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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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We'll soon be halfway through the year.
How has it been for you so far, whether that's in a work, Fab or personal way?
Are you in a good place as we approach the second half? |
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It feels like this question is 2 or 3 weeks early for me to answer.
I can't answer the first bit until those weeks have passed, and in turn that determines the second part.
If the thread (or offspring) still exists in a few weeks - I'll answer then Meli x |
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This year at work and personal life has been good. Settled into my new job which started end of last year. Home life is good with a lot of the stresses being taken care of finally.
Fab has been a bit on the back burner because of other things. But have attended socials this year, which even I'm surprised I attended. So everything is looking up I think. I've probably gone and jinked it all now  |
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By *errocaWoman 36 weeks ago
Shropshire |
First half wasn't that great... Second half looking lots better.
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Well I'm still here(alive)so that's a bonus  |
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"Well I'm still here(alive)so that's a bonus "
Same |
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So far so good for me thanks for asking Meli 
I've come back to Fab this year after a 5 year absence and I have managed to reconnect with some wonderful Fab friends who I regrettably cut off all ties with when I left 
How's it been for you OP? |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Completely different to how it was last year, but pretty much the same to.
I’m definitely hoping to end the year better than the recent ones.
Details - there is still going to be no holiday this year for me.
Everything that sucked last year is still sucking this year.
But there’s some good stuff too. Fab included. |
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By *TG3Man 36 weeks ago
Dorchester |
"So far so good for me thanks for asking Meli
I've come back to Fab this year after a 5 year absence and I have managed to reconnect with some wonderful Fab friends who I regrettably cut off all ties with when I left
How's it been for you OP?"
loving the new avatar nymph that'll pull in the ladies for sure  |
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The first ½ not so good:
Bedside vigils » Bereavement » Distractions » Probate ...
Hopefully the next ½ will be better. |
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By *a LunaWoman 36 weeks ago
South Wales |
Uneventful really. And I prefer it that way. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I've accepted that work will remain unfulfilling until I either get a new boss or find a new role. It did make me decide on a retirement plan though, so that is quite exciting!
Home life is ok - my step dad is much improved, so life returning to normal, albeit at a slower pace |
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Not the greatest not the worst either |
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Mine hasn't been too bad, mainly due to getting a new job. I've definitely taken some positives from my year so far, but also had a few minor pitfalls too. Nonetheless, it has mostly been positive, barring the usual life drama shenanigans |
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It’s been a good year for me - both on here and in real life. Met some lovely people on here and got a couple of regular wives at the moment which is a wonderful place to be.
I am keeping fit and healthy in myself, kids are doing well and the company is headed in the right direction so overall the stars are aligned at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Fairly mediocre. It seems to be flying by. Need to plan on a new hobby - son returns in June, so may convert my shed into a brewery. So second half may be fun. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"It feels like this question is 2 or 3 weeks early for me to answer.
I can't answer the first bit until those weeks have passed, and in turn that determines the second part.
If the thread (or offspring) still exists in a few weeks - I'll answer then Meli x "
Aww Nick, please do. I hope the next few weeks for you are what you want them to be. It's a tad premature admittedly but I was having happy soppy thoughts and thought back to this time last year. The difference of this past almost half. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I'd say on the whole it's been pretty good. Work is pretty uneventful and the same as last year but personally and in Fab it's been great! I've been keeping in touch and meeting up with friends and even organised going abroad for the first time in over 10 years!
On Fab, it's been amazing too. This time last year, I felt I had lost my mojo for the first half of the year which hasn't been the case at all this time around because of the people I've met and because of someone special who I'm constantly in touch with and is always an absolute treat to meet up with when it happens |
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It's better for first year in a while.
Some new challenges for sure but on the whole better. I just need to keep reminding myself that it is |
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"We'll soon be halfway through the year.
How has it been for you so far, whether that's in a work, Fab or personal way?
Are you in a good place as we approach the second half?"
