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and you wonder why people dont respond to messages or meet !!
this morning blanket bombed with 'I would like to have sex with you, Please pick a day, in the daytime that suits you' 
and thats not my best over the weekend apart from the pratt I had agreed to meet deciding to message at 1.30am about come commando and im going to lick your pussy out! - we were meeting for a social - dont do d*unk texting
oh and the delightful idiot who suggested that he would like to 'rape' me ......... yea reported.
my female fab friend heard from the top one as well this morning. And they wonder why they cant get a meet !!!!
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Better that they communicate this way than try to conceal how they really are. It makes it easier to spot the ones with zero interpersonal skills, or who see other people as a utility.
They can get in the bin. |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Hugs
That you been blanket bombed with smut
Sorry I can’t resist but I am going to blanket bomb you with charm
So how about you put your feet up on the couch and let me fetch you a blanket and put your favourite movie on as I do the house work beautiful |
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"Hugs
That you been blanket bombed with smut
Sorry I can’t resist but I am going to blanket bomb you with charm
So how about you put your feet up on the couch and let me fetch you a blanket and put your favourite movie on as I do the house work beautiful "
 awwww my lovely thank you - i know there are some really lovely people on here - I do know quite a few.
Just felt a bit jaded over the weekend with the rubbish messages xx |
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and of course the messages from the guys that feel hard done by because of a no message! had a few of those this weekend as well!!
BUT and it is a positive BUT - there are some really lovely people here - just have to dig through the pond life to find the clear water!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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"Hugs
That you been blanket bombed with smut
Sorry I can’t resist but I am going to blanket bomb you with charm
So how about you put your feet up on the couch and let me fetch you a blanket and put your favourite movie on as I do the house work beautiful
awwww my lovely thank you - i know there are some really lovely people on here - I do know quite a few.
Just felt a bit jaded over the weekend with the rubbish messages xx"
Your welcome anytime and it’s quite all right I can relate and understand about the message so no need to explain or apologise xx |
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I don't read my messages. Actually that's a lie. I read the ones with attractive pics. I've not read an abusive message in months as I've found those that make an effort with their profile also send nice messages. Works for me. |
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"and of course the messages from the guys that feel hard done by because of a no message! had a few of those this weekend as well!!
BUT and it is a positive BUT - there are some really lovely people here - just have to dig through the pond life to find the clear water!!!"
No truer word said dig and you will find the gold scrape the surface and you will get the dregs personally don’t message women on hear have chatted to some amazing people guys as well as women
Have glorious day all stay positive enjoy the sun while it lasts anyway x  |
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By *TG3Man 31 weeks ago
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"and of course the messages from the guys that feel hard done by because of a no message! had a few of those this weekend as well!!
BUT and it is a positive BUT - there are some really lovely people here - just have to dig through the pond life to find the clear water!!!"
Their are some lovely people here |
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It's awful and dreadful to read all those horrendous things, OP. I'm sorry to hear that.
Rest assured, here amongst the forå folk, you can find some modicum of sanctuary and light-hearted distractions.  |
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Wow, sorry you had the R one, that's absolutely vile. Hope you're ok and glad you reported..
The absolute idiots out themselves with these messages at least, so they can be blocked.
I use lots of filters, but the odd Moron still slips through. |
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By *oozleMan 31 weeks ago
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I think what’s needs overall is more respect for each other.
People need to think more about what they write and how that could be seen by the recipient.
Part of the fun of being here is to reach out to like minded people, form a connection and see what might come of it.
Block button engage!!
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"Can I apologise on behalf of my gender..."
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No you may not. If it's one thing I find unpalatable and offensive on here is the unwitting men who think they can whiteknight and make apologies for the masses who have done nothing wrong. In doing so, on the fora, you are preaching to the converted, so to speak.
The perpetrator/s should be the one apologising. |
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"Can I apologise on behalf of my gender...
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No you may not. If it's one thing I find unpalatable and offensive on here is the unwitting men who think they can whiteknight and make apologies for the masses who have done nothing wrong. In doing so, on the fora, you are preaching to the converted, so to speak.
The perpetrator/s should be the one apologising."
This..I don't need anyone to apologise on my behalf |
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Oh I've had someone tell me him and his mate would do what they wanted to me in front of my husband  ... and another guy tell me he would have deliberately ripped a condom if he had shown up.to the meet ... |
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"Can I apologise on behalf of my gender...
