
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"Afternoon fab familia hope you’re all well
Do you like getting messages that compliment your photos?
Or would you just rather not get them?
I often see photos / videos and just want to say WOW but then think ‘what do they care’ haha
Intrigued to know "
I rarely believe them |
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"It’s hard (impossible even) to tell what’s genuinely a compliment and what is copy/pasted
Hi (insert username). You are so (insert compliment)! Fancy a (insert sexual act)?
If I start getting messages like that I’m blaming this thread "
Oops OP does not accept liability |
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"Afternoon fab familia hope you’re all well
Do you like getting messages that compliment your photos?
Or would you just rather not get them?
I often see photos / videos and just want to say WOW but then think ‘what do they care’ haha
Intrigued to know
I rarely believe them "
Why so? |
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"In the context of this site compliments are rather important surely.
Don’t think anyone’s gonna have fun if a compliment couldn’t be found beforehand  "
Oh yeah, but there's a difference between, say, you and me talking and me saying nice things in the course of that - and a random message saying "nice knockers, luv, my gorgeous man meat would smash" (particularly when it's sent more than once with identical typos each time - has happened to me, not that exact message) |
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"It’s hard (impossible even) to tell what’s genuinely a compliment and what is copy/pasted
That seems fair…. I guess if theyre specific with a certain pic "
If its specific then its much more likely to be genuine (or perceived to be genuine) I guess |
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"In the context of this site compliments are rather important surely.
Don’t think anyone’s gonna have fun if a compliment couldn’t be found beforehand
Oh yeah, but there's a difference between, say, you and me talking and me saying nice things in the course of that - and a random message saying "nice knockers, luv, my gorgeous man meat would smash" (particularly when it's sent more than once with identical typos each time - has happened to me, not that exact message)"
I mean. Anyone that can come up with gorgeous man meat deserves at least one toe in the door |
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"In the context of this site compliments are rather important surely.
Don’t think anyone’s gonna have fun if a compliment couldn’t be found beforehand
Oh yeah, but there's a difference between, say, you and me talking and me saying nice things in the course of that - and a random message saying "nice knockers, luv, my gorgeous man meat would smash" (particularly when it's sent more than once with identical typos each time - has happened to me, not that exact message)
I mean. Anyone that can come up with gorgeous man meat deserves at least one toe in the door "
It's not that original 
And it's usually in a message that's completely nauseating - some really bad writing (erotica is being too kind) that has me squirting from Salford to Stockport upon the mere sight of his gorgeous man meat or some shit. |
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Yes I do like getting compliments for making an effort.
I don't get messages about them but I have been tagged in a few threads when people discuss the quality of men's pics.
That tells me that some people do like them which is often a surprise because it's not reflected in the number of fabs they receive so it's always nice when someone says they like them. |
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"In the context of this site compliments are rather important surely.
Don’t think anyone’s gonna have fun if a compliment couldn’t be found beforehand
Oh yeah, but there's a difference between, say, you and me talking and me saying nice things in the course of that - and a random message saying "nice knockers, luv, my gorgeous man meat would smash" (particularly when it's sent more than once with identical typos each time - has happened to me, not that exact message)
I mean. Anyone that can come up with gorgeous man meat deserves at least one toe in the door
It's not that original
And it's usually in a message that's completely nauseating - some really bad writing (erotica is being too kind) that has me squirting from Salford to Stockport upon the mere sight of his gorgeous man meat or some shit."
Again clearly a standout author. A great mind of our time. Deserves a reply  |
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"In the context of this site compliments are rather important surely.
Don’t think anyone’s gonna have fun if a compliment couldn’t be found beforehand
Oh yeah, but there's a difference between, say, you and me talking and me saying nice things in the course of that - and a random message saying "nice knockers, luv, my gorgeous man meat would smash" (particularly when it's sent more than once with identical typos each time - has happened to me, not that exact message)
I mean. Anyone that can come up with gorgeous man meat deserves at least one toe in the door
It's not that original
And it's usually in a message that's completely nauseating - some really bad writing (erotica is being too kind) that has me squirting from Salford to Stockport upon the mere sight of his gorgeous man meat or some shit.
Again clearly a standout author. A great mind of our time. Deserves a reply "
I suspect any reply - which would be annotated with red pen and come with an invoice - would get me banned |
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"I'd prefer not to personally, as they always seem to be a way to push for a meet, if you do say thanks or acknowledge the message. "
Lots of horse shit on here but I think you're spot on with this comment. Hear it time and again from women that if you fab a pic, peek in non ninja mode or give a compliment it could warrant unwanted (perhaps) attention. |
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"In the context of this site compliments are rather important surely.
Don’t think anyone’s gonna have fun if a compliment couldn’t be found beforehand
Oh yeah, but there's a difference between, say, you and me talking and me saying nice things in the course of that - and a random message saying "nice knockers, luv, my gorgeous man meat would smash" (particularly when it's sent more than once with identical typos each time - has happened to me, not that exact message)
I mean. Anyone that can come up with gorgeous man meat deserves at least one toe in the door
It's not that original
And it's usually in a message that's completely nauseating - some really bad writing (erotica is being too kind) that has me squirting from Salford to Stockport upon the mere sight of his gorgeous man meat or some shit.
Again clearly a standout author. A great mind of our time. Deserves a reply
I suspect any reply - which would be annotated with red pen and come with an invoice - would get me banned "
Could be worth it. Could boost their English grade a few marks? That’s a whole life you would have saved.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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They only really mean something to me when it’s from people I love, if it’s from rando’s on the interweb then I’m almost certain they’re just thinking with their willies! |
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By *eliWoman 31 weeks ago
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If they're a standalone compliment, sometimes. I'm more likely to appreciate them if they're from someone I know and respect.
I prefer compliments about posts more than photos because... they tend not to ask of anything from me. Just people being nice. |
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On a site such as this, I take them with a pinch of salt, as more often than not there ate alterior motivates to Compliments, when they come off a complete stranger.
Also I think it all depends if you actually crave that attention, through others, as if it is some of validating experience....
When they come.off someone I know and have some sort of deeper relationship, then I know they ate genuine, and are nothing more than as they are meant...
Now compliment me ya fuckers.....
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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"Afternoon fab familia hope you’re all well
Do you like getting messages that compliment your photos?
Or would you just rather not get them?
I often see photos / videos and just want to say WOW but then think ‘what do they care’ haha
Intrigued to know "
I like complimenting photos (a Fab member has some brilliantly entertaining ones at the mo), but since I don't show any, I don't expect compliments. |
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more so we like compliments on us as a couple not just aimed at one of us or the other 