6.5/10 so far, could do better.
Personally I'm in a good place health wise. Two operations and a "give yourself a head wobble" helped.
Works been tough, but hopefully as of tomorrow on an upward arc.
Met some great Fab people and made some great new friends.
Found out I could be a bit too old and not furry enough for a Fab hotty I had my eye on, flipside, she likes a dick pic.
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Numberwang"
I don't understand. I do like Wang though, he's a genuinely warm, sweet, silly and endearing man.  |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Crap but optimistic "
Sorry to read about the crap but it's really good you're optimistic. I hope things in the latter half are better for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Alive, still breathing and in reasonably good health so can't complain. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Meeeehhhhhh.
It's been beyond terrible and also pretty good at times.
I have plans for penis in the next few months though and I need to probably find another job. But I'm ace at that stuff so I've no worries there.
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"This year at work and personal life has been good. Settled into my new job which started end of last year. Home life is good with a lot of the stresses being taken care of finally.
Fab has been a bit on the back burner because of other things. But have attended socials this year, which even I'm surprised I attended. So everything is looking up I think. I've probably gone and jinked it all now "
Oh I'm really happy to read things are so positive for you Frida! Did you enjoy the socials you attended?
No you won't have jinxed it all. I have every faith things will keep going so well because you deserve them to, x |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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My mum passed away about a year ago.
This year I'm slowly 'moving on' (whatever that means) and doing what I need to do. I just need to get more organised.
I kept her old phone and transferred the direct debit to mine. There's lots of her old contacts on there that I speak to on whatsapp sometimes. Some are old school friends of hers, some are colleagues etc.
They all tell me that I look just like her.
When I look at old photos, it's true. They are correct. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"First half wasn't that great... Second half looking lots better.
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Berocca! It's good to read you, x
I really hope it is for you. And I'm lucky enough to see you soon.
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Well I'm still here(alive)so that's a bonus "
It is Jools. Well and truly happy you are. |
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Not great but ever the optimist I hope it'll be better the second half, how likely that is who knows. 
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Things have been.....challenging. I don't want to say terrible, because there have been many wonderful moments peppered in between the difficult stuff, but yeah, it's been tough.
However, things are on the up and I'm in a really good place. The next 6 months may be horrendous or marvellous, but I'm pretty much ready for anything. I just need to locate my missing mojo, then things will be nigh on perfect! |
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"My mum passed away about a year ago.
This year I'm slowly 'moving on' (whatever that means) and doing what I need to do. I just need to get more organised.
I kept her old phone and transferred the direct debit to mine. There's lots of her old contacts on there that I speak to on whatsapp sometimes. Some are old school friends of hers, some are colleagues etc.
They all tell me that I look just like her.
When I look at old photos, it's true. They are correct. "
Sorry to hear of your loss. Can't be easy and different people cope in different ways. I hope what you are doing helps you to. It will get easier but memories will stay. All the best to you. x |
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By *agatoXXXMan 36 weeks ago
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Same shite, different year.  |
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"Crap but optimistic
Sorry to read about the crap but it's really good you're optimistic. I hope things in the latter half are better for you. "
Thanks for that , hope yours is fantastic |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"So far so good for me thanks for asking Meli
I've come back to Fab this year after a 5 year absence and I have managed to reconnect with some wonderful Fab friends who I regrettably cut off all ties with when I left
How's it been for you OP?"
I'm so truly pleased that you're back IN, even if it did take me some time to understand the previous username... Really glad things are good for you.
Honestly? Brilliant. Far fewer hospital appointments, more confidence, more going for things. More happiness. Being open to it. Sure, there have been difficult times, I've cried an absurd amount over the past ten weeks. I've also laughed far more, said yes to far more, lived far more. So, it's been a joy. |
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"My mum passed away about a year ago.
This year I'm slowly 'moving on' (whatever that means) and doing what I need to do. I just need to get more organised.
