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Why do fellas about 30 to 35 go for women approaching 50. I’m no stunner… n before anyone gives it the whole “don’t put yourself down malarkey” I’m not. I know my worth… but I am curious.
So what’s the reason? Are older women more fun? Or is it just cuz the fellas think older women will be easier as they’re more desperate?
Are they less needy as they have their shit together…
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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They’re not more fun or more anything. There’s a perception I think. A stereotype that creates a fantasy that older women are more confident and know what they want etc. but that’s nothing to do with age. My fiancé is the most confident person, great communicator and is everything I want and she’s not 30+ or 40+ or 50+.
Relationships and sex are and should be about connection. If you connect with so_eone then being older than you shouldn’t matter. I have partners much older than me. Some people I see are 50+. Some 40s. Some 30s. Some 20s. It is about the connection. The conversation. The attraction is more than just stereotypes or fantasies.
I’ve gone around the ways to say:
Don’t worry about reasons, OP. You are worthy of being desired and being loved and these men see that. If the connection is there then who even cares. You’ll know if it’s genuine or if it’s a box tick. |
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"Why do fellas about 30 to 35 go for women approaching 50. I’m no stunner… n before anyone gives it the whole “don’t put yourself down malarkey” I’m not. I know my worth… but I am curious.
So what’s the reason? Are older women more fun? Or is it just cuz the fellas think older women will be easier as they’re more desperate?
Are they less needy as they have their shit together…
Help a gal out fellas? "
I think all of the above applies to different guys.
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By *ythenMan 41 weeks ago
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"Older women tend to know what they want know there bodies, you have a good time in most cases and I have a thing for older women think it’s sexy  "
Would definitely agree with the post above and points made as why younger guys might prefer older ladies |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Less to no bullshit with a older woman. Knows what she wants and let's it be known
Then cooks you breakfast in the morning and tidies up..."
Woah, what? Where can I find one of them? Doubt they exist |
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"Less to no bullshit with a older woman. Knows what she wants and let's it be known
Then cooks you breakfast in the morning and tidies up..."
Yeah, fuck that. Young men [20s] are there to show me how quickly his rock solid erection can bounce back, I’m 100% not his mother |
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"Less to no bullshit with a older woman. Knows what she wants and let's it be known
Then cooks you breakfast in the morning and tidies up...
Yeah, fuck that. Young men [20s] are there to show me how quickly his rock solid erection can bounce back, I’m 100% not his mother "
‘YOU’RE NOT MY MUVVAAA’
‘YESS I AMMMMMMMM’
Iconic. Chills. Literal chills. |
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"Less to no bullshit with a older woman. Knows what she wants and let's it be known
Then cooks you breakfast in the morning and tidies up...
Yeah, fuck that. Young men [20s] are there to show me how quickly his rock solid erection can bounce back, I’m 100% not his mother "
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"Less to no bullshit with a older woman. Knows what she wants and let's it be known
Then cooks you breakfast in the morning and tidies up..."
Ha ha I ain’t cooking no one breakfast.. they ain’t even staying the night. When I’m done they’re gone lol |
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"Less to no bullshit with a older woman. Knows what she wants and let's it be known
Then cooks you breakfast in the morning and tidies up...
Yeah, fuck that. Young men [20s] are there to show me how quickly his rock solid erection can bounce back, I’m 100% not his mother
‘YOU’RE NOT MY MUVVAAA’
‘YESS I AMMMMMMMM’
Iconic. Chills. Literal chills. "
Shut up and eat that breakfast I just cooked you |
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"Why do fellas about 30 to 35 go for women approaching 50. I’m no stunner… n before anyone gives it the whole “don’t put yourself down malarkey” I’m not. I know my worth… but I am curious.
So what’s the reason? Are older women more fun? Or is it just cuz the fellas think older women will be easier as they’re more desperate?
Are they less needy as they have their shit together…
Help a gal out fellas? "
My personal opinion is that I just love a older lady as they are comfy within there body, they know what they like and don’t like, always have and always will be into older ladys x
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Less to no bullshit with a older woman. Knows what she wants and let's it be known
Then cooks you breakfast in the morning and tidies up...
Yeah, fuck that. Young men [20s] are there to show me how quickly his rock solid erection can bounce back, I’m 100% not his mother
‘YOU’RE NOT MY MUVVAAA’
‘YESS I AMMMMMMMM’
Iconic. Chills. Literal chills.
Shut up and eat that breakfast I just cooked you "
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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At what age do women start knowing what they like? Is it the same for men? Do younger men know what they like? Are we immature? Don’t know how to treat a woman? Hmmm. 3am thoughts |
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"At what age do women start knowing what they like? Is it the same for men? Do younger men know what they like? Are we immature? Don’t know how to treat a woman? Hmmm. 3am thoughts"
Are you trying to upset the presumed order of things again?  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"At what age do women start knowing what they like? Is it the same for men? Do younger men know what they like? Are we immature? Don’t know how to treat a woman? Hmmm. 3am thoughts
Are you trying to upset the presumed order of things again? "
I am just wondering 
Curious as to when I’ll finally figure out what I like sexually. It feels like I should know by now but I think it’s related to age |
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"At what age do women start knowing what they like? Is it the same for men? Do younger men know what they like? Are we immature? Don’t know how to treat a woman? Hmmm. 3am thoughts
Are you trying to upset the presumed order of things again?
