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By *ensible lady 1960 OP   Woman 31 weeks ago

Near Bishop Auckland.

Men complain that women dont meet on fab.I had two outside meets recently(both separetly).they travelled quite late to meet me. One man had travelled quite a distance so there was probs no chance of a second meet. Sent veries,nice honest ones.only to get blocked by both men.why block genuine meets??

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If they're not keen on meeting again then blocking will make it easier for them to see the people they do want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"If they're not keen on meeting again then blocking will make it easier for them to see the people they do want to meet."

Communicating your not keen on meeting again is also a more humane way.. just heartless people on here tbh

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"If they're not keen on meeting again then blocking will make it easier for them to see the people they do want to meet.

Communicating your not keen on meeting again is also a more humane way.. just heartless people on here tbh "

This place is what it is. Looking for heart on what many people consider a fuck site can only be painfully optimistic.

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By *allipygousMan 31 weeks ago

Leicester

Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"If they're not keen on meeting again then blocking will make it easier for them to see the people they do want to meet.

Communicating your not keen on meeting again is also a more humane way.. just heartless people on here tbh

This place is what it is. Looking for heart on what many people consider a fuck site can only be painfully optimistic."

Your not wrong on this place being a fuck site haha but it’s the chivalry never mind looking for heart

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"If they're not keen on meeting again then blocking will make it easier for them to see the people they do want to meet."

Even if I did not plan on meeting again, I wouldn't block - unless it had been a complete disaster.

Just move on, your advantage is that blokes on here outnumber women, so no doubt you'll find others who are happy to meet, verify, and not block you.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*"

Uncalled for.

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"Men complain that women dont meet on fab.I had two outside meets recently(both separetly).they travelled quite late to meet me. One man had travelled quite a distance so there was probs no chance of a second meet. Sent veries,nice honest ones.only to get blocked by both men.why block genuine meets??"

Sadly there are guys out there who will compromise their own standards because the women they want to meet either a) aren't replying for whatever reason or b) have already turned them down so they keep trying and trying until they find someone who will finally let them get their dick wet and feel ashamed about it after they've got what they want so will block in an attempt to cover their tracks

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman 31 weeks ago

Travelling


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*"

Wow

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By *allipygousMan 31 weeks ago

Leicester


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

Uncalled for."

Why? What have I said that's offensive? Would you have replied the same if a man had been the OP and I posted exactly the same?

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By *parkle1974Woman 31 weeks ago

Leeds

They got what they wanted and obviously weren't keen for repeat meets.

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By *eliWoman 31 weeks ago

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Because they don't want to meet you again. Don't overthink it OP, be a bit meh but try to just forget it.

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By *allipygousMan 31 weeks ago

Leicester


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

Wow "

See my above response.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 31 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*"

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

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By *allipygousMan 31 weeks ago

Leicester


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J"

You can see my earlier response too.

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago

Sending a polite message saying that it didnt click is perfectly fine.

Blocking is coward shit.

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too."

You're really selling yourself.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 31 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too."

Ah, you're just rude to everyone. I see.

J

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

Uncalled for."

Quoting Prey above…

This place is what it is. Looking for heart on what many people consider a fuck site can only be painfully optimistic.

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By *allipygousMan 31 weeks ago

Leicester


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

You're really selling yourself."

I've no need to sell myself. Only a minutiae of fab users glance at the forums and I'm not interested in meeting people who rush to defend a female when they'd scoff at a bloke in the exact same position.

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

You're really selling yourself.

I've no need to sell myself. Only a minutiae of fab users glance at the forums and I'm not interested in meeting people who rush to defend a female when they'd scoff at a bloke in the exact same position."

She asked a question to which we’re discussing.. You could have really just not said anything at all haha your basically asking for it tbh but continue just getting my popcorn

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By *allipygousMan 31 weeks ago

Leicester


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

Ah, you're just rude to everyone. I see.

J"

Far from it. One person's rude is another person's unsugared honesty.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 31 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

You're really selling yourself.

I've no need to sell myself. Only a minutiae of fab users glance at the forums and I'm not interested in meeting people who rush to defend a female when they'd scoff at a bloke in the exact same position."

You have no idea how I'd react to a man in the same position. I'm pretty fair and try to be nice to everyone.

Luckily I have no interest in meeting people who make sly digs.

J

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By *ony MannMan 31 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*"

Now let's see why would anyone say that. Personally I do not hide verification as they are all kind to me.

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By *nnandElleCouple 31 weeks ago

Brackley


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

You're really selling yourself.

I've no need to sell myself. Only a minutiae of fab users glance at the forums and I'm not interested in meeting people who rush to defend a female when they'd scoff at a bloke in the exact same position."

100% with you on that! A bloke would have had a plethora of sarcastic comments if they'd made the same post as the OP.

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By *enchlipsMan 31 weeks ago

Brighton

No need to be rude regardless of what went on, being nice, decent and respectful costs fuck all but to be rude to someone who has been good enough to take the time to come and meet you and fulfill your needs, is pretty much just a shit cunt dog fart and you should not waste a solitary moment on their negativity and don’t be upset about the fact most people are not happy with themselves so have to be cruel and mean to make themselves feel better

Walk the higher ground and keep shining

One love and blessssss

Anyone wants to meet a decent man in Brighton I promise I’m as nice and sweet like a pie

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By *parkle1974Woman 31 weeks ago

Leeds


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*"

To be honest, I have seen men getting this exact reply if they posted a similar topic...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

Uncalled for.

Quoting Prey above…

This place is what it is. Looking for heart on what many people consider a fuck site can only be painfully optimistic."

