So I’m going to be left on read with this! But I do believe that there is a sort of hierarchy in these forums! Us every now and again posters seem to get fully ignored by you daily poster!
And if we try to get involved find that we have an hierarchy to overcome |
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"So I’m going to be left on read with this! But I do believe that there is a sort of hierarchy in these forums! Us every now and again posters seem to get fully ignored by you daily poster!
And if we try to get involved find that we have an hierarchy to overcome "
Ie, just ignore it and post away. If something thinks they are above another in any kind hierarchy then they spend far too much time on Fab |
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I'd point out that the most popular threads by count seem to be mostly started by someone entirely new to the forums today.
But that would go against the supposed clique hyperbole.
So I guess I'll just ignore you, because I'm obviously far too important to respond to forum casuals  |
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"So I’m going to be left on read with this! But I do believe that there is a sort of hierarchy in these forums! Us every now and again posters seem to get fully ignored by you daily poster!
And if we try to get involved find that we have an hierarchy to overcome "
It may seem the opposite of what you want to hear but - your best bet is to just relax and stop taking it so seriously. There’s nothing to “overcome”. This is just a forum, it’s not important in the grand scheme of things. |
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"So I’m going to be left on read with this! But I do believe that there is a sort of hierarchy in these forums! Us every now and again posters seem to get fully ignored by you daily poster!
And if we try to get involved find that we have an hierarchy to overcome "
There is no hierarchy other than the one we introduce ourselves. If you feel that people have ignored you or not given you a warranted reply, you should take that up with them.
It's a simple hypothesis that few members of the site read the forums, less participate, and even fewer 'get anywhere' from that. However the forums are one way to participate and many people choose to. No one forces a person to participate, and no one can force a reply, but if you want to participate then you are just as welcome as everyome else. |
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By *elloWoman 26 weeks ago
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Is there a list of whose in the hierarchy/clique? I was never one of the cool kids at school so maybe if I let someone on the list wibble my wobbly bits they might let me in the club, or at least allow me a guest pass for the day |
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"It's my first time posting in the forums, please acknowledge me or I won't sleep tonight.
Also please send boobs
You are so fucking needy 
Only when it comes to sex, I'm not even sorry  "
Nothing wrong with needing le sex… |
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"Is there a list of whose in the hierarchy/clique? I was never one of the cool kids at school so maybe if I let someone on the list wibble my wobbly bits they might let me in the club, or at least allow me a guest pass for the day "
I thought you were in charge.
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"It's my first time posting in the forums, please acknowledge me or I won't sleep tonight.
Also please send boobs
You are so fucking needy
Be fair. We're all needy when it comes to boobs.
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Bert and Ernie are a tad burnt right now….
Back soon |
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"Is there a list of whose in the hierarchy/clique? I was never one of the cool kids at school so maybe if I let someone on the list wibble my wobbly bits they might let me in the club, or at least allow me a guest pass for the day "
If that alien shot alone doesn't get you at least a day pass, I for one will be hunting down the vetting team for the clique and giving them a piece of my mind |
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By *rBobbMan 26 weeks ago
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"It's my first time posting in the forums, please acknowledge me or I won't sleep tonight.
Also please send boobs
You are so fucking needy
Be fair. We're all needy when it comes to boobs.
Bert and Ernie are a tad burnt right now….
Back soon "
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By *elloWoman 26 weeks ago
alpha centauri |
"Is there a list of whose in the hierarchy/clique? I was never one of the cool kids at school so maybe if I let someone on the list wibble my wobbly bits they might let me in the club, or at least allow me a guest pass for the day
If that alien shot alone doesn't get you at least a day pass, I for one will be hunting down the vetting team for the clique and giving them a piece of my mind "
I agree, it was a masterpiece, super classy , and there will be more sci-fi scenes to come  |
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"Is there a list of whose in the hierarchy/clique? I was never one of the cool kids at school so maybe if I let someone on the list wibble my wobbly bits they might let me in the club, or at least allow me a guest pass for the day
If that alien shot alone doesn't get you at least a day pass, I for one will be hunting down the vetting team for the clique and giving them a piece of my mind
I agree, it was a masterpiece, super classy , and there will be more sci-fi scenes to come "
It was exactly the level of class I needed to brighten my day |
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"It's my first time posting in the forums, please acknowledge me or I won't sleep tonight.
