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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?

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By *eroLondonMan 34 weeks ago

Mayfair

Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion.

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By *TG3Man 34 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?"
Lose the negativity women don't like it they want to read an upbeat resume and your profile is your advert here, same difference abroad then you've got the language barrier

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?Lose the negativity women don't like it they want to read an upbeat resume and your profile is your advert here, same difference abroad then you've got the language barrier "
I'm not looking for negativity, just advice,if you're not being constructive, just don't bother.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Well, I wish you luck banging your head against the wall. Many of us have tried to give you advice, to no avail, because you seem determined to remain wedded to your sob story about how it's everyone's fault but yours.

Also, as a non-British woman... you have fun with that

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By *itaandJohnCouple 34 weeks ago

Bristol


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion."

We're thinking the same thing, it's actually quite pathetic at this point. OP needs to acquire some self reflection skills.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion."

I'm genuinely looking for help, not negativity. If you can't offer anything constructive, simply don't bother.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man 34 weeks ago

The Continental

You’ve had many pages of suggestion, you’re not taking it on board.

One would think that all you’re doing now is just trolling.

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By *rtucker79Man 34 weeks ago

WINCHESTER

lose the muscled midriff, most women much prefer an overweight dad-bod, and also a small cock that struggles to stay up... no one wants a Duracell bunny.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion.

We're thinking the same thing, it's actually quite pathetic at this point. OP needs to acquire some self reflection skills. "

if you're going to be simply negative and not constructive, please don't bother. I'm looking for help.

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By *lexV16Man 34 weeks ago

Welling

If you are so unhappy and unlucky with woman, you probably need to go date a guy and see if there is more luck for your

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion. I'm genuinely looking for help, not negativity. If you can't offer anything constructive, simply don't bother."

- listen to women

- work on yourself

- lose the grievance culture you've found yourself in

- don't lecture to or condescend women, the days when one could be outraged that a woman swears like a man are probably not in our lifetimes

- don't fall into race based stereotypes about finding women who'll appreciate you (as in another thread you've done)

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"lose the muscled midriff, most women much prefer an overweight dad-bod, and also a small cock that struggles to stay up... no one wants a Duracell bunny."
that's a woke lie my friend.. I'm not looking for negativity, I'm looking for constructive advice and help.thanks.

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By *osey WalesMan 34 weeks ago

La La Land

Not this again.

You are not after advice as the advice you have been given on the previous 2 threads has not been taken on board.

The basic advice that you were given was stop being rude, negative, self entitled and change your awful attitude towards anybody that doesnt agree with your opinions.

Last bit of oxygen i'm giving to this fire.

I'm out.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman 34 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Op, I really don't think you will find a woman wither in this country or abroad, unless you go to a country 50 years behind the times.

Your not a bad looking guy so I doubt that's stopping you. But no woman will be interested in your outdated misogynistic views

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By *ohn.Wick.Man 34 weeks ago

The Continental

If all else fails.

Fuck men.

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By *eyond PurityCouple 34 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I kind of enjoyed your posts yesterday - you got peoples backs up but then joined in the joke.

If you’re posting the same thing every day though it kind of loses its appeal.

9/10 yesterday

5/10 today

K

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion. I'm genuinely looking for help, not negativity. If you can't offer anything constructive, simply don't bother.

- listen to women

- work on yourself

- lose the grievance culture you've found yourself in

- don't lecture to or condescend women, the days when one could be outraged that a woman swears like a man are probably not in our lifetimes

- don't fall into race based stereotypes about finding women who'll appreciate you (as in another thread you've done)"

I haven't always been that way, it's just a build up of things over time, death of a 1000 cuts you could say. I'm guessing I'm just not attractive enough.

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By *ools and the brainCouple 34 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Obviously you have set your standards/expectations to high.

Have you tried going out and actually talking to someone in a "bar" mind you your just as likely to get told to go fuck yourself if you try chatting someone up.

As with many things in life sometimes the harder you try the less likely it is to happen.

Just relax and look at women as friends not potential mate's.

Let the universe decide because it'll probably happen when you least expect in the last place you'd expect.

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By *oodmessMan 34 weeks ago

yumsville

If you've not met anyone that matches you in 12yrs I'd say it's not about who's out there but more about a tick list.

Say you eventually do meet someone that is exactly what you're after but go separate ways a few months later. You could see it that you weren't what they were looking for or you could see it as they didn't meet you your expectations.

I don't know if it's a blonde/brunette, under 5'5, thing but 12yrs is a long time to be placing on other people.. maybe shift your ideals an inch.

(I've not seen any of your threads and not looked your profile btw, this is an honest, off the cuff reply)

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"I kind of enjoyed your posts yesterday - you got peoples backs up but then joined in the joke.

If you’re posting the same thing every day though it kind of loses its appeal.

9/10 yesterday

5/10 today

K"

I'm genuinely looking for help, I'm looking for constructive advice if you can only be negative please don't bother.

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By *rtucker79Man 34 weeks ago

WINCHESTER


"lose the muscled midriff, most women much prefer an overweight dad-bod, and also a small cock that struggles to stay up... no one wants a Duracell bunny. that's a woke lie my friend.. I'm not looking for negativity, I'm looking for constructive advice and help.thanks."

Where is the negativity, and was giving constructive advice, choose to take it or not that's up to you.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

Are you not bored yet?

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple 34 weeks ago

wonderland.

Our advice... don't look. We had both decided we were going to be single and just have fb and fwb in our life... as had both given up on finding a " good " person...

Then we found each other..

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Op, I really don't think you will find a woman wither in this country or abroad, unless you go to a country 50 years behind the times.

Your not a bad looking guy so I doubt that's stopping you. But no woman will be interested in your outdated misogynistic views "

I'm looking for positive, constructive help,if you can be negative please don't bother.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion. I'm genuinely looking for help, not negativity. If you can't offer anything constructive, simply don't bother.