I am just wondering
Curious as to when I’ll finally figure out what I like sexually. It feels like I should know by now but I think it’s related to age"
My philosophy is to try everything once (some exceptions of things I know I won't like or I'm ethically opposed to) with so_eone I trust. That's how I know, give or take. (I don't think this is about my extremely advanced age, except to the extent I stopped caring what people think of me) |
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"At what age do women start knowing what they like? Is it the same for men? Do younger men know what they like? Are we immature? Don’t know how to treat a woman? Hmmm. 3am thoughts
Are you trying to upset the presumed order of things again?
I am just wondering
Curious as to when I’ll finally figure out what I like sexually. It feels like I should know by now but I think it’s related to age
My philosophy is to try everything once (some exceptions of things I know I won't like or I'm ethically opposed to) with so_eone I trust. That's how I know, give or take. (I don't think this is about my extremely advanced age, except to the extent I stopped caring what people think of me)"
You’re too young to be an older woman x |
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"At what age do women start knowing what they like? Is it the same for men? Do younger men know what they like? Are we immature? Don’t know how to treat a woman? Hmmm. 3am thoughts
Are you trying to upset the presumed order of things again?
I am just wondering
Curious as to when I’ll finally figure out what I like sexually. It feels like I should know by now but I think it’s related to age
My philosophy is to try everything once (some exceptions of things I know I won't like or I'm ethically opposed to) with so_eone I trust. That's how I know, give or take. (I don't think this is about my extremely advanced age, except to the extent I stopped caring what people think of me)
You’re too young to be an older woman x"
Long may that continue |
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"At what age do women start knowing what they like? Is it the same for men? Do younger men know what they like? Are we immature? Don’t know how to treat a woman? Hmmm. 3am thoughts
Are you trying to upset the presumed order of things again?
I am just wondering
Curious as to when I’ll finally figure out what I like sexually. It feels like I should know by now but I think it’s related to age
My philosophy is to try everything once (some exceptions of things I know I won't like or I'm ethically opposed to) with so_eone I trust. That's how I know, give or take. (I don't think this is about my extremely advanced age, except to the extent I stopped caring what people think of me)"
Not gonna lie I wish I was still at your advanced age… cuz 50 looming is pretty scary! X |
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I'm drawn to the younger guy (28 absolute minimum though) I was shagging a 27 year old for the best part of over a year (I mean he was 27 when we met and my rule of 28 is because when my eldest has a birthday my minimum goes up another year), I always questioned why he did and he just said I always like older women, I also questioned why because I'm fat and he said he just prefers larger women (if you saw his ex wife, you wouldn't think so, I he was a closet fancier of big women, would never publicly be with one), I also had it in the back of my head that he was only shagging me because he knew I would never say no, he was fit and what 40+ woman wouldn't want to be desired by a bloke or that age.
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By *na64Woman 41 weeks ago
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"At what age do women start knowing what they like? Is it the same for men? Do younger men know what they like? Are we immature? Don’t know how to treat a woman? Hmmm. 3am thoughts"
This sounds ike the start of a thread. I’d say start one |
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There's a saying - you're as young as the people you're with. Whether this applies to sex, who knows, but I think everyone knows younger guys are spaffing cum for miles at the sight of tits and women are hitting their sexual peak late 30's- mid 40's. As much as it might not make sense in life goals, each get their rocks off in a physical one if nothing else. |
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It is difficult for us old crones (SOME of us, before anyone starts) to get our heads around the fact that some younger men find us very, very desirable.
I wish I had been more confident when I had the chance. When I had those 33 year old gorgeous grey eyes looking at me, ravishing me and wanting to get me naked by just looking at me. I wish I had enjoyed the moment more.
Instead, all I could think about was how on earth he could be there with me and what did he see in me haha! It is even worse if our bodies don’t fit the standard of “beauty”.
I love younger men. I much prefer them. If you ask me why I can’t really say … I just get on better with people my age or younger. And there are very, very mature 20-somethings out there. I am fortunate of having met several.  |
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Older, powerful, women. Knows what she wants is a massive turn on. Rather than a younger, silly girl, who believes they are desirable just because they may look good in a pair of heels.
Intelligence and experience is better than a quick shag but this is me. |
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Women are women. They're either sexually attractive to you or not.
I don't know why younger men want to have sex with older women but I'll hazard a guess it's one of several reasons
1. They think that older women will be grateful and therefore agree to sex more readily
2. They think that older men are all impotent. I've seen young men say things like "let me give you what your partner no longer can 
3. They've tried most of the women around their age who have all turned them down and think because of 1 and 2 they stand a chat with older.
4. So_eone told them we 'know what we want and how to get it' so they think they'll be in for a night of unbridled lust
5. It's no 43 on their bucket list.
6. They genuinely find individual women attractive regardless of their age and want to interact with them as equals.
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I do wonder if most younger guys say they love older women but have an idea in their head that isn't realistic. |
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"Older, powerful, women. Knows what she wants is a massive turn on. Rather than a younger, silly girl, who believes they are desirable just because they may look good in a pair of heels.