Also please send boobs
You are so fucking needy
Only when it comes to sex, I'm not even sorry
Nothing wrong with needing le sex…"
LE SEX |
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By *nnCeeWoman 26 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
"Is there a list of whose in the hierarchy/clique? I was never one of the cool kids at school so maybe if I let someone on the list wibble my wobbly bits they might let me in the club, or at least allow me a guest pass for the day "
Same!
Let's set up our own wobbly gang!! |
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"It's my first time posting in the forums, please acknowledge me or I won't sleep tonight.
Also please send boobs
You are so fucking needy
Only when it comes to sex, I'm not even sorry
Nothing wrong with needing le sex…
LE SEX"
It’s what it’s called now. Fact |
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By *nnCeeWoman 26 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
"So I’m going to be left on read with this! But I do believe that there is a sort of hierarchy in these forums! Us every now and again posters seem to get fully ignored by you daily poster!
And if we try to get involved find that we have an hierarchy to overcome "
For the most part, I don't think the forums are very serious.
If you wanna post, just post.
Welcome to the forums, have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"It's my first time posting in the forums, please acknowledge me or I won't sleep tonight.
Also please send boobs
You are so fucking needy
Only when it comes to sex, I'm not even sorry
Nothing wrong with needing le sex…
LE SEX
It’s what it’s called now. Fact "
What about La Sex! As well? We have to have variations |
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"So I’m going to be left on read with this! But I do believe that there is a sort of hierarchy in these forums! Us every now and again posters seem to get fully ignored by you daily poster!
And if we try to get involved find that we have an hierarchy to overcome "
I agree with you, OP.
I don't post much nowadays, so am regularly ignored because a lot of the "daily" posters dont know me (or like me!). And that's fine, I don't need a reply.
Some folk post all day, every day and "know" everyone.
Some are genuine friends and chat back and forth, or have little "in" jokes.
Some only reply to the folk they fancy.
Just find what feels right for you, and choose your threads xarefully. And maybe don't get so hung up on replies, just enjoy the overall interaction. Don't give up!
Good luck
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"It's my first time posting in the forums, please acknowledge me or I won't sleep tonight.
Also please send boobs
You are so fucking needy
Only when it comes to sex, I'm not even sorry
Nothing wrong with needing le sex…
LE SEX
It’s what it’s called now. Fact
What about La Sex! As well? We have to have variations "
I think you will find it’s le sex…
Only because it’s like le hamster and le burger. Everything is le… |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"It's my first time posting in the forums, please acknowledge me or I won't sleep tonight.
Also please send boobs
You are so fucking needy
Only when it comes to sex, I'm not even sorry
Nothing wrong with needing le sex…
LE SEX
It’s what it’s called now. Fact
What about La Sex! As well? We have to have variations
I think you will find it’s le sex…
Only because it’s like le hamster and le burger. Everything is le… "
Like the!
THE SEX! It all comes back to that |
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"So I’m going to be left on read with this! But I do believe that there is a sort of hierarchy in these forums! Us every now and again posters seem to get fully ignored by you daily poster!
And if we try to get involved find that we have an hierarchy to overcome "
Ninjas tryna be the king but now the ace is back
If you know you know |
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By *eliWoman 26 weeks ago
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"Why do the OPs never return to this sort of thread? It makes me sad that my posts go unread and unresponded to, must be the clique in action.
I really couldn’t tell you Ma’am.
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When you say Ma'am in real life is it a maaarm, a ma'am, a maam or a madam? |
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"Why do the OPs never return to this sort of thread? It makes me sad that my posts go unread and unresponded to, must be the clique in action.
I really couldn’t tell you Ma’am.
When you say Ma'am in real life is it a maaarm, a ma'am, a maam or a madam?"
I say it like I’m talking about the bit that connects my torso to my hand. |
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"So I’m going to be left on read with this! But I do believe that there is a sort of hierarchy in these forums! Us every now and again posters seem to get fully ignored by you daily poster!
And if we try to get involved find that we have an hierarchy to overcome "
It’s not a hierarchy. Think of a more of a sociogram with network length smaller than the 6° of Kevin Bacon |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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Just treat it like any other walk of life. There’s always going to be that feel of community with insiders and outsiders. Just be yourself and if it isn’t appreciated then my advice is to just simply say f**k it and move on |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I just float around posting
This is the way. I'm glad someone else does this too. Drop a comment as you want and off you pootle to the next thing.
