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 Some of us are have always had financial independence for men. Don't be so insulting. | |||
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"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual." I suspect most are turned off by your narrow requirements on body size | |||
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"They are just not that in to you! It's fairly simple to be honest. " It's okay. He can go seamaxxing and trap some poor girl from a lower social class who thinks it's the only way she can have a good life | |||
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"Must just be British Women then,I reckon I'm going to have to Emigrate eventually. South East Asia possibly. I need a Manual, more advice the merrier." OK now you've asked. Your profile comes across as bitter and resentful that women aren't interested in you. Why should they be? What do you have to offer them? Negativity breeds negative responses. Quoting some BS stats found online comes across with a very Tate feel to it. Women don't want to be thrown into a group think category where they're all looking for the same thing. Nor does singling out British women read well, insinuating that women in Asia are better and more likely to be receptive to your advances. Add the status update and you have a self fulfilling prophecy, alienating the very people you want to appeal to. Not cool and unlikely to be successful. | |||
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"Duly noted." OP use reply+ quote. Then it'll be obvious who you're responding to. | |||
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"I've Yet to receive a logical explanation off a woman regarding this issue. it's a big problem." What issue? Something you perceive does not necessarily align with fact. | |||
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"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual. I suspect most are turned off by your narrow requirements on body size" And general attitude about women
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"I've Yet to receive a logical explanation off a woman regarding this issue. it's a big problem." You're not appealing to women. It could be the lack of money. It could be the lack of physical attraction. It could be the personality. The last two of those are as easy to fix as it is for the fat girls you don't like to make themselves more appealing to you. If you think women are only interested in money, why do you even want one | |||
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"Are Men not allowed to have requirements?" Of course men can have requirements but its funny how some women have a problem with men who do | |||
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women are a crazy lot, ain't they
Have you tried popping down the local discotheque and using a wad of £50 notes as a fan, and rubbing yourself with gold bars so women can get the scent and flock to you
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I can safely say from reading your profile and your responses on here, money is not the issue and never will be.
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"Duly noted " If you don't click replay+quote, we won't know who you are noting | |||
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"Duly noted If you don't click replay+quote, we won't know who you are noting " Immune to help it seems. | |||
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"Duly noted If you don't click replay+quote, we won't know who you are noting Immune to help it seems." | |||
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We're not all the same and looks and money are not the be all and end all for a lot of us, there's so much more that makes us choose whether or not to take things further.
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"Thanks for your insight, I've just always struggled. I think I'm cursed. I definitely know that British Women aren't interested. " You know that every single British woman isn't interested?? | |||
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"That was a confidence boost, thanks " Reply and quote reply and quote reply and quote!! | |||
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"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual." Also reply+quote highlight whom you’re replying to  | |||
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"That was a confidence boost, thanks Reply and quote reply and quote reply and quote!!" | |||
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"I know us Men aren't really allowed to have any requirements anymore." No, us men are. We just don't get away with being dickheads anymore. | |||
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"I know us Men aren't really allowed to have any requirements anymore." Absolute nonsense of course you can, but women don't have to give up their requirements and standards to meet yours. | |||
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"No offense intended, I'm just trying to find some answers that's all miss, have a lovely evening." None taken I'm just curious as to how you could possibly know every British woman isn't interested... | |||
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"I've Yet to receive a logical explanation off a woman regarding this issue. it's a big problem." It really isn’t. I’m not rich, I don’t have a fancy car or nice things. I’m middle aged, balding and have a face that even my mother would slap. However, I have two loving partners, friends and people that I chat to regularly. The issue isn’t other people but if you’re going to blame them for the issues with you, then there’s not much hope | |||
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"It's a work of Art " If you use reply and quote,bthen place your cursor outside of quote and start typing we will be able to see who you're responding to | |||
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"Maybe I'm generalizing " Only maybe? I’d suggest you are massively generalising. | |||
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"Maybe I'm generalizing " I would say so.. when I met my husband he barely had a pot to piss in but even if he was well off I love him for who he is rather than the size of his bank balance... | |||
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"Maybe its not your lack of money but rather your lack of being able to follow instructions. *******Reply and quote reply+quote *******. This thread must win the prize for how many times this has been said yet ignored "And sadly (facepalm) it shall continue to be ignored