- listen to women

- work on yourself

- lose the grievance culture you've found yourself in

- don't lecture to or condescend women, the days when one could be outraged that a woman swears like a man are probably not in our lifetimes

- don't fall into race based stereotypes about finding women who'll appreciate you (as in another thread you've done) I haven't always been that way, it's just a build up of things over time, death of a 1000 cuts you could say. I'm guessing I'm just not attractive enough."

Or maybe you could stop jumping to conclusions and listen to the things that we've been telling you the last couple of days?

Bitterness - which I see in your attitude about women only wanting wealth and status - is wildly unattractive.

And I'm being empathetic here. I've been there. It sucks. And it's soul sucking.

But listen mate, women are just people, just like you. Similar pains and insecurities. Similar struggles. British women, non-British women.

Just people.

I know your experiences have taught you a different lesson. I get that. I've been in a similar place.

In your shoes I'd put the dating thing to one side. Join some mixed social groups or something, for something you're interested in. Pretend that Samantha is Samuel and Alexandra is Alexander. Just talk to people, be yourself. Lose the bravado and the chip on your shoulder. You'll be surprised by what you find.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman 34 weeks ago

your head

Emigrate, it's really the only answer at this point. Good luck

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Ladies and Gents, I'm genuinely looking for help advice, constructive and positive please, please keep your negativity to yourself. Much appreciated, thank you.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion. I'm genuinely looking for help, not negativity. If you can't offer anything constructive, simply don't bother.

- listen to women

- work on yourself

- lose the grievance culture you've found yourself in

- don't lecture to or condescend women, the days when one could be outraged that a woman swears like a man are probably not in our lifetimes

- don't fall into race based stereotypes about finding women who'll appreciate you (as in another thread you've done) I haven't always been that way, it's just a build up of things over time, death of a 1000 cuts you could say. I'm guessing I'm just not attractive enough.

Or maybe you could stop jumping to conclusions and listen to the things that we've been telling you the last couple of days?

Bitterness - which I see in your attitude about women only wanting wealth and status - is wildly unattractive.

And I'm being empathetic here. I've been there. It sucks. And it's soul sucking.

But listen mate, women are just people, just like you. Similar pains and insecurities. Similar struggles. British women, non-British women.

Just people.

I know your experiences have taught you a different lesson. I get that. I've been in a similar place.

In your shoes I'd put the dating thing to one side. Join some mixed social groups or something, for something you're interested in. Pretend that Samantha is Samuel and Alexandra is Alexander. Just talk to people, be yourself. Lose the bravado and the chip on your shoulder. You'll be surprised by what you find. "

okay. That's good, thanks

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By *eyond PurityCouple 34 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"I kind of enjoyed your posts yesterday - you got peoples backs up but then joined in the joke.

If you’re posting the same thing every day though it kind of loses its appeal.

9/10 yesterday

5/10 today

K I'm genuinely looking for help, I'm looking for constructive advice if you can only be negative please don't bother."

Nothing negative in my post at all.

Read the advice you got given yesterday - saves you posting the same thread every day

At least you reply and quote now - so you’ve taken something on board

Good luck on here

K

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Are you not bored yet? "
I'm genuinely looking for constructive help, nothing negative please. Thanks

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ladies and Gents, I'm genuinely looking for help advice, constructive and positive please, please keep your negativity to yourself. Much appreciated, thank you."

Most of what you've labelled negativity is actually good advice. Please give it some consideration.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman 34 weeks ago

your head


"Ladies and Gents, I'm genuinely looking for help advice, constructive and positive please, please keep your negativity to yourself. Much appreciated, thank you."

I answered your question, nothing negative there. Are you looking for something more specific because that's not what the original post says?

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By *eroLondonMan 34 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion.

·

I'm genuinely looking for help, not negativity. If you can't offer anything constructive, simply don't bother."

I don't recall being negative. I do recall you being evasive: I asked you umpteen threads ago if you being a "...date free guy of over 12 years" (your words, not mine) was because you chose to be that way.

As for you "genuinely looking for help" - I think you're being disingenuous.

If you were really looking for help you would now reflect upon the previous threads, take on board some of the invaluable advice and viewpoints kindly offered by the others, ponder for a while with the information you've been given, take a break and think how you could improve whatever you're trying fruitlessly to improve...and then come back (!) after a few days with some insightful updates on how you're getting on. Instead you're just creating a production-line of threads and getting swamped in analysis-paralysis.

Make some tea. Have some cake .

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By *ools and the brainCouple 34 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"Ladies and Gents, I'm genuinely looking for help advice, constructive and positive please, please keep your negativity to yourself. Much appreciated, thank you."

And I have,you are clearly setting your expectations too high.

Some time ago there was a female woman on here who's list of must haves for a guy was extensive, right down to body fat percentage and colour and size of eyebrows.

(She's left site sometime ago)

Anyway she was always complaining about the guy's she meet's being no good...

My point being that if you are constantly let down then perhaps start looking at yourself as the problem rather than others.

Just saying

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Not this again.

You are not after advice as the advice you have been given on the previous 2 threads has not been taken on board.

The basic advice that you were given was stop being rude, negative, self entitled and change your awful attitude towards anybody that doesnt agree with your opinions.

Last bit of oxygen i'm giving to this fire.

I'm out.

"

I'm genuinely looking for constructive help, please keep your negativity to yourself. Thanks

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By *ealitybitesMan 34 weeks ago

Belfast

Emigrate

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

Well for a start op maybe would help if you didn’t paint all woman as gold diggers

Maybe it would help if you didn’t insult people on threads before

Would suspect the best advice to give you

Would be to leave fab as no doubt you probably racked up a ton off blocks by now

Leave it a couple off months re join and change your outlook and attitude towards woman

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

Open Your mind. Relax. Its not a battle. Laugh, cry, enjoy other people regardless of age, sex, size or colour, ask questions of others, get to know people of all varieties, learn from them, open You're mind. How do others manage relationships, what do they do, how do they do it. Surely a gym is a good place to start, help people out, if the gym is all males, maybe try another?

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"Are you not bored yet? I'm genuinely looking for constructive help, nothing negative please. Thanks "

You would have been given constructive advice the first time around if you hadn’t came in all guns blazing, trying to be offensive.

