So, I'll probably get crucified for this, but hey ho. It's a Monday type of Monday. And I'm feeling like a menace.
If you have a list of "preferences" on your profile that begin with "MUST HAVE, MUST BE, MUST DO"...those are mandatory requirements. Not a preference. Preference indicates that you may deviate from a physical trait occasionally. MUST indicates its non-negationable.
It makes it sound like a job application! And a rather passive aggressive one. Drop the "preference" part and just be blunt. |
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If it irritates you just move on.
Everyone has their preferences, wants and non negotiables.
Most don’t even read profiles and if they do they ignore what’s written in them and message anyway and then wonder why they don’t get a reply  |
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It's a moot point if people aren't reading profiles which, going by the consensus of most people's experiences on here, those preferences are often ignored.
People run their profiles how they see fit. And quite rightly so. |
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"Is accurate language usage essential or preferred for you?
Essential..always"
Maybe put it on your profile so people are aware of the importance to you?
Then you can moan that no one reads your profile. |
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My preference is no men, that's not negotiated although they seem to think it is.
People can have whatever preferences they want, demand whatever they want, if you don't like it or fall outside those preferences that profile isn't for you.
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By *rispyDuckMan 33 weeks ago
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You like what you like & it’s alright 
Other people don’t have to like what you like & you don’t have to like what they like lol.
Find people that like what you like & see if they would like your hand in their cookie jar hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"I have 2 non negotiables of which I'm really clear on my profile. They are both practicalities not me being picky. They are still ignored."
Great Shout on 'City of Angels ' movie. Might have to watch this soon |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"So, I'll probably get crucified for this, but hey ho. It's a Monday type of Monday. And I'm feeling like a menace.
If you have a list of "preferences" on your profile that begin with "MUST HAVE, MUST BE, MUST DO"...those are mandatory requirements. Not a preference. Preference indicates that you may deviate from a physical trait occasionally. MUST indicates its non-negationable.
It makes it sound like a job application! And a rather passive aggressive one. Drop the "preference" part and just be blunt. "
Mr Unexceptional, if you happen to make exceptional observations like this one, I'd rather you drop the passive aggressive username and just be blunt. |
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By *nnCeeWoman 33 weeks ago
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"I have 2 non negotiables of which I'm really clear on my profile. They are both practicalities not me being picky. They are still ignored.
Great Shout on 'City of Angels ' movie. Might have to watch this soon"
City of Angels is one of my favourites. The soundtrack is absolutely mint |
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