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"God help me " I would take this one on the chin ...and make sure you use the reply + quote button when replying to people otherwise it causes all sorts of confusion lol | |||
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"God help me I would take this one on the chin ...and make sure you use the reply + quote button when replying to people otherwise it causes all sorts of confusion lol" | |||
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"I don't think that, it's just what the evidence suggests, it's an interesting world." Oh and for what it's worth you're a good looking guy and I may have been interested but as a fat girl I'm not your type... which us perfectly fine | |||
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"I'm not a bad guy Says Zangief "Who ?? | |||
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"God help me I would take this one on the chin ...and make sure you use the reply + quote button when replying to people otherwise it causes all sorts of confusion lol" So you finally do reply+quote yet don't write anything. aaarrrggghhhh | |||
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"Maybe I'm generalizing I would say so.. when I met my husband he barely had a pot to piss in but even if he was well off I love him for who he is rather than the size of his bank balance... " Same for me and him, he had started a company from scratch and was far from well off, I didn't care about that, it was him I was into not his bank balance Tinder | |||
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"All Women Care about is Money. I know I definitely need Manual." · You Manuel. He'll help you. | |||
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"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results " But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? | |||
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" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy?" I agree someone should never force a change to their preferences, as a large woman I wouldn't want to be with someone who finds my body shape a turn off. | |||
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"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do." Honestly the size preference is a moot point for me, people like what they like, it's the rest of the attitude that irked Tinder | |||
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"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do." Unless I’ve missed something no one has called him out for having preferences on size but they have pointed out that he’s significantly narrowed the already very limited pool of females on the site. | |||
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"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do. Honestly the size preference is a moot point for me, people like what they like, it's the rest of the attitude that irked Tinder " This ^ I'm well aware I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Same as not everyone isn't mine. | |||
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"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do. Honestly the size preference is a moot point for me, people like what they like, it's the rest of the attitude that irked I didn't mean to be this much trouble Tinder " | |||
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" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I agree someone should never force a change to their preferences, as a large woman I wouldn't want to be with someone who finds my body shape a turn off. " There's never an easy way of wording it without offending someone but at least he is clear and open on his preferences. I won't comment on the rest of his profile, but I respect that. | |||
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"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy?" I don't want to blow my back out. | |||
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"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out." Wow. Chivalry isn't dead. | |||
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"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do. Unless I’ve missed something no one has called him out for having preferences on size but they have pointed out that he’s significantly narrowed the already very limited pool of females on the site. " I won't point the comment out but it is their | |||
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"All Women Care about is Money. I know I definitely need Manual. · You Manuel. He'll help you." Què? | |||
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"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out." Yeah maybe don't dig yourself a big hole to fall in. Most were not bothered by the size thing Tinder | |||
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" I don't want to blow my back out." You still think the problem is your bank balance | |||
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" I don't want to blow my back out. You still think the problem is your bank balance "I can't help him anymore  I'm out | |||
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"I'm not a bad guy Says Zangief
Who ??"Zangief - bad guy! *one for the film geeks. | |||
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" I don't want to blow my back out. You still think the problem is your bank balance
I can't help him anymore I'm out"You tried valiantly fair play | |||
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" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out." OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences. | |||
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"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy?" The point is not every size twelve and below is perfection, nor above nor any man at any height, the point is if you rule someone out of the question because of a physical attribute then you are missing out on their story, yes I get that there needs to be a physical attraction but does everything have to be a No Yes Next, I’m not suggesting you give everyone your time but the OP is looking for the needle in the haystack meanwhile there’s rich tapestry all around him, you me all of us, if that all sounds too whimsical then my head in the clouds approach is garnering more results than his maybe | |||
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"I'm not a bad guy Says Zangief
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Zangief - bad guy!
