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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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Hey guys do the husbands or male partners feel threatened by meeting a man who performs better in sex then urself and the missus has told u this.
How do u feel after she has mentioned this to u that a random stranger who she fucked was better then u?
Any jealousy? guilt? come in to play or not?
And to the females how do u feel after do u feel the need to thinking about the random strangers who fucked u better then ur man or do u enjoy it and move on? |
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By *elloWoman 39 weeks ago
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"Hey guys do the husbands or male partners feel threatened by meeting a man who performs better in sex then urself and the missus has told u this.
How do u feel after she has mentioned this to u that a random stranger who she fucked was better then u?
Any jealousy? guilt? come in to play or not?
And to the females how do u feel after do u feel the need to thinking about the random strangers who fucked u better then ur man or do u enjoy it and move on?"
If they're going to feel 'threatened' then this is definitely not the lifestyle they should be following |
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It's not possible - he knows my body better than anyone.
We don't meet men but as a woman meeting women no, I don't worry about stuff like that, it's mutual enjoyment, there will be things another woman will do that he'll like and say she did xxx can we try xxx etc which is great.
Mrs |
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I doubt that would happen. We've been together for five years and had a lot of sex and we've talked about what we like. Hannah will always be less relaxed with somebody else which has an impact on her ability to climax.
I can't see a new lover coming in and bring able to catch up on five years of experience just like that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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Thanks for the comments I was just getting put off by another couple on fab as a newbie to the lifestyle. We personally know in life they will always be another man or woman who is better at sex then ourselves its just natural we enjoy the moments and love eachother immensely. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I doubt that would happen. We've been together for five years and had a lot of sex and we've talked about what we like. Hannah will always be less relaxed with somebody else which has an impact on her ability to climax.
I can't see a new lover coming in and bring able to catch up on five years of experience just like that. "
In my opinion I think you should relax and let urself go otherwise why do it in the first place if u feel some kind of way.? that'd what I mentioned to the couple who brought it to my attention. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"If your partner is strolling on in after seeing another guy announcing the guy was a better fuck, then there is something wrong in my opinion. "
We don't feel that way as we know that it's fact that they will be men n women who fuck and suck better then ourselves. Yes we have a great sex life and I understand every inch of my wife's body however just experience another mam or woman turns is on also. And am happy when she says he was good. |
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The way he has always described it to me is that you always want the best for your partner. That's why you go to nice restaurants, stay in nice hotels, go to exotic places, drink fine wine.
Sex is the same. Swinging gives an opportunity to live out fantasies and desires you may not get to do ordinarily. It's just another aspect of life we're you want the best for each other. If that involves others what's wrong in that.
It's just another physical manifestation of our love for each other.
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"The way he has always described it to me is that you always want the best for your partner. That's why you go to nice restaurants, stay in nice hotels, go to exotic places, drink fine wine.
Sex is the same. Swinging gives an opportunity to live out fantasies and desires you may not get to do ordinarily. It's just another aspect of life we're you want the best for each other. If that involves others what's wrong in that.
It's just another physical manifestation of our love for each other.
Mrs x"
Thank you very much that's exactly my point!![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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I want C to have the best sex of her life every time we meet others.
Another person is there to enhance an already amazing sex life so it’s already starting at a high level - so if that person was any good then it would be top shelf.
I would welcome anyone to give it as good as go as they could to make it better
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I want C to have the best sex of her life every time we meet others.
Another person is there to enhance an already amazing sex life so it’s already starting at a high level - so if that person was any good then it would be top shelf.
I would welcome anyone to give it as good as go as they could to make it better
K"
Yep my thoughts exactly x |
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"It's not possible - he knows my body better than anyone.
We don't meet men but as a woman meeting women no, I don't worry about stuff like that, it's mutual enjoyment, there will be things another woman will do that he'll like and say she did xxx can we try xxx etc which is great.
Mrs "
Exactly this!
My man is the best lover for me out there and no way can anyone even start to compete. He knows me inside and out and knows what sends me over the top.
We love adding new things to try on the list that we will learn from the other couple exploring with each of us etc
He has said the same for me.
In fact, after we have been with another couple the sex is just phenomenal because it’s like we are reclaiming each other even though we don’t really have to Haha
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