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No you may not. If it's one thing I find unpalatable and offensive on here is the unwitting men who think they can whiteknight and make apologies for the masses who have done nothing wrong. In doing so, on the fora, you are preaching to the converted, so to speak.
The perpetrator/s should be the one apologising."
Hear hear.
I don’t need anyone apologising on my behalf for actions I have not committed.
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By *istr3ssWoman 31 weeks ago
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"Seems some men think the women on this site are free sex workers ready to drop their knickers for anyone who asks. I agree it totally turns me off too"
Agree. The amount of messages I get basically demanding that I drop everything to meet them immediately is ridiculous |
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"Can I apologise on behalf of my gender...
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No you may not. If it's one thing I find unpalatable and offensive on here is the unwitting men who think they can whiteknight and make apologies for the masses who have done nothing wrong. In doing so, on the fora, you are preaching to the converted, so to speak.
The perpetrator/s should be the one apologising."
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"Seems some men think the women on this site are free sex workers ready to drop their knickers for anyone who asks. I agree it totally turns me off too
Agree. The amount of messages I get basically demanding that I drop everything to meet them immediately is ridiculous "
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"Oh I've had someone tell me him and his mate would do what they wanted to me in front of my husband ... and another guy tell me he would have deliberately ripped a condom if he had shown up.to the meet ... "
Ooh I could rip a condom.
Not quite the same as
I could crush a grape. |
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"Wtf!! I do feel for the women on here... and I also think it makes it harder for the genuine/normal guys on here!!"
Arguably it also makes it easier when you are obviously not a dick head.
If that makes sense. |
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Thank you for your lovely messages, and comments.
The contributors on the site understand, and thanks but you dont need to apologise for the idiots.
Its for those lurkers who read from the shadows, for those that complain at slow messages, no replies or lack of whatever!
We are living breathing people at the other side of the screen. Everyone does it to what suits them. Respect, thats all thats needed!!! And manners.
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It’s amazing how some people act - this is why we chat and chat until we agree to meet for a social.
We chat about anything and everything - not just to see if there’s a sexual connection and if no red flags come up then we agree to meet for a social.
Some people amaze us with how they present themselves 
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"Oh I've had someone tell me him and his mate would do what they wanted to me in front of my husband ... and another guy tell me he would have deliberately ripped a condom if he had shown up.to the meet ...
Ooh I could rip a condom.
Not quite the same as
I could crush a grape. "
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That's absolutely disgusting, especially the R*** one. Good on you for reporting.
Unfortunately some people are just sick individuals.
That or the fact so many men see this site as a "free for all" to get their cock wet - then we have multiple posts in forums because they need "profile advice" or can't get a meet.
Obviously there are some decent gentlemen on here but the actions of a few spoil it for the majority. |
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I think that this weekend has been brought to us by the message; ‘Wear a hat in the sun and drink plenty of fluids’. There has been a lot of people around that have been drinking the lake water and not just on here |
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"Oh I've had someone tell me him and his mate would do what they wanted to me in front of my husband ... and another guy tell me he would have deliberately ripped a condom if he had shown up.to the meet ...
Ooh I could rip a condom.
Not quite the same as
I could crush a grape. "
OT, but I remember that ‘I could crush a grape’ catchphrase. I'm pretty sure it was Stu Francis (not the Canadian comedian), and I'm pretty sure I remember seeing him in Bournemouth being followed by the paparazzi as I walked in the opposite direction during the 1980s. |
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That's terrible.
Also, you haven't replied to my request to poo on you whilst singing La Marseillaise yet.
I've assumed you have a lot of messages, and it's your oversight, but just a friendly reminder Giggles.
For which I expect you to be grateful, as is your place.
Me xxxx |
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"Oh I've had someone tell me him and his mate would do what they wanted to me in front of my husband ... and another guy tell me he would have deliberately ripped a condom if he had shown up.to the meet ...
Ooh I could rip a condom.
Not quite the same as
I could crush a grape.
OT, but I remember that ‘I could crush a grape’ catchphrase. I'm pretty sure it was Stu Francis (not the Canadian comedian), and I'm pretty sure I remember seeing him in Bournemouth being followed by the paparazzi as I walked in the opposite direction during the 1980s."
Crackerjack!!! |
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