*one for the film geeks. "Think you might have to educate me when I'm up lol | |||
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"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out." Wow!! Well done ... you've actually rendered me speechless... something no one has managed before ... | |||
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"OP, I couldn't agree with you more. Finally someone with gumption, verve and lateral obliques to speak the unspeakable, lest they be shot down like a deflated Zeppelin. These women - the illegitimate daughters of Eve - sprung forth from tainted wombs with all the greed and lust for money. They care less for men and even less for themselves if they're not cocooned within a silken purse filled with the currency of deceit. Ask them out on a date and they magically need to powder their dainty noses with MAC™ powder when the bill arrives. They're not content with Boots No.7 but want everything resembling a 007. They walk the cheap cobbled streets on designer heels but want you to drive them around in expensive wheels. They have Champagne tastes but Shandy money. If you manage to get one naked (in a Deluxe Room because they won't settle for less) check if they're sporting a long scar along their abdomen: she's probably sold one of her Kidneys for an Anya Hindmarch™. Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs." Finally you Sir are a Man of impeccable style and taste! My compliments. | |||
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" I don't want to blow my back out. You still think the problem is your bank balance "not really no. | |||
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" Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs." And we can be impressed with a Groupon meal out if you really want to be flash | |||
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"Have you tried an automatic instead of a manual? You may find that easier. Mr TMN " Haha  | |||
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"OP, I couldn't agree with you more. Finally someone with gumption, verve and lateral obliques to speak the unspeakable, lest they be shot down like a deflated Zeppelin. These women - the illegitimate daughters of Eve - sprung forth from tainted wombs with all the greed and lust for money. They care less for men and even less for themselves if they're not cocooned within a silken purse filled with the currency of deceit. Ask them out on a date and they magically need to powder their dainty noses with MAC™ powder when the bill arrives. They're not content with Boots No.7 but want everything resembling a 007. They walk the cheap cobbled streets on designer heels but want you to drive them around in expensive wheels. They have Champagne tastes but Shandy money. If you manage to get one naked (in a Deluxe Room because they won't settle for less) check if they're sporting a long scar along their abdomen: she's probably sold one of her Kidneys for an Anya Hindmarch™. Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs." Ohhhh... I wondered why you were lowering yourself to flirting with me Néro | |||
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" Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs. And we can be impressed with a Groupon meal out if you really want to be flash "I can stretch to a clubcard meal deal. Just let me know which tesco to meet you at. | |||
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" Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs. And we can be impressed with a Groupon meal out if you really want to be flash "• I'm more of a "Grope On" meal type of person. I like to fondle during my fondue. | |||
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" Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs. And we can be impressed with a Groupon meal out if you really want to be flash
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I'm more of a "Grope On" meal type of person. I like to fondle during my fondue."Have you bumped your head recently Nero? How many fingers am I holding up? | |||
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"...Ohhhh... I wondered why you were lowering yourself to flirting with me Néro "• Sometimes I lower myself to apotheosize you. | |||
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"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual." No manual needed you've got endurance.... Maybe it's not the women, what or who is thr common demoninator in all of this
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"No I like to think I have More style and class than that,I adore the art of conversation.. most women don't " I think you'll find that I, and many women, love the "art of conversation". Me? I can chat for England. Also, it ain't about money. Many women, myself included, support ourselves very well and don't need or want a man to provide for them. I'm thinking you're looking for a very specific type of lady? If so, you may need to rethink your parameters as, has been said above, the women you're wanting are just not that into you. No offence intended with this by the way, just maybe a reason why you've been single for 12 yrs. | |||
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"No I like to think I have More style and class than that,I adore the art of conversation.. most women don't I think you'll find that I, and many women, love the "art of conversation". Me? I can chat for England. Also, it ain't about money. Many women, myself included, support ourselves very well and don't need or want a man to provide for them. I'm thinking you're looking for a very specific type of lady? If so, you may need to rethink your parameters as, has been said above, the women you're wanting are just not that into you. No offence intended with this by the way, just maybe a reason why you've been single for 12 yrs. "no just a reasonably fit and healthy one really. | |||