Loose the attitude and you might get better results in your search.

Not every woman is out for your money. Most are perfectly capable of supporting themselves.

Regarding your preference on body type. There’s a better way to go about finding that. Bringing down women who don’t match those preferences, isn’t one of them. It’s not attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"I …. 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?"

Are you trying to meet them all or something g?

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?"

5 mins on insta says there are plenty of women with the same fitness mindset.

I'd also say the majority of women are more bothered about personality and looks than jobs and transport . Though I do like a guy with a Railcard.

What would be different about the women in another country? Are they less choosy?

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Open Your mind. Relax. Its not a battle. Laugh, cry, enjoy other people regardless of age, sex, size or colour, ask questions of others, get to know people of all varieties, learn from them, open You're mind. How do others manage relationships, what do they do, how do they do it. Surely a gym is a good place to start, help people out, if the gym is all males, maybe try another? "
Finally, you're right there I'll probably have to branch out I guess.. I'm not the best looking of guys, it's initial being attractive thing I struggle with the most. Thank you.

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By *illy IdolMan 34 weeks ago

Midlands


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion. I'm genuinely looking for help, not negativity. If you can't offer anything constructive, simply don't bother."

Try a social event buddy. Sometimes it's hard to come across well online

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion. I'm genuinely looking for help, not negativity. If you can't offer anything constructive, simply don't bother.

Try a social event buddy. Sometimes it's hard to come across well online "

He knows^

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"Déjà vu.

…. Sometimes it's hard to come across anyone well online

He knows^"

yes he does . FIFY

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?

5 mins on insta says there are plenty of women with the same fitness mindset.

I'd also say the majority of women are more bothered about personality and looks than jobs and transport . Though I do like a guy with a Railcard.

What would be different about the women in another country? Are they less choosy?

"

probably not,I can agree with you there, I mean I know I'm not best looking of guys, It's more The initial being attractive you could say, that's what I struggle with. But thanks

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?

5 mins on insta says there are plenty of women with the same fitness mindset.

I'd also say the majority of women are more bothered about personality and looks than jobs and transport . Though I do like a guy with a Railcard.

What would be different about the women in another country? Are they less choosy?

"

I have no trouble in speaking to Women even ladies as attractive as yourself, I always seem to end ethier being rejected or friend zoned.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?Lose the negativity women don't like it they want to read an upbeat resume and your profile is your advert here, same difference abroad then you've got the language barrier "
I'm looking for constructive help, and advice please keep your negativity to yourself.

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By *ealitybitesMan 34 weeks ago

Belfast

No good women on here.

They are all very bold.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"No good women on here.

They are all very old. "

don't remind me

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By *rtucker79Man 34 weeks ago

WINCHESTER

Do you know what constructive advice is?

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By *cottish guy 555Man 34 weeks ago

London

I don't consider myself attractive, I have no money and, according to a comment on your last thread, my wife is an anomaly because she married down.

I have no helpful advice to add to the tons you've already had.

Hang on, just proof reading for negative comments about others. None. Good.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Eventually I'm going to have to Emigrate, Damm.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"Eventually I'm going to have to Emigrate, Damm."

Then allllllll the sex!

Bonuses op.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"Eventually I'm going to have to Emigrate, Damm."

Let us now how you get on.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 34 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?"

1. Stay here O.P. It's a good place to start. When you have found a partner you can invest in , that is the time to consider moving.

2. Never think you are not enough - this is more about your perception of yourself than of British women. And to be fair to the Brits - it's a pretty small world now and so you'd have to omit the entire western hemisphere to find a different sort of woman - culture wise.

3. It's great that you have transport, a place and a job - those are assets that show you have values but it may not be what women seek. Particularly on serious dating websites.

4. As you are looking for a woman who is 'slim' and into maintaining her health and physique through exercise, look for exercise / gym forums and/or join fitness/gym socials and get chatting with people like yourself.

5. Make sure you put in a lot of effort on websites like here and tinder. Don't sit back and wait for 'the date' to come to you. If you want dates be very proactive.

Good luck.

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By *unchalMan 34 weeks ago

Dartford


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?"

What can I say, women are hard work and picky. Men are easier and less picky!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 34 weeks ago

Leeds

Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Eventually I'm going to have to Emigrate, Damm."

Why do you think that?

My suspicion is that most women are the same, unless you can buy them or something (and you claim that women wanting money is bad, yet have talked in previous threads about East Asia )

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs "

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks."

Are you a politician by any chance OP?

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Eventually I'm going to have to Emigrate, Damm.

Why do you think that?

My suspicion is that most women are the same, unless you can buy them or something (and you claim that women wanting money is bad, yet have talked in previous threads about East Asia )"

All Women are the Same?? No they're definitely not, what a sexist thing to say.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks.

Are you a politician by any chance OP?"

No

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks."

And only women too I see…..

It’s like you have an agenda.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks."

So you keep saying.

Is it not helpful to know that negativity is unattractive?

Or do you want us to lie to you, pretend that women shouldn't swear, and tell you that you're fine as you are?

Almost all of the posts on this thread can be read in ways that would help you find what you're looking for if you chose to use them.

Negativity is unattractive - therefore, try to be less negative when looking to attract women.

Now you try. Rather than telling people not to post negative things, see what lessons you might be able to draw from them.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 34 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 34 weeks ago

Leeds


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks."

That is constructive - negativity ain't sexy, stereotyping a whole countries gender ain't sexy, constant moaning is a huge turn off.

Mrs

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Eventually I'm going to have to Emigrate, Damm.

Why do you think that?

My suspicion is that most women are the same, unless you can buy them or something (and you claim that women wanting money is bad, yet have talked in previous threads about East Asia ) All Women are the Same?? No they're definitely not, what a sexist thing to say."

Well, quite, yet you've been saying it for days. What I meant was that you're not going to magically find that women in, I dunno, Chile, are wowed by your inability to tolerate women swearing and how much you think women are moneygrubbing monsters.

What you seem to mean is that if you just find a country where women are not offended by your tropes about women, you'll find yourself drowning in pussy.