It isn't that deep really
MrsAbz"
I do check in on threads back mostly but yes it is |
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I avoid interacting with people who get my back up and who I recall are spiky in their opinions.
I use FAB for fun and entertainment and so I post where I choose and if people react or not, it makes no difference to my experience on here.
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By *edeWoman 26 weeks ago
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It can very much depends on when you post a thread and who's on etc. I'm exceeding lazy and very rarely venture past the first page so if the post has not been active recently I may not see it. That doesn't mean it's not something I would engage with normally, I've just not seen it.
Keep going OP - everyone was new at some point  |
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And if we try to get involved find that we have an hierarchy to overcome "
Have you kissed the ring yet? |
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"Am I the only one that can see the irony of 60 posts, but not one reply by the O P "
Do excuse me! It might come as a shock but I don’t spend all my time on here and when I do come on I may or may not of forgotten about this thread I made |
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By *elloWoman 25 weeks ago
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"Am I the only one that can see the irony of 60 posts, but not one reply by the O P
Do excuse me! It might come as a shock but I don’t spend all my time on here and when I do come on I may or may not of forgotten about this thread I made "
That's why you're confused about the hierarchy on here, once you're in it you're not allowed to leave, if you log out of fab you log out of the clique |
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So anyways, I was saying to effy that her minge was looking banging wah the vijazzle, likes, it was blingin... |
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There is, without doubt, a bunch of people who reply to people they know, fancy, and their mates.
Being ignored in here is like being a new band playing an opening set. At first, the noise of the crowd drowns you out. But if you keep playing, putting your heart into each note, eventually someone notices. One person turns to listen, then another. Soon, the energy shifts, and before you know it, you've got the whole room singing along. Just like that, you're not just background noise anymore; you're involved.
If it doesn't work out like that, fuck it. |
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By *elloWoman 25 weeks ago
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"There is, without doubt, a bunch of people who reply to people they know, fancy, and their mates.
Being ignored in here is like being a new band playing an opening set. At first, the noise of the crowd drowns you out. But if you keep playing, putting your heart into each note, eventually someone notices. One person turns to listen, then another. Soon, the energy shifts, and before you know it, you've got the whole room singing along. Just like that, you're not just background noise anymore; you're involved.
If it doesn't work out like that, fuck it. "
Nice way to look at it.
Is that your way of dropping in to conversation that you play in a band . |
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"There is, without doubt, a bunch of people who reply to people they know, fancy, and their mates.
Being ignored in here is like being a new band playing an opening set. At first, the noise of the crowd drowns you out. But if you keep playing, putting your heart into each note, eventually someone notices. One person turns to listen, then another. Soon, the energy shifts, and before you know it, you've got the whole room singing along. Just like that, you're not just background noise anymore; you're involved.
If it doesn't work out like that, fuck it.
Nice way to look at it.
Is that your way of dropping in to conversation that you play in a band . "
You've just made me think about the last time I actually played in a band and calculate the number of years ago. More than half a life time ago! Jeeeeez |
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Of course there's a hierarchy hasn't there been everywhere since you were in school. We even have teachers and dinner ladies to come and break it up when it gets out of hand.
School is where we learnt to socialise, follow the bell and count to 10 in French. It's so ingrained it just feels natural now.
Sarcasm and smoking transcend the hierarchy, sadly they phased smoking out so sarcasm is all I have left. Chip barm and 10 Regal for dinner.
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"There’s only one fab legend who bows to no-one.
Behold…….
The mighty “Seeside” "
Whatever happened to him?
Just start nonsense threads OP, my poop knife and "favourite hob" threads were my most popular to date, back in the good old days! |
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No it's groups of people who know each other and people who want to get to know the regular posters. Post regularly and eventually will find your people who enjoy your posts and want to interact with you. It takes time. |
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By *agatoXXXMan 25 weeks ago
Gone and completely forgotten. |
"So I’m going to be left on read with this! But I do believe that there is a sort of hierarchy in these forums! Us every now and again posters seem to get fully ignored by you daily poster!
And if we try to get involved find that we have an hierarchy to overcome "
I'm a daily poster, and I get ignored daily. |
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