I kept her old phone and transferred the direct debit to mine. There's lots of her old contacts on there that I speak to on whatsapp sometimes. Some are old school friends of hers, some are colleagues etc.
They all tell me that I look just like her.
When I look at old photos, it's true. They are correct. "
That's a hard things to come to terms with. Something that will likely take longer than expected and is undoubtedly hard to navigate.. wish you well. |
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It’s been rough, but mostly of my own doing. I’ve been a bit of a dick to myself.
High points have been few and far between, and I don’t see that improving much going into the 2nd half. Times are tough, but I’ll keep on smiling. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Completely different to how it was last year, but pretty much the same to.
I’m definitely hoping to end the year better than the recent ones.
Details - there is still going to be no holiday this year for me.
Everything that sucked last year is still sucking this year.
But there’s some good stuff too. Fab included. "
Oh Woody, sending a non-patronising hug. I really hope the year does end better for you.
And the sucking stuff sucks a bit less for you, in time x |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"The first ½ not so good:
Bedside vigils » Bereavement » Distractions » Probate ...
Hopefully the next ½ will be better."
I have everything crossed it is for you Nero, it must have been really difficult. |
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"My mum passed away about a year ago.
This year I'm slowly 'moving on' (whatever that means) and doing what I need to do. I just need to get more organised.
I kept her old phone and transferred the direct debit to mine. There's lots of her old contacts on there that I speak to on whatsapp sometimes. Some are old school friends of hers, some are colleagues etc.
They all tell me that I look just like her.
When I look at old photos, it's true. They are correct. "
Probably another reason I like you so much.
However, most important, I'm sorry you lost your Mum.
It's pants.
Mine went in 2019, and all her artwork (James Dean sketches from the 50s mostly) had been tucked away in artpads for decades, never given the light of day.
It was unbelievably painful (for me) when she was alive to see that talent too afraid to reveal itself.
Too afraid to even register the fear.
So I gave it life on my walls.
It lived, and lives.
But...tbh...it's also now getting on my tits a bit because I want the walls to have even more of "me, alive" on them.
Part of the mourning, grieving, and moving on process.
I suspect one wall will become "France" over the next few weeks, and then I'll have a more vibrant balance between giving the old (the now dead) continued life, but mostly my environment reflecting back my "vibrancy".
It's pretty vibrant anyway...just more to come.
Your Mum sounds more socially connected than mine - more "alive in life", so I'm not saying we have the same background.
But...it's crap losing them, it's amazing to have the phone/WhatsApp touchstones because we need them to grieve properly, and at some point the balance becomes integrated into (y)our ongoing life choices.
Letting go will become important, but you'll know when x. |
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Not the best for me so far, in terms of work/responsibilities/family life.
On the positive side, my health is better than ever and I have my priorities set right so I’m happy with that. |
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By *errocaWoman 36 weeks ago
Shropshire |
"First half wasn't that great... Second half looking lots better.
Berocca! It's good to read you, x
I really hope it is for you. And I'm lucky enough to see you soon.
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I hope that too Meli. X |
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"It’s been rough, but mostly of my own doing. I’ve been a bit of a dick to myself.
High points have been few and far between, and I don’t see that improving much going into the 2nd half. Times are tough, but I’ll keep on smiling. "
Keep smiling as it does help and hope it does get better. |
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By *ynecplCouple 36 weeks ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"We'll soon be halfway through the year.
How has it been for you so far, whether that's in a work, Fab or personal way?
Are you in a good place as we approach the second half?"
In work and personal life it has been great and we are both on top of the world and feeling full of confidence.
Fab not so great only a couple of social meets which were pretty rubbish to be honest. We were already planning to leave fab at the end of the year come what may confirmed that it was the right decision. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Uneventful really. And I prefer it that way."
It can be nice for things to be slow and steady, fingers crossed that continues for you La Luna. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"My mum passed away about a year ago.
