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Bisexual men admitting it to the female partner
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How did it go?
I was honest in tipsy conversation 4 years ago. She said she knew/guessed for many reasons was the answer.
Probably one of the most liberating things I’ve ever done admitting my sexuality and for it to be accepted even better. Neither of us are overly bisexual unless in the right environment with like minded others.
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I think some people think that if their partner comes out as bisexual that means they are going to run off with someone of the same sex.
If someone is going to cheat or run off with someone they are going to do it regardless of their sexuality.
I more or less told my husband right from the start (about 30 years ago) i told him then suggested a threesome and he definitely didn't say no  .
My husband was more recent something happened while we were with another couple and it was good so we had that conversation and decided we would only meet bi couples /and bi men and women.
We have always been able to talk openly and honestly with each other anyway so I think that definitely helps.. |
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I've been married for 24 years. One day late last year I had gotten in such a bad place because I had so much bottled up! One day I decided enough was enough and came out as bi to my wife, damn she exploded! Anger at first then emotional. It went quiet for a day or so then we chatted again and have kept talking. I reinforced to her that I loved her. Now more than 6 months have passed I feel good like a cloud has been lifted and out relationship is probably better than it ever has been. She accepts me being on here, my kinks, talking to people about stuff and exploring.
I really thought she would leave me but the total opposite has happened! |
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I think if guys come out years down the line then it’s potentially going to be relationship ending more often than not from my experiences of talking / meeting guys over the years that have done this
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"How did it go?
I was honest in tipsy conversation 4 years ago. She said she knew/guessed for many reasons was the answer.
Probably one of the most liberating things I’ve ever done admitting my sexuality and for it to be accepted even better. Neither of us are overly bisexual unless in the right environment with like minded others.
Interested to hear others experiences "
I agree. Took me years to admit to my wife but it was quite freeing. |
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I told her, she accepted it instantly without so much as a bat of the eyelid. It was no different than when she told me that she is bisexual. It’s was simply “ah right, glad you felt you could tell me”, and off we went about our morning. |
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I was just happy and excited for him to feel able to explore that side of his sexuality. I had a bit of an inkling he was bi before he did.
At an organised social he said "Nell, I really want to kiss the hot guy we've been chatting to all night". So I said "go for it! He's a really good kisser". So he kissed the hot guy and then we went back to the hotel and had a threesome. |
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