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"Try being a bit more positive, maybe ask yourself why people aren't connecting or ask a female friend what they think about you. Your welcome to your preferences and all that but if you expect ladies queuing up because your a man, things are only getting worse. It definitely ain't about money I guarantee its your approach that's letting you down. " duly noted | |||
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"No I like to think I have More style and class than that,I adore the art of conversation.. most women don't I think you'll find that I, and many women, love the "art of conversation". Me? I can chat for England. Also, it ain't about money. Many women, myself included, support ourselves very well and don't need or want a man to provide for them. I'm thinking you're looking for a very specific type of lady? If so, you may need to rethink your parameters as, has been said above, the women you're wanting are just not that into you. No offence intended with this by the way, just maybe a reason why you've been single for 12 yrs. "duly noted | |||
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"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do." That's not really true, Willy. I've never offended when a guy is not looking for fat gals. If he states on his profile he's looking for gym fit/petite/slim, I just move on. | |||
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"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual. No manual needed you've got endurance.... Maybe it's not the women, what or who is thr common demoninator in all of this
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"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do. That's not really true, Willy. I've never offended when a guy is not looking for fat gals. If he states on his profile he's looking for gym fit/petite/slim, I just move on. " the UK Obesity rate is now currently at 60% so slim pickings, literally, pardon the pun. | |||
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"No I like to think I have More style and class than that,I adore the art of conversation.. most women don't I think you'll find that I, and many women, love the "art of conversation". Me? I can chat for England. Also, it ain't about money. Many women, myself included, support ourselves very well and don't need or want a man to provide for them. I'm thinking you're looking for a very specific type of lady? If so, you may need to rethink your parameters as, has been said above, the women you're wanting are just not that into you. No offence intended with this by the way, just maybe a reason why you've been single for 12 yrs. no just a reasonably fit and healthy one really."Well there's loads of gorgeous, slim(mer) women on here, and am sure on most dating sites. If you're not getting replies, it can really only be down to your approach and or looks. | |||
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" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out. OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences. " I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too. | |||
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"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual. No manual needed you've got endurance.... Maybe it's not the women, what or who is thr common demoninator in all of this
Mr complex creatures aren't they."Not particularly no.....maybe it's a simple case of there not attracted to you in looks, your personality and or your approach.... Mr | |||
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" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out. OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences. I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too." I absolutely agree you're allowed preferences it's just how you state those preferences which will dictate how people will react to it... | |||
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"Must just be British Women then,I reckon I'm going to have to Emigrate eventually. South East Asia possibly. I need a Manual, more advice the merrier." Literally this is exactly where I expected this to go | |||
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"Must just be British Women then,I reckon I'm going to have to Emigrate eventually. South East Asia possibly. I need a Manual, more advice the merrier. Literally this is exactly where I expected this to go me too "Oh I meant I knew you were going to suggest moving to South East Asia. I just had a feeling. | |||
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" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out. OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences. I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too." Big shout out to all the non human sized ladies. | |||
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"Must just be British Women then,I reckon I'm going to have to Emigrate eventually. South East Asia possibly. I need a Manual, more advice the merrier. Literally this is exactly where I expected this to go me too
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" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out. OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences. I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too. Big shout out to all the non human sized ladies." I'm elephant sized | |||
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" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out. OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences. I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too. Big shout out to all the non human sized ladies." you're using woke made up word's, I'm here for some intelligent reasoning and healthy debate. | |||
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" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out. OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences. I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too." What is the cut off point for human sized??? Mr | |||