This year I'm slowly 'moving on' (whatever that means) and doing what I need to do. I just need to get more organised.
I kept her old phone and transferred the direct debit to mine. There's lots of her old contacts on there that I speak to on whatsapp sometimes. Some are old school friends of hers, some are colleagues etc.
They all tell me that I look just like her.
When I look at old photos, it's true. They are correct.
Probably another reason I like you so much.
However, most important, I'm sorry you lost your Mum.
It's pants.
Mine went in 2019, and all her artwork (James Dean sketches from the 50s mostly) had been tucked away in artpads for decades, never given the light of day.
It was unbelievably painful (for me) when she was alive to see that talent too afraid to reveal itself.
Too afraid to even register the fear.
So I gave it life on my walls.
It lived, and lives.
But...tbh...it's also now getting on my tits a bit because I want the walls to have even more of "me, alive" on them.
Part of the mourning, grieving, and moving on process.
I suspect one wall will become "France" over the next few weeks, and then I'll have a more vibrant balance between giving the old (the now dead) continued life, but mostly my environment reflecting back my "vibrancy".
It's pretty vibrant anyway...just more to come.
Your Mum sounds more socially connected than mine - more "alive in life", so I'm not saying we have the same background.
But...it's crap losing them, it's amazing to have the phone/WhatsApp touchstones because we need them to grieve properly, and at some point the balance becomes integrated into (y)our ongoing life choices.
Letting go will become important, but you'll know when x."
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"I've accepted that work will remain unfulfilling until I either get a new boss or find a new role. It did make me decide on a retirement plan though, so that is quite exciting!
Home life is ok - my step dad is much improved, so life returning to normal, albeit at a slower pace "
Yay to the retirement plan being in place, that's a definite silver lining. Good to read things are returning to normal for you, slowly but surely. |
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It’s been a tough year for me personally OP and I did a lot of off grid spoon whittling to make it through the tough times. But I feel I’ve come through it now and my happy smiley feeling is back. Life really is a journey at times but just keep on swimming |
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"It’s been a tough year for me personally OP and I did a lot of off grid spoon whittling to make it through the tough times. But I feel I’ve come through it now and my happy smiley feeling is back. Life really is a journey at times but just keep on swimming "
Well done you and onwards and upwards |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Not the greatest not the worst either"
And are you okay with that? Do you think it will lean more heavily towards the good in the next half? I hope it does for you. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Work life
Crap
Home life
Crap
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Ach that sounds really difficult. Sending you a virtual hug. |
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"It’s been rough, but mostly of my own doing. I’ve been a bit of a dick to myself.
High points have been few and far between, and I don’t see that improving much going into the 2nd half. Times are tough, but I’ll keep on smiling. "
Just keep a good supply of Minstrels to hand (or if times are tough financially, Lidl does a pretty good imitation).
They may not help "gym fit dreamworld", but they're bloody useful during "shitshow reality" xxx |
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"Not the greatest not the worst either
And are you okay with that? Do you think it will lean more heavily towards the good in the next half? I hope it does for you. "
Well it's not as bad as last year when I lost my dad... but ongoing issues with my left boob wound me up in a and e a few weeks ago and 5 lots of antibiotics later but I LOVE the NHS xx... my head is a bit all over the show currently... still the show must go on x more shenanigans planned |
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Been alright, can’t complain.
The mr |
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A journey of self discovery. Some of it wonderful. Some scary. I have a long way to go - I already know I’m tough enough for the challenge. The tough part is being vulnerable enough to accept some guidance along the way. |
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"Been alright, can’t complain.
The mr "
Bollocks. You can and you do . |
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It's been an up and down kinda year so far, I think I'm finally on the up.... hopefully.
We got married which was amazing the rest though has been a little hard, I've not liked myself much & I'm working on that, my head hasn't been in the greatest of places but onwards and upwards, hopefully the next half of the year will be amazing.