Intelligence and experience is better than a quick shag but this is me."
Those qualities are available in young women too.
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Women are women. They're either sexually attractive to you or not.
I don't know why younger men want to have sex with older women but I'll hazard a guess it's one of several reasons
1. They think that older women will be grateful and therefore agree to sex more readily
2. They think that older men are all impotent. I've seen young men say things like "let me give you what your partner no longer can
3. They've tried most of the women around their age who have all turned them down and think because of 1 and 2 they stand a chat with older.
4. So_eone told them we 'know what we want and how to get it' so they think they'll be in for a night of unbridled lust
5. It's no 43 on their bucket list.
6. They genuinely find individual women attractive regardless of their age and want to interact with them as equals.
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I do wonder if most younger guys say they love older women but have an idea in their head that isn't realistic. "
I concur with your concurrence.... |
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"Older, powerful, women. Knows what she wants is a massive turn on. Rather than a younger, silly girl, who believes they are desirable just because they may look good in a pair of heels.
Intelligence and experience is better than a quick shag but this is me.
Those qualities are available in young women too.
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Actually it's the challenge. It's harder to pull an older women than a younger girl.
Young girls are impressed with cars and money. Older women, are not easily impressed with material items but are attracted to men of standing.
I like difficult challenges.
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"Older, powerful, women. Knows what she wants is a massive turn on. Rather than a younger, silly girl, who believes they are desirable just because they may look good in a pair of heels.
Intelligence and experience is better than a quick shag but this is me.
Those qualities are available in young women too.
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It’s truly sad that people consistently equate age with these qualities. |
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"Older, powerful, women. Knows what she wants is a massive turn on. Rather than a younger, silly girl, who believes they are desirable just because they may look good in a pair of heels.
Intelligence and experience is better than a quick shag but this is me.
Those qualities are available in young women too.
Actually it's the challenge. It's harder to pull an older women than a younger girl.
Young girls are impressed with cars and money. Older women, are not easily impressed with material items but are attracted to men of standing.
I like difficult challenges.
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Sort of like an elderly Rubik's cube? |
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"Women are women. They're either sexually attractive to you or not.
I don't know why younger men want to have sex with older women but I'll hazard a guess it's one of several reasons
1. They think that older women will be grateful and therefore agree to sex more readily
2. They think that older men are all impotent. I've seen young men say things like "let me give you what your partner no longer can
3. They've tried most of the women around their age who have all turned them down and think because of 1 and 2 they stand a chat with older.
4. So_eone told them we 'know what we want and how to get it' so they think they'll be in for a night of unbridled lust
5. It's no 43 on their bucket list.
6. They genuinely find individual women attractive regardless of their age and want to interact with them as equals.
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I do wonder if most younger guys say they love older women but have an idea in their head that isn't realistic. "
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"Older, powerful, women. Knows what she wants is a massive turn on. Rather than a younger, silly girl, who believes they are desirable just because they may look good in a pair of heels.
Intelligence and experience is better than a quick shag but this is me.
Those qualities are available in young women too.
Actually it's the challenge. It's harder to pull an older women than a younger girl.
Young girls are impressed with cars and money. Older women, are not easily impressed with material items but are attracted to men of standing.
I like difficult challenges.
Sort of like an elderly Rubik's cube? "
Sort of
Takes time and patience.
The question is of course, is it worth the effort? Well that depends on the prize. If there is mutual respect and attraction then yes. If there is mutual respect, then again, yes.
Attraction is earned with (older) women, not given.
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"Older, powerful, women. Knows what she wants is a massive turn on. Rather than a younger, silly girl, who believes they are desirable just because they may look good in a pair of heels.
Intelligence and experience is better than a quick shag but this is me.
Those qualities are available in young women too.
Actually it's the challenge. It's harder to pull an older women than a younger girl.
Young girls are impressed with cars and money. Older women, are not easily impressed with material items but are attracted to men of standing.
I like difficult challenges.
Sort of like an elderly Rubik's cube?
Sort of
Takes time and patience.
The question is of course, is it worth the effort? Well that depends on the prize. If there is mutual respect and attraction then yes. If there is mutual respect, then again, yes.
Attraction is earned with (older) women, not given.
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That's an interesting way of looking at things |
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They're always disappointed with the reality though.
I'm definitely not fun, no one is staying the night and breakfast isn't on the menu.
I think some are surprised when I'm happy to leave right after sex... But that's part of knowing what I want! |
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Because older women are the sexiest thing ever. I can’t speak for all the guys in my age range but I certainly don’t think of them as easy or anything like that. I think of them as delicious, enchanting, great conversation and sexy as hell |
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I think a lot of it comes from looking at porn at too young an age because girls your age don’t look anything like that and the if you fucked a lady in her late 30’s or 40’s before you were 20 the ladies were a lot more dirty in the bedroom. My fetish has carried on and only ever fucked 5 girls younger than me and the biggest gap was 2 years older |
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