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"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do." There's nice ways to put it though isn't there? I'm assuming OP had something different on his profile previously that I didn't see based on other comments - I don't find very slim men attractive but I focus on what I DO find attractive in our profile - Xeno | |||
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"Maybe I'm generalizing Only maybe? I’d suggest you are massively generalising. " maybe I'm just a precision Strike kind of Truth telling guy. | |||
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"Maybe I'm generalizing Only maybe? I’d suggest you are massively generalising. maybe I'm just a precision Strike kind of Truth telling guy." in a Woke world. | |||
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"Nope. A few may but the majority don't. Money isn't of interest to most. I have my thoughts as to what may be the issue but as you've not asked for advice I'll keep them to myself for now. " He asked for a manual - doesn’t that suggest he wants advice? (As would I.) | |||
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"Nope. A few may but the majority don't. Money isn't of interest to most. I have my thoughts as to what may be the issue but as you've not asked for advice I'll keep them to myself for now. He asked for a manual - doesn’t that suggest he wants advice? (As would I.)" not bum fun. No I'm All good. | |||
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"I’m looking for a British woman (or any other ethnicity) that has a bangable hole and nice big set of tits. Apply within
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"Nope. A few may but the majority don't. Money isn't of interest to most. I have my thoughts as to what may be the issue but as you've not asked for advice I'll keep them to myself for now. He asked for a manual - doesn’t that suggest he wants advice? (As would I.) not bum fun. No I'm All good." I don’t get that message at all. I was just sticking up for you. | |||
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"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do. That's not really true, Willy. I've never offended when a guy is not looking for fat gals. If he states on his profile he's looking for gym fit/petite/slim, I just move on. the UK Obesity rate is now currently at 60% so slim pickings, literally, pardon the pun." In the 2021 census there were more than 30m women and girls in the UK (I'm rounding down for easier maths). Say only 10m are of a suitable age for you. 40% still gives you 4m women. Yet none of them respond to you? There is a common factor here OP. | |||
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"This is has got slightly out of hand. If you start a controversial thread, then you have to expect some comeback on the things you say..... Mr would you like a wet wipe?" Only for wiping away your self-pity.... Mr | |||
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"Positive feedback?.. You're obviously into fitness. My suggestion would be do some sort of group fitness activity with others, where you're meeting lots of new people. Actually in the real world though. (Forget online dating & websites like tinder etc.) I don't see why you wouldn't do well and find what you're looking for." . Finally, thank you Sir,I do enjoy my fitness very much so, It can be quite challenging meeting ladies at the gym as you could imagine. Thanks buddy. | |||
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"OP, I couldn't agree with you more. Finally someone with gumption, verve and lateral obliques to speak the unspeakable, lest they be shot down like a deflated Zeppelin. These women - the illegitimate daughters of Eve - sprung forth from tainted wombs with all the greed and lust for money. They care less for men and even less for themselves if they're not cocooned within a silken purse filled with the currency of deceit. Ask them out on a date and they magically need to powder their dainty noses with MAC™ powder when the bill arrives. They're not content with Boots No.7 but want everything resembling a 007. They walk the cheap cobbled streets on designer heels but want you to drive them around in expensive wheels. They have Champagne tastes but Shandy money. If you manage to get one naked (in a Deluxe Room because they won't settle for less) check if they're sporting a long scar along their abdomen: she's probably sold one of her Kidneys for an Anya Hindmarch™. Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs." . You could quill your way into my knickers that's for sure | |||
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"Only 8 messages until the thread cut off hits. Wonder if OP will make a part 2 you can count on It. Before it cuts off. What do you bench? I hit 100kg for 3 yesterday" 110kg | |||
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"Ahhh Ladies, here's an idea Gym meet any body??" To be fair I could do with getting in shape.... even though round is a shape | |||
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"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do. That's not really true, Willy. I've never offended when a guy is not looking for fat gals. If he states on his profile he's looking for gym fit/petite/slim, I just move on. the UK Obesity rate is now currently at 60% so slim pickings, literally, pardon the pun." I'm aware of the levels of obesity in the UK. I'm not that blinkered that I don't realise I'm fat. And considering my size, I really don't find larger guys physically attractive. I lust after gym fit adonises!Many times they like me back. Some love my body. Some think I'm pretty. Some think I'm great fun to be with. Some think everything about me is fabulous. But that doesn't mean I ONLY meet/date "movie star" type guys. If you will ONLY consider slim women, your pool is rather small. And it may be that the perfect creature you're after has her own set of preferences. If you don't fit into them - let's say, a full head of hair - you're further limited. A lovely, smiley face will always work with me, even if he is a bit chunky. The unicorns you're chasing just might not fancy you | |||
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