Exhibit B. As it were.

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By *ony MannMan 31 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura


"Men complain that women dont meet on fab.I had two outside meets recently(both separetly).they travelled quite late to meet me. One man had travelled quite a distance so there was probs no chance of a second meet. Sent veries,nice honest ones.only to get blocked by both men.why block genuine meets??"

All I will say is move on and forget it, best leave them behind.

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

Uncalled for.

Quoting Prey above…

This place is what it is. Looking for heart on what many people consider a fuck site can only be painfully optimistic.

Exhibit B. As it were."

Clever. *knucklebump

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By *allipygousMan 31 weeks ago

Leicester


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

You're really selling yourself.

I've no need to sell myself. Only a minutiae of fab users glance at the forums and I'm not interested in meeting people who rush to defend a female when they'd scoff at a bloke in the exact same position.

You have no idea how I'd react to a man in the same position. I'm pretty fair and try to be nice to everyone.

Luckily I have no interest in meeting people who make sly digs.

J"

Rather presumptuous of you, thinking I'd want to meet you.

Block number 1, and we're off!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 31 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

OP, as others have said, blocking means they don't want to meet again and are not polite enough to tell you directly.

J

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

You're really selling yourself.

I've no need to sell myself. Only a minutiae of fab users glance at the forums and I'm not interested in meeting people who rush to defend a female when they'd scoff at a bloke in the exact same position."

Who is scoffing?

To quote William Horman 'Manners Maketh Man' (or Galahad in Kingsman)

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By *glyBettyTV/TS 31 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I'm guessing they were married or attached & you were only ever intended to be a short-term/one-off dalliance as far as they were concerned. I wouldn't take it too seriously.

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By *allipygousMan 31 weeks ago

Leicester


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

You're really selling yourself.

I've no need to sell myself. Only a minutiae of fab users glance at the forums and I'm not interested in meeting people who rush to defend a female when they'd scoff at a bloke in the exact same position.

Who is scoffing?

To quote William Horman 'Manners Maketh Man' (or Galahad in Kingsman)"

I'm back! Just nattering to my youngest daughter about stuff and we're laughing at the hypocrisy of this thread. And the white knighting

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By *illan-KillashMan 31 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

Ah, you're just rude to everyone. I see.

J

Far from it. One person's rude is another person's unsugared honesty."

People who are brutally honest generally enjoy the brutality more than the honesty.

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By *ot to giggleWoman 31 weeks ago

Coventry


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*"

yea rude men !!! was this necessary??

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By *ot to giggleWoman 31 weeks ago

Coventry


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

Ah, you're just rude to everyone. I see.

J

Far from it. One person's rude is another person's unsugared honesty."

just because you sit behind a keyboard doesnt make you a nice person - unsugared honest turned into spouted crap - you dont have to and being kind to someone is an alien thing - there's enough unpleasantness in the world - if you didnt have anything nice to say then say nothing .

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By *offiaCoolWoman 31 weeks ago

Kidsgrove


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

Uncalled for."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago

How about we get back to the OP's op

Maybe take a break to not let someone's actions stress you OP

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By *ellhungvweMan 31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

OP it is unusual to get blocked after a positive meet with veris. I have never heard of it happening although I am sure it does. For it to happen twice is weird.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 31 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

No Strings Attached Swingers/Sex Site.....

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By *allipygousMan 31 weeks ago

Leicester


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

Ah, you're just rude to everyone. I see.

J

Far from it. One person's rude is another person's unsugared honesty.

People who are brutally honest generally enjoy the brutality more than the honesty."

Back after an enforced forum ban.

Nice quote about brutality. Rather shoehorned in though considering what I said wasn't brutal.

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By *allipygousMan 31 weeks ago

Leicester


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

Ah, you're just rude to everyone. I see.

J

Far from it. One person's rude is another person's unsugared honesty.

just because you sit behind a keyboard doesnt make you a nice person - unsugared honest turned into spouted crap - you dont have to and being kind to someone is an alien thing - there's enough unpleasantness in the world - if you didnt have anything nice to say then say nothing ."

Giggle, I wasn't being deliberately unpleasant. Yes, there's plenty of unpleasantness in the world, I also think it could do with a lot more honesty, less molly coddling and a lot less hypocrisy.

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By *offiaCoolWoman 31 weeks ago

Kidsgrove


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

Ah, you're just rude to everyone. I see.

J

Far from it. One person's rude is another person's unsugared honesty.

People who are brutally honest generally enjoy the brutality more than the honesty.

Back after an enforced forum ban.

Nice quote about brutality. Rather shoehorned in though considering what I said wasn't brutal."

Talking about a ban, often gets another ban. Byyyyeee

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By *till gameMan 31 weeks ago

two doors down


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

To be honest, I have seen men getting this exact reply if they posted a similar topic..."

Two wrongs don’t make a right

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By *ikesEmBigMan 31 weeks ago

Herts

Despite appearances I'm probably not the sex god u wish to be

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By *allipygousMan 31 weeks ago

Leicester


"Now let's see, who's the common denominator? *scratches chin in a pondering fashion*

This is rude and unnecessary.

J

You can see my earlier response too.

Ah, you're just rude to everyone. I see.

J

Far from it. One person's rude is another person's unsugared honesty.

People who are brutally honest generally enjoy the brutality more than the honesty.

Back after an enforced forum ban.

Nice quote about brutality. Rather shoehorned in though considering what I said wasn't brutal.

Talking about a ban, often gets another ban. Byyyyeee "

Nah, I think if you talk about the specifics or moan about it you get another one. We'll see *shrug*

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