The former is true. The latter is false. (Unless you go somewhere where women are so exploited that they'll take anything, even different exploitation, to escape. Which is a tad grim)

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I think I'm done, only a little constructiveness, but mainly negativity as to be expected. If you give eventually chimpanzees, enough typewriters, eventually they'll write the works of Shakespeare.. this ain't one of those times.

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By *illy IdolMan 34 weeks ago

Midlands


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion. I'm genuinely looking for help, not negativity. If you can't offer anything constructive, simply don't bother.

Try a social event buddy. Sometimes it's hard to come across well online

He knows^"

I do. I'm booked on and ready to start socialising. I will fight your corner

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think I'm done, only a little constructiveness, but mainly negativity as to be expected. If you give eventually chimpanzees, enough typewriters, eventually they'll write the works of Shakespeare.. this ain't one of those times."

I find one tends to cultivate the reactions that one receives.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"I think I'm done, only a little constructiveness, but mainly negativity as to be expected. If you give eventually chimpanzees, enough typewriters, eventually they'll write the works of Shakespeare.. this ain't one of those times.

I find one tends to cultivate the reactions that one receives."

the Circle of life

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion. I'm genuinely looking for help, not negativity. If you can't offer anything constructive, simply don't bother.

Try a social event buddy. Sometimes it's hard to come across well online

He knows^

I do. I'm booked on and ready to start socialising. I will fight your corner"

thank you

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think I'm done, only a little constructiveness, but mainly negativity as to be expected. If you give eventually chimpanzees, enough typewriters, eventually they'll write the works of Shakespeare.. this ain't one of those times.

I find one tends to cultivate the reactions that one receives. the Circle of life "

Be the change you want to see in the world, rather than complaining and expecting to be rescued.

Call it the salad of socialisation

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks.

That is constructive - negativity ain't sexy, stereotyping a whole countries gender ain't sexy, constant moaning is a huge turn off.

Mrs "

I'm not sensing much positivity though.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks.

That is constructive - negativity ain't sexy, stereotyping a whole countries gender ain't sexy, constant moaning is a huge turn off.

Mrs I'm not sensing much positivity though."

So what? Do you want to be patted on the head and told you're a good boy?

You're being given advice. Freely. Despite your... unique behaviour around here and your wide ranging insults.

Take the advice and say thank you. Stop whining.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman 34 weeks ago

Markfield


"do I Emigrate?"

Yes

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks.

That is constructive - negativity ain't sexy, stereotyping a whole countries gender ain't sexy, constant moaning is a huge turn off.

Mrs I'm not sensing much positivity though.

So what? Do you want to be patted on the head and told you're a good boy?

You're being given advice. Freely. Despite your... unique behaviour around here and your wide ranging insults.

Take the advice and say thank you. Stop whining."

only If you say I'm sorry.

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By *ascaIMan 34 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

Get yourself a £70 Super Boost on Tinder

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks.

That is constructive - negativity ain't sexy, stereotyping a whole countries gender ain't sexy, constant moaning is a huge turn off.

Mrs I'm not sensing much positivity though.

So what? Do you want to be patted on the head and told you're a good boy?

You're being given advice. Freely. Despite your... unique behaviour around here and your wide ranging insults.

Take the advice and say thank you. Stop whining. only If you say I'm sorry."

Absolutely fucking not. I've given you a lot of good advice, exercised all the goddamn restraint I have, and you treat my compassion like shit.

I owe you less than I've already given you.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman 34 weeks ago

Markfield


"Eventually I'm going to have to Emigrate, Damm."

Go for it.

Go to France. Then you can rearrange the letters in you name and call yourself LeCuntoe

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Well, I wish you luck banging your head against the wall. Many of us have tried to give you advice, to no avail, because you seem determined to remain wedded to your sob story about how it's everyone's fault but yours.

Also, as a non-British woman... you have fun with that "

oh no I have, honest, integrity and humility, I can admit I'm the greatest,or the prettiest, I rate myself a 4 out of 10 but women don't seem to want to appreciate that

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks.

That is constructive - negativity ain't sexy, stereotyping a whole countries gender ain't sexy, constant moaning is a huge turn off.

Mrs I'm not sensing much positivity though.

So what? Do you want to be patted on the head and told you're a good boy?

You're being given advice. Freely. Despite your... unique behaviour around here and your wide ranging insults.

Take the advice and say thank you. Stop whining. only If you say I'm sorry.

Absolutely fucking not. I've given you a lot of good advice, exercised all the goddamn restraint I have, and you treat my compassion like shit.

I owe you less than I've already given you."

I'm just receiving negativity, it's not good.

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS 34 weeks ago

Glasgow

I think you should take the "o" out your username. Problem solved..because everyone loves a ....

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Still no Good Women..

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Well, I wish you luck banging your head against the wall. Many of us have tried to give you advice, to no avail, because you seem determined to remain wedded to your sob story about how it's everyone's fault but yours.

Also, as a non-British woman... you have fun with that oh no I have, honest, integrity and humility, I can admit I'm the greatest,or the prettiest, I rate myself a 4 out of 10 but women don't seem to want to appreciate that "

Someone who blew up an entire thread demanding womanhood apologise to him thinks he's humble?

Good lord.

With that level of self-awareness, I'm now wondering if your 4/10 is Brad Pitt or something.

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By *cottish guy 555Man 34 weeks ago

London


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks.

That is constructive - negativity ain't sexy, stereotyping a whole countries gender ain't sexy, constant moaning is a huge turn off.

Mrs I'm not sensing much positivity though.

So what? Do you want to be patted on the head and told you're a good boy?

You're being given advice. Freely. Despite your... unique behaviour around here and your wide ranging insults.

Take the advice and say thank you. Stop whining. only If you say I'm sorry."

You are sorry.

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By *ornycougaWoman 34 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Give up your search. You clearly love yourself so much that no woman can possibly compete

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Have you tried more gentlemanly behaviour and eating a salad?