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Life all feels a bit in limbo for me at the minute. Definitely not terrible! Lots to be thankful for... But I'm waiting on stuff that's out of my control happening, and until those things do then it's difficult I guess. |
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"Been alright, can’t complain.
The mr
Bollocks. You can and you do ."
I never complain, I just direct people to realise their stupidity.
The mr |
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This year on personal life front has been fantastic got something happening in 10 days I totally didn't think was going to happen so yeah I'm a bit excited at this moment in time hopefully in 10 days time I'll be still saying the same even though it most likely does end my journey on fab |
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"A journey of self discovery. Some of it wonderful. Some scary. I have a long way to go - I already know I’m tough enough for the challenge. The tough part is being vulnerable enough to accept some guidance along the way."
Very well put about being vulnerable to accept help, has taught me not me to not be so stubbornly independent |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Mine hasn't been too bad, mainly due to getting a new job. I've definitely taken some positives from my year so far, but also had a few minor pitfalls too. Nonetheless, it has mostly been positive, barring the usual life drama shenanigans "
Life drama. Yes, it's unavoidable when it happens. How's the new job going? |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"It’s been a good year for me - both on here and in real life. Met some lovely people on here and got a couple of regular wives at the moment which is a wonderful place to be.
I am keeping fit and healthy in myself, kids are doing well and the company is headed in the right direction so overall the stars are aligned at the moment. "
That's brilliant to read WHVWE! Regular is better isn't it? It's not to say that new isn't exciting but when it becomes regular and you can read the other it's so satisfying and intense. Hope the second half continues in a similar fashion for you! |
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"It’s been a good year for me - both on here and in real life. Met some lovely people on here and got a couple of regular wives at the moment which is a wonderful place to be.
I am keeping fit and healthy in myself, kids are doing well and the company is headed in the right direction so overall the stars are aligned at the moment.
That's brilliant to read WHVWE! Regular is better isn't it? It's not to say that new isn't exciting but when it becomes regular and you can read the other it's so satisfying and intense. Hope the second half continues in a similar fashion for you! "
So do I! |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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A mixed bag really.
I've been to India for the first time and that was an experience.
Work has ranged from okish to ffs
I need a defibrillator for my sex life
Swings and roundabouts.
The second half of the year looks much the same just without a trip to India  |
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Work - I started an additional role in January. The hours are ridiculous. It's physically and emotionally demanding. The responsibility is huge for the pittance I'm paid. I love it though! I feel like I've created something very special.
Personal - it's been tough and the last couple of months have been one thing after another. I've cried a lot. But there's light at the end of the tunnel and things seem to be returning to normal.
Fab - our personal life has got in the way of this. Hopefully the postponed plans can be rescheduled in the latter part of the year.
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"Work - I started an additional role in January. The hours are ridiculous. It's physically and emotionally demanding. The responsibility is huge for the pittance I'm paid. I love it though! I feel like I've created something very special.
Personal - it's been tough and the last couple of months have been one thing after another. I've cried a lot. But there's light at the end of the tunnel and things seem to be returning to normal.
Fab - our personal life has got in the way of this. Hopefully the postponed plans can be rescheduled in the latter part of the year.
J"
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A weird one as redundancy is on the cards so contemplating early retirement. |
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Hmm... nothing like a bit of reflection to help make changes. Work for me is good and looking up.
Family has taken a bit of a whack recently so where I thought it was finally looking OK, there's a huge ugly spanner in the works that needs addressing.
Fab is constantly disappointing if I'm honest. I'm pretty sure it must be me, so maybe I need to work on that. *shrugs*
I'm hopeful for the second half of the year, but not holding my breath. |
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If I look in detail at the year so far it’s been full of pain and heartbreak and disappointment and sadness at practically every turn, however as a whole, because most of those things have been overcome I’m actually pretty chipper and feel as tho I’m upbeat and really enjoying life at the moment. The medication helps.
What makes you ask OP? |
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By *ambertMan 36 weeks ago
