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I still have needs, even though I’m old
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I chatted to an elderly lady on here, she was in her 70s , she said she joined fab to get some sexual excitement as her life was so boring
Although she was mobile her arthritis was so bad, she couldn’t enjoy pennatrive Oh sex anymore and just wanted me to go around and give her oral to satisfy her needs . I did go and she had her first man-made orgasm in 10 years
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"I'd offer to get her shopping but that's as far as I'd go op.
Sure you wouldn't give her a little lick once you'd popped the eggs and condensed milk down? Ten years is a long time."
Sometimes your words can be rather arousing, other times they are a little vomit inducing. This is the latter. |
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I’m quite surprised with the responses, most said they wouldn’t do it and in some respects that’s quite selfish, we did chat at length Before we met and it wasn’t just doing her a favour I did enjoy it helping her enjoy her day
I did think this being a swingers site there would be more in favour of sharing pleasures |
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"I’m quite surprised with the responses, most said they wouldn’t do it and in some respects that’s quite selfish, we did chat at length Before we met and it wasn’t just doing her a favour I did enjoy it helping her enjoy her day
I did think this being a swingers site there would be more in favour of sharing pleasures"
It's not selfish to not enjoy something sexual.
I'd feel patronised if a guy described something in terms of helping me out |
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Hot young woman DMs and says she has needs that must be sorted out now and you are the chosen one. Pretty much every person on the forum would understand if the act was done even if she said that all she wanted was for him to go down on her.
Older woman DMs and says she has needs that must be sorted out now and you are the chosen one. Pretty much every person on the forum would NOT understand if the act was done even if she said that all she wanted was for him to go down on her. |
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"Hot young woman DMs and says she has needs that must be sorted out now and you are the chosen one. Pretty much every person on the forum would understand if the act was done even if she said that all she wanted was for him to go down on her.
Older woman DMs and says she has needs that must be sorted out now and you are the chosen one. Pretty much every person on the forum would NOT understand if the act was done even if she said that all she wanted was for him to go down on her."
I'd still decline it I'm straight so... |
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By *eliWoman 32 weeks ago
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"Hot young woman DMs and says she has needs that must be sorted out now and you are the chosen one. Pretty much every person on the forum would understand if the act was done even if she said that all she wanted was for him to go down on her.
Older woman DMs and says she has needs that must be sorted out now and you are the chosen one. Pretty much every person on the forum would NOT understand if the act was done even if she said that all she wanted was for him to go down on her."
Why did your final paragraph not include hot? If it's comparative, you're going down the like for like route to illustrate a point about ageism, it's rather interesting hot was omitted.
I do think the fora can be ageist but for me, personally, it's not about the age. It's about the level of attraction and if someone has enjoyed it. My response would still be the same if it was a young woman who hadn't enjoyed sex for some time. People have sexual needs, don't have them regardless of age. |
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"I’m quite surprised with the responses, most said they wouldn’t do it and in some respects that’s quite selfish, we did chat at length Before we met and it wasn’t just doing her a favour I did enjoy it helping her enjoy her day
I did think this being a swingers site there would be more in favour of sharing pleasures"
It's selfish to not engage in sexual interactions that neither interest or excite you?
Oh well. Guess I'm selfish.
I just want sex that everyone involved enjoys  |
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"Hot young woman DMs and says she has needs that must be sorted out now and you are the chosen one. Pretty much every person on the forum would understand if the act was done even if she said that all she wanted was for him to go down on her.
Older woman DMs and says she has needs that must be sorted out now and you are the chosen one. Pretty much every person on the forum would NOT understand if the act was done even if she said that all she wanted was for him to go down on her."
I think people are saying it depends on whether they find the person attractive or not? Pity shags aren't sexy, regardless of age.
(Though you load your statement by describing the young woman as "hot", but not the older one, so it's not comparable - most people will pick the "hot" one, regardless of age) |
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"Hot young woman DMs and says she has needs that must be sorted out now and you are the chosen one. Pretty much every person on the forum would understand if the act was done even if she said that all she wanted was for him to go down on her.
Older woman DMs and says she has needs that must be sorted out now and you are the chosen one. Pretty much every person on the forum would NOT understand if the act was done even if she said that all she wanted was for him to go down on her.
Why did your final paragraph not include hot? If it's comparative, you're going down the like for like route to illustrate a point about ageism, it's rather interesting hot was omitted.
I do think the fora can be ageist but for me, personally, it's not about the age. It's about the level of attraction and if someone has enjoyed it. My response would still be the same if it was a young woman who hadn't enjoyed sex for some time. People have sexual needs, don't have them regardless of age."
It didn’t include hot because I accidentally deleted it when I did the cut and paste on my phone. It was my intention to include everything verbatim. |
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By *essTTWoman 32 weeks ago
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"I’m quite surprised with the responses, most said they wouldn’t do it and in some respects that’s quite selfish, we did chat at length Before we met and it wasn’t just doing her a favour I did enjoy it helping her enjoy her day
I did think this being a swingers site there would be more in favour of sharing pleasures"
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Why Does this forum turn everything round, the initial thread mentioned nothing about a pity shag or helping her out? We chatted? I enjoyed her company she enjoyed mine and we both enjoyed mutual pleasure but no intercourse . No mention of doing her a favour
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"Why Does this forum turn everything round, the initial thread mentioned nothing about a pity shag or helping her out? We chatted? I enjoyed her company she enjoyed mine and we both enjoyed mutual pleasure but no intercourse . No mention of doing her a favour
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You said you did enjoy it which is great, mutual pleasure is most people's aim. Then you said 'helping her enjoy her day'. That's what made me think you were helping her out |
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"Why Does this forum turn everything round, the initial thread mentioned nothing about a pity shag or helping her out? We chatted? I enjoyed her company she enjoyed mine and we both enjoyed mutual pleasure but no intercourse . No mention of doing her a favour
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Because the initial thread made it all about her age rather than enjoying giving oral to someone you were attracted to. That's what made it sound like pity sex/doing her a favour. And when people pointed this out why that wouldn't be for them, you said they were selfish 
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70s isn't old! Age is just about the last thing I think about when getting to know people off fab. If there's mutual attraction, then some form of sex might happen, depending on each others interests and abilities. It's never going to be a "pity shag", but could be anything from a one off spur of the moment bit of NSA indulgence of our sexual appetites, to a regular occurrence with a FWB. |
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Absolutely yes. If there is an attraction (and a lifetime of naughty experience, even with the same partner) is very sexy.
Sure, some of us have numeric elderly bodies but don't think for a moment that we are the elderly that we used to know. We are still the swinging sixties and we have been there, and done things that many youngsters would run a mile from. In our heads and attitude, we are still 21. That is why many of us still have a very active and fulfilling sex life.
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 32 weeks ago
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So she's mobile enough to walk around independently, but apparently not mobile enough to be able to take a dick lying down?
Can't lie it kinda sounds like you might have gotten finessed  |
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"So she's mobile enough to walk around independently, but apparently not mobile enough to be able to take a dick lying down?
Can't lie it kinda sounds like you might have gotten finessed "
She's got arthritis, the pain of that is awful and I can imagine that walking might be possible but sex might not be |
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