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By *cottish guy 555Man 34 weeks ago

London


"Have you tried more gentlemanly behaviour and eating a salad?"

Didn't you notice? He's a chivalrous gent.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 34 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Still no Good Women.."

I'd agree there 100%

I did offer advice. I think it's gone unread.

I hope you find a 'good' woman and soon.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Give up your search. You clearly love yourself so much that no woman can possibly compete "
one day, definitely not in the UK though,hopefully overseas.

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By *agatoXXXMan 34 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.


"I'm not looking for negativity, just advice,if you're not being constructive, just don't bother."

If you want constructive & positive advice, change your attitude.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Have you tried more gentlemanly behaviour and eating a salad?

Didn't you notice? He's a chivalrous gent.

"

Actions speak louder than words

At the moment I feel like I'm displaying more fucking chivalry, trying to save him from whatever the fuck brought him to this cunting place

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"I'm not looking for negativity, just advice,if you're not being constructive, just don't bother.

If you want constructive & positive advice, change your attitude. "

I'm trying but with how current Society is, it's very challenging.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

By the way, OP, if/when you do emigrate, don't try Australia. It'll be a similar reception - except we suffer foolishness far less. You'll be lucky to escape with all your limbs.

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By *AYENCouple 34 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?"

Try working out what you're doing wrong, there are plenty of amazing women out there. K.

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By *agatoXXXMan 34 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.


"I'm not looking for negativity, just advice,if you're not being constructive, just don't bother.

If you want constructive & positive advice, change your attitude. I'm trying but with how current Society is, it's very challenging."

You can blame society for a lot of things, but obnoxious, arrogant & misogynistic, that's on you.

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By *oodmessMan 34 weeks ago

yumsville

Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 34 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

1. Stay here O.P. It's a good place to start. When you have found a partner you can invest in , that is the time to consider moving.

2. Never think you are not enough - this is more about your perception of yourself than of British women. And to be fair to the Brits - it's a pretty small world now and so you'd have to omit the entire western hemisphere to find a different sort of woman - culture wise.

3. It's great that you have transport, a place and a job - those are assets that show you have values but it may not be what women seek. Particularly on serious dating websites.

4. As you are looking for a woman who is 'slim' and into maintaining her health and physique through exercise, look for exercise / gym forums and/or join fitness/gym socials and get chatting with people like yourself.

5. Make sure you put in a lot of effort on websites like here and tinder. Don't sit back and wait for 'the date' to come to you. If you want dates be very proactive.

Good luck.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad."

Or - possibly - this is his fourth thread in two days. In his last thread he began by demanding an apology for all womenkind and telling us all that we should eat more salads (that cost less than the sum of their parts, because magic) and that bigger women would put his back out.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad.

Or - possibly - this is his fourth thread in two days. In his last thread he began by demanding an apology for all womenkind and telling us all that we should eat more salads (that cost less than the sum of their parts, because magic) and that bigger women would put his back out."

I thought that Women appreciate honesty

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By *rtucker79Man 34 weeks ago

WINCHESTER


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad.

Or - possibly - this is his fourth thread in two days. In his last thread he began by demanding an apology for all womenkind and telling us all that we should eat more salads (that cost less than the sum of their parts, because magic) and that bigger women would put his back out."

sounds very reasonable

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad.

Or - possibly - this is his fourth thread in two days. In his last thread he began by demanding an apology for all womenkind and telling us all that we should eat more salads (that cost less than the sum of their parts, because magic) and that bigger women would put his back out.

sounds very reasonable"

Stop Simping, please.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad.

Or - possibly - this is his fourth thread in two days. In his last thread he began by demanding an apology for all womenkind and telling us all that we should eat more salads (that cost less than the sum of their parts, because magic) and that bigger women would put his back out. I thought that Women appreciate honesty "

Sir, you said that you can buy salad for 50 pence in Tesco.

That is a lie.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad.

Or - possibly - this is his fourth thread in two days. In his last thread he began by demanding an apology for all womenkind and telling us all that we should eat more salads (that cost less than the sum of their parts, because magic) and that bigger women would put his back out.

sounds very reasonable

Stop Simping, please."

Ah. Here we go with the misandry.

The only reason men can agree with women is because they are so driven by their wild urges that they think it will fool the lady brains to open their knees.

Rather than men being able to evaluate things logically.

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By *rtucker79Man 34 weeks ago

WINCHESTER


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad.

Or - possibly - this is his fourth thread in two days. In his last thread he began by demanding an apology for all womenkind and telling us all that we should eat more salads (that cost less than the sum of their parts, because magic) and that bigger women would put his back out.

sounds very reasonable

Stop Simping, please.

Ah. Here we go with the misandry.

The only reason men can agree with women is because they are so driven by their wild urges that they think it will fool the lady brains to open their knees.

Rather than men being able to evaluate things logically."

Ah, is that what he meant "Stop Simping, please." I had no idea lol

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman 34 weeks ago

Markfield


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad."

LOL

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad.

Or - possibly - this is his fourth thread in two days. In his last thread he began by demanding an apology for all womenkind and telling us all that we should eat more salads (that cost less than the sum of their parts, because magic) and that bigger women would put his back out.

sounds very reasonable

Stop Simping, please.

Ah. Here we go with the misandry.

The only reason men can agree with women is because they are so driven by their wild urges that they think it will fool the lady brains to open their knees.

Rather than men being able to evaluate things logically."

you see that's the thing the Majority of Women are incapable of Logical thought, you lack critical thinking skills and have a tendency to think purely with your emotions.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad.

Or - possibly - this is his fourth thread in two days. In his last thread he began by demanding an apology for all womenkind and telling us all that we should eat more salads (that cost less than the sum of their parts, because magic) and that bigger women would put his back out.

sounds very reasonable

Stop Simping, please.

Ah. Here we go with the misandry.

The only reason men can agree with women is because they are so driven by their wild urges that they think it will fool the lady brains to open their knees.

Rather than men being able to evaluate things logically.

Ah, is that what he meant "Stop Simping, please." I had no idea lol"

Yes. There's this idea that when men agree with women, it's to try to show their subservience in the hopes they'll put pussy out.

