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By (user no longer on site) OP 31 weeks ago
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I’ll probably get battered on here for this.
Is it just me but I feel like I’ve messaged everyone I could message under your saved searches?
And now it’s just the same profiles that don’t want you talking to them.
No joy  |
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So someone messages me, I immediately look at their profile - if I like the pics and bio I'll reply, if I don't or there isn't anything I won't.
Messaging everyone from a blank profile ain't going to get a response.
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By *ee69Man 31 weeks ago
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"I’ll probably get battered on here for this.
Is it just me but I feel like I’ve messaged everyone I could message under your saved searches?
And now it’s just the same profiles that don’t want you talking to them.
No joy "
Someone for everyone or so they say , maybe no on fab , hopefully somewhere m8 why not chill with the searches , and just have fun in the forum for a bit , see if there clubs near you too , a didn’t find the clubs near me my thing but you could try , might be good you never know |
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Give it a few weeks, maybe a month.
In the meantime (this is generic advice, I've not looked at your profile), spruce up your profile - appealing pictures including an avatar picture, text that gives an idea of who you are and why someone would want to meet you. Then try again.
(Persistent messages are bad, yes. But that's why I say a month. If they delete a second time, don't try again) |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Not sure I understand the messaging everyone attitude.
I may look at local people, but very few I message as my view tends to be "the women on here get inundated, if they are interested they can let me know, meanwhile I will stick to piddling around in the lounge".
I only message a very few people direct, and that will be cos their profiles (or status updates) have caught my attention. |
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Op, are you just messaging everyone who is nearby, with similar messages?.
That and having no pics at all won't be doing you any good.
It's better to spend more time making your profile the best it can be & messaging those you're genuinely interested in, rather than everyone because they're close by. |
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"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do "
Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 31 weeks ago
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"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do
Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?
Mrs "
Yep, go ahead |
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"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do
Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?
Mrs
Yep, go ahead "
Loose the 1st paragraph, there's nothing worse than a man moaning about not getting meets, even in a slightly positive way.
Make it positive, I wouldn't read past that if I looked.
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do
Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?
Mrs
Yep, go ahead "
Firstly delete "I’m quite confident no one on this app will meet me. I’ve made peace with it. So I just want to find someone I can message that might" - too negative. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 31 weeks ago
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"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do
Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?
Mrs
Yep, go ahead
Loose the 1st paragraph, there's nothing worse than a man moaning about not getting meets, even in a slightly positive way.
Make it positive, I wouldn't read past that if I looked.
Mrs "
Thanks. Was more down in the dumps than moaning but I get how it can be perceived. Will change it around. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 31 weeks ago
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"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do
Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?
Mrs
Yep, go ahead
Firstly delete "I’m quite confident no one on this app will meet me. I’ve made peace with it. So I just want to find someone I can message that might" - too negative."
Thanks mate. Yep it’s gone. |
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"I’ll probably get battered on here for this.
Is it just me but I feel like I’ve messaged everyone I could message under your saved searches?
And now it’s just the same profiles that don’t want you talking to them.
No joy "
Life’s tough 
Don’t moan and bitch about it
Move on  go talk to a lady at a bar   |
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"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do
Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?
Mrs
Yep, go ahead
Loose the 1st paragraph, there's nothing worse than a man moaning about not getting meets, even in a slightly positive way.
Make it positive, I wouldn't read past that if I looked.
Mrs
Thanks. Was more down in the dumps than moaning but I get how it can be perceived. Will change it around. "
Reads much better 
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 31 weeks ago
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"Wow, I like the way you've taken aboard the positive advice and actually action it on ur profile..Good luck on ur fab adventure  "
Yep, pride before the fall and all that jazz.
Thank you |
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Forget messaging and get yourself along to a fab social or a club if you haven't been already, Just go with the attitude of meeting new people and having fun, Its easier to get your personality across then chatting on fab, but don't expect sex just because you've turned up. |
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The scattergun approach, the "I'm not bothered what they look like, I just want the clunge".
Please tell me it was just a good old fashioned copy and paste job, not reading profiles, don't let me down OP lol. |
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Op fair play for listening to the advice given, and actually putting some action in, so many ask for it and don't do fook all about it....
You my friend are a rarity, good luck on your fab adventure...
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I wonder if there's more to what it can offer than eating pussy?
Are you sensual, rough, Dom, sub?
What kind of women are you attracted to?
What information about you might make you stand out that isn't necessarily sexual? Details matter! |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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"Wow, I like the way you've taken aboard the positive advice and actually action it on ur profile..Good luck on ur fab adventure "
It's nice to see someone give positive advice too actually, well done fabbers |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do
Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?
Mrs
Yep, go ahead
Loose the 1st paragraph, there's nothing worse than a man moaning about not getting meets, even in a slightly positive way.
Make it positive, I wouldn't read past that if I looked.
Mrs
Thanks. Was more down in the dumps than moaning but I get how it can be perceived. Will change it around.
Reads much better
Mrs "
What a lovely person |
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No advice but you've got to be brave putting your face on - sometimes there's just a drought. If you've re-written your profile update your status so people know about it. Look at meets section too, unless you're looking for absolute local someone might be out of your area but suited |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 31 weeks ago
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Hard to respond to everyone but thanks for being kind. I always start my forums with “I’ll probably get battered for this” but everyone has been nice.
I’ve taken it all on board. Had a few messages and people checking my profile out. Will see how it goes |
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