Because men are driven by their hormones. It's why women have to be ladylike and hide our bodies, lest you lose control.

So you're driven to do insane things like agree with women, which one would never do while sane.

I find it rather bigoted towards men, who I know to be capable of logic, reason, and motivations other than penis.

It's a bit sad what this grievance culture leads people to. Because it's always men who talk about simping. It's a perverse form of self-hatred.

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By *hrimper36Couple 34 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

Bye bye op and have fun abroad.

T

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad.

Or - possibly - this is his fourth thread in two days. In his last thread he began by demanding an apology for all womenkind and telling us all that we should eat more salads (that cost less than the sum of their parts, because magic) and that bigger women would put his back out.

sounds very reasonable

Stop Simping, please.

Ah. Here we go with the misandry.

The only reason men can agree with women is because they are so driven by their wild urges that they think it will fool the lady brains to open their knees.

Rather than men being able to evaluate things logically. you see that's the thing the Majority of Women are incapable of Logical thought, you lack critical thinking skills and have a tendency to think purely with your emotions."

That's fucking adorable.

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By *rHotNottsMan 34 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I kind of enjoyed your posts yesterday - you got peoples backs up but then joined in the joke.

If you’re posting the same thing every day though it kind of loses its appeal.

9/10 yesterday

5/10 today

K I'm genuinely looking for help, I'm looking for constructive advice if you can only be negative please don't bother."

Your profile is very whiny who wants to date a whiny person? Seriously how can you not pull on Tinder? You make your profile visible in any major city and you immediately will get lots of likes. You must be doing something very very wrong if you cannot get a date on Tinder

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 34 weeks ago

North West


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?"

Emigrate to Mars. I heard it's nice this time of year

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By *rtucker79Man 34 weeks ago

WINCHESTER


"Think this is an example of why you don't put your head over the parapet.

There's plenty on here that act as if they swing, talk themselves up but don't meet (for reasons). Are instead here to get twitter and insta followers, fans or cash cows or simply - as they can't find anyone or they don't have time.

Whether the OP is right or wrong in his search he's been put on the defensive as the first replies were 'this is getting boring', and they've gone downhill from there ... the usual response would be "don't change for anybody, don't lower your standards, quality over quantity"... those seem not to have been said.

There's so many here that don't meet (for whatever reason), and people don't question it. If they made threads on why, sympathies would be raised - now a guy wants to and it's all out fingers in the eye. Sad.

Or - possibly - this is his fourth thread in two days. In his last thread he began by demanding an apology for all womenkind and telling us all that we should eat more salads (that cost less than the sum of their parts, because magic) and that bigger women would put his back out.

sounds very reasonable

Stop Simping, please.

Ah. Here we go with the misandry.

The only reason men can agree with women is because they are so driven by their wild urges that they think it will fool the lady brains to open their knees.

Rather than men being able to evaluate things logically. you see that's the thing the Majority of Women are incapable of Logical thought, you lack critical thinking skills and have a tendency to think purely with your emotions."

I can't believe you aren't having much luck with women if this is your attitude to women and men! I really hope this is some sort of wind-up account just trying to bait people into arguements, as lord help you if not.

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple 34 weeks ago

Essex


" you see that's the thing the Majority of Women are incapable of Logical thought, you lack critical thinking skills and have a tendency to think purely with your emotions."

- to paraphrase a wiser, kinder man that I..

“We’re not looking for negativity, if you're not being constructive, just don't bother.”

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?"

Women don't want healthy, muscle bound men. Pick up a Doner wrap and fries one day, repeat everyday. You'll find them fawning over you in no time.

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By *irthandgirthMan 34 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion.

We're thinking the same thing, it's actually quite pathetic at this point. OP needs to acquire some self reflection skills. if you're going to be simply negative and not constructive, please don't bother. I'm looking for help."

How many threads do you need to put up asking for advice to then ignore all said advice and bitch about it?

Asking for a friend*

*everyone

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


" you see that's the thing the Majority of Women are incapable of Logical thought, you lack critical thinking skills and have a tendency to think purely with your emotions.

- to paraphrase a wiser, kinder man that I..

“We’re not looking for negativity, if you're not being constructive, just don't bother.” "

Consistency? Is that your womb talking?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 34 weeks ago

North West


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion.

We're thinking the same thing, it's actually quite pathetic at this point. OP needs to acquire some self reflection skills. if you're going to be simply negative and not constructive, please don't bother. I'm looking for help.

How many threads do you need to put up asking for advice to then ignore all said advice and bitch about it?

Asking for a friend*

*everyone"

Hey, maybe you could share some of your mega salad recipes with the OP, it might cheer him up

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion.

We're thinking the same thing, it's actually quite pathetic at this point. OP needs to acquire some self reflection skills. if you're going to be simply negative and not constructive, please don't bother. I'm looking for help.

How many threads do you need to put up asking for advice to then ignore all said advice and bitch about it?

Asking for a friend*

*everyone

Hey, maybe you could share some of your mega salad recipes with the OP, it might cheer him up "

Must cost under a pound. For everything.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple 34 weeks ago

Birmingham

Emigrate. If all this is true, it's clear you're right and British women don't want you.

Maybe just collect you countries on a bingo card and the last one can just be to go gay and start again?

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Emigrate. If all this is true, it's clear you're right and British women don't want you.

Maybe just collect you countries on a bingo card and the last one can just be to go gay and start again? "

I've already warned him off Australia.

I'm not sure if I hope he listens or if I hope he tapes it, because it'd be one of those car crash Youtube videos if he does.

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By *ife NinjaMan 34 weeks ago

Dunfermline

OP, likeability or fanciability isn't always about looks and body style. Sometimes, a great personality does the job, and maybe you're concentrating on one element, rather than the whole.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 34 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 34 weeks ago

Leeds

Just wondering by your threads and your profile.

How can you not work it out ?

This is the first day I’ve ever seen your tits and I can tell why your single.

The mr.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 34 weeks ago

Leeds


"I think I'm done, only a little constructiveness, but mainly negativity as to be expected. If you give eventually chimpanzees, enough typewriters, eventually they'll write the works of Shakespeare.. this ain't one of those times."

There's one denominator in your search for every British woman and that's YOU, that's where you need to start.

You want women to like you and you are just negative, you can't take constructive feedback at all.

Good luck in your search abroad, strangely those wen don't like negativity and moaning either.

Mrs

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By *tanley FunseekerMan 34 weeks ago

stanley

OP your focus on the forums seems to be entirely on calling out deficiencies in women and essentially blaming these for your lack of success both here and in other apps.

Thing is the common denominator in all of the things you post about is you. So rather than blame everyone and everything else why not look at yourself and try and figure out what it is about you that is preventing you from achieving the outcomes you desire?

Alternatively there is a second possibility to be considered here which is that you are a bit of a troll who gets your kicks from making comments or posts just to get a reaction.

In either scenario I think the women of fab have got you sussed.

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By *emorefridaCouple 34 weeks ago

La la land

You have never come across a good woman? How is this possible, your female family members are all bad, all your female friends are bad. You're being emotional, illogical and melodramatic it appears to me.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You have never come across a good woman? How is this possible, your female family members are all bad, all your female friends are bad. You're being emotional, illogical and melodramatic it appears to me. "

Just like only men swear, only women are emotional, illogical, and melodramatic

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS 34 weeks ago

Stockport


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks.

Are you a politician by any chance OP?"

Did you not see yesterdays thread where he was talking about meals for 50p?

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By *emorefridaCouple 34 weeks ago

La la land


"You have never come across a good woman? How is this possible, your female family members are all bad, all your female friends are bad. You're being emotional, illogical and melodramatic it appears to me.

Just like only men swear, only women are emotional, illogical, and melodramatic"

What the fuck? Bloody hell I just swore, fuck bollocks shit. Still a woman, with pmt was hoping I'd change into a man, didn't work

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You have never come across a good woman? How is this possible, your female family members are all bad, all your female friends are bad. You're being emotional, illogical and melodramatic it appears to me.

Just like only men swear, only women are emotional, illogical, and melodramatic

What the fuck? Bloody hell I just swore, fuck bollocks shit. Still a woman, with pmt was hoping I'd change into a man, didn't work "

I hear the warning sign is turning green and ripping your clothes off.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple 34 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Tbh op I wouldn't approach you because of the negativity, it's not something I want in my life & many women are the same.

Mrs

I'm not looking for negative responses thank you, I'm looking for genuine help, constructively. Thanks.

Are you a politician by any chance OP?

Did you not see yesterdays thread where he was talking about meals for 50p?"

50p Lee!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman 34 weeks ago

Essex

Ok.

I’ll be genuine & constructive.

Drop the negativity. It’s a huge turn off.

Drop the attitude. Some have taken the piss (holds hands up to that) but you have to expect it here. Develop a thicker skin & a sense of humour.

Drop the misogynist attitude. (Not all or even most) Women are not shallow money grabbers. We can swear if we damn well please.

I understand preferences (weight/height/colour) but leave them off your profile. It’s just rude really. Just don’t approach those not your type.

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By *emorefridaCouple 34 weeks ago

La la land


"You have never come across a good woman? How is this possible, your female family members are all bad, all your female friends are bad. You're being emotional, illogical and melodramatic it appears to me.

Just like only men swear, only women are emotional, illogical, and melodramatic

What the fuck? Bloody hell I just swore, fuck bollocks shit. Still a woman, with pmt was hoping I'd change into a man, didn't work

I hear the warning sign is turning green and ripping your clothes off."

Frida smash!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rqXFhYHmg7w

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By *reya73Woman 34 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

Have you tried therapy? A few sessions with a psychotherapist might reveal some deeper clues for you as to why you're not managing to find connection.

Or, if you have any close friends who know you well, you might benefit from hearing (if you can manage to listen openly) what they observe about you and what they can see from the outside.

I wasn't here yesterday but I'm guessing you've had loads of good, frank and varied advice as is usually the case here.

So if none of that is working, i honestly suggest a relationship therapist (not counselling). They will be able to offer really good insights and work with you.

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By *esthetic21Man 34 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Make yourself happy first then the right woman will be drawn to you it's the law of attraction

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By *eadinthecloudsMan 34 weeks ago

Manchester

My post disappeared on this thread

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?

Emigrate to Mars. I heard it's nice this time of year "

Venus. That’s where the women are.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman 34 weeks ago

Markfield


"My post disappeared on this thread "

Different thread x that’s one has been removed.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan 34 weeks ago

Manchester


"My post disappeared on this thread

Different thread x that’s one has been removed. "

Just worked that out

That was about pilots

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman 34 weeks ago

Markfield


"My post disappeared on this thread

Different thread x that’s one has been removed.

Just worked that out

That was about pilots "

Tell me I’m a good woman

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By *eadinthecloudsMan 34 weeks ago

Manchester


"My post disappeared on this thread

Different thread x that’s one has been removed.

Just worked that out

That was about pilots

Tell me I’m a good woman "

You’re a woman that’s good and women can be good!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 34 weeks ago

North West


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?

Emigrate to Mars. I heard it's nice this time of year

Venus. That’s where the women are. "

I mean, chances of survival on Venus are remote so yeah, whatever

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By *irthandgirthMan 34 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion.

We're thinking the same thing, it's actually quite pathetic at this point. OP needs to acquire some self reflection skills. if you're going to be simply negative and not constructive, please don't bother. I'm looking for help.

How many threads do you need to put up asking for advice to then ignore all said advice and bitch about it?

Asking for a friend*

*everyone

Hey, maybe you could share some of your mega salad recipes with the OP, it might cheer him up

Must cost under a pound. For everything."

Dammit.. shat out there. I aim for thr £1.50 - £2 mark for a meal, but I go for a lot of protein so that pushes it up a bit.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan 34 weeks ago

Manchester


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?

Emigrate to Mars. I heard it's nice this time of year

Venus. That’s where the women are.

I mean, chances of survival on Venus are remote so yeah, whatever "

You get a lovely tan on Venus. You might need some factor 50 mind.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

Honestly, I go away for a few hours and suddenly I find the OP is at it again.

I assumed that he'd be on the naughty step by now for abuse and body shaming.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan 34 weeks ago

Manchester


"Honestly, I go away for a few hours and suddenly I find the OP is at it again.

I assumed that he'd be on the naughty step by now for abuse and body shaming.

"

It’s the gift that keeps on giving.

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By *assConductorMan 34 weeks ago

the wild

Even if you have had bad experiences with women, why would you take that out on your potential future partners (or us forum goers for that matter) with your attitude?

Go to therapy so you aren't hurling the baggage from your past at everyone around you.

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By *ad NannaWoman 34 weeks ago

East London

Where would you emigrate to?

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

Jesus Christ OP! Stop with the 'woe is me' crap!

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By *ad NannaWoman 34 weeks ago

East London

If you emigrate to find someone who fits your ideal, you may be getting someone who doesn't love you, but what you bring to the table, and they'll happily spend your money with no real feelings for you.

If that sits well with you then I'd say go for it.

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By *ongAndThick123Man 34 weeks ago

Leeds

You seem to be a physically attractive man. So I don’t really know what could be causing you issues. Maybe you’re self sabotaging?

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By *eiaorganaWoman 34 weeks ago

Dundee


"

I have no trouble in speaking to Women even ladies as attractive as yourself, I always seem to end ethier being rejected or friend zoned."

There's no such thing as a 'friendzone', that's a word made up by incels to blame women for the man's lack of success. Try treating women as friends with no expectations and you never know what could happen.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion.

We're thinking the same thing, it's actually quite pathetic at this point. OP needs to acquire some self reflection skills. if you're going to be simply negative and not constructive, please don't bother. I'm looking for help.

How many threads do you need to put up asking for advice to then ignore all said advice and bitch about it?

Asking for a friend*

*everyone

Hey, maybe you could share some of your mega salad recipes with the OP, it might cheer him up

Must cost under a pound. For everything.

Dammit.. shat out there. I aim for thr £1.50 - £2 mark for a meal, but I go for a lot of protein so that pushes it up a bit."

But you can buy salads in Tesco for 50p if you ignore all the cakes. Or something

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"You seem to be a physically attractive man. So I don’t really know what could be causing you issues. Maybe you’re self sabotaging?"

I assumed the profile pic was 'Ken' (or an action man toy)

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By *weetiepie99Woman 34 weeks ago

cardiff

You're an unattractive man in every way imaginable. So I'm not surprised....at all.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?

Emigrate to Mars. I heard it's nice this time of year

Venus. That’s where the women are.

I mean, chances of survival on Venus are remote so yeah, whatever "

I didn’t mean anything by it.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"You're an unattractive man in every way imaginable. So I'm not surprised....at all. "

Uh oh, what are you imagining?

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By *eiaorganaWoman 34 weeks ago

Dundee


"Have you tried more gentlemanly behaviour and eating a salad?"

Maybe he should smile more

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By *own PeriscopeMan 34 weeks ago

Near and Far


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?"

Emigrate. All though I'm not sure it's possible to emigrate through time which is what you really need to do. You know when men were men and women were what Men told them to be.

Your a travesty sir.

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By *ools and the brainCouple 34 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

So OP I'm going to ask a question that I believe has not been asked.

Can you please elaborate on what you mean a"good woman"

What exactly are you looking for that makes your quest so difficult?

I know on your profile you don't want anyone over a size 12 or under size 8.

Please?

I'm not being sarcastic or taking the piss.

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By *exy-SashWoman 34 weeks ago

Leighton Buzzard

Take yourself on a date

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By *eroLondonMan 34 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Take yourself on a date "

But remember to go Dutch.

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By *alandNitaCouple 34 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"I haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and no matches along with other multiple Websites , no joy,no success. I'm really into my health and Fitness/Gym life style and looking for a Woman who has the same mindset, however pickings are slim, pardon the pun. I have a place, transport and a Job but after 20 years of rejection I'm beginning to think that's not enough for British Women? 4 billion Women In the World,do I stay or do I Emigrate?"

My experience of The Woman, is the they quite like personality. Often they even prefer that to money & cars.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple 34 weeks ago

Southampton

Oh god nor this again

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Oh god nor this again "

It's nearly over. I think.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago


"Oh god nor this again

It's nearly over. I think."

Till his next thread

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Oh god nor this again

It's nearly over. I think.

Till his next thread "

At some point, this has got to just devolve into people posting youtube clips of the Monty Python coconuts or something.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

There is good women but just few far and between

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By *tanley FunseekerMan 34 weeks ago

stanley


"Oh god nor this again

It's nearly over. I think.

Till his next thread

At some point, this has got to just devolve into people posting youtube clips of the Monty Python coconuts or something."

Did one of t’crossbeams go out of skew on t’treadle?

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By *ohn.Wick.Man 34 weeks ago

The Continental

And we’re done

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

Got to be now

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man 34 weeks ago

BRIDPORT


"Take yourself on a date

But remember to go Dutch."

Depends where he emigrates too

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By *unpair2022Couple 34 weeks ago

wirral


"Déjà vu.

OP, you really are milking this discussion to utter oblivion. I'm genuinely looking for help, not negativity. If you can't offer anything constructive, simply don't bother.

- listen to women

- work on yourself

- lose the grievance culture you've found yourself in

- don't lecture to or condescend women, the days when one could be outraged that a woman swears like a man are probably not in our lifetimes

- don't fall into race based stereotypes about finding women who'll appreciate you (as in another thread you've done) I haven't always been that way, it's just a build up of things over time, death of a 1000 cuts you could say. I'm guessing I'm just not attractive enough."

I don't usually participate in these, but reading through and then seeing this comment is clear to me... you just need an ego boost. Women have given you advice, but then you go onto "not being attractive enough" bro, no.... just take the advice and implement it. Don't then start fishing for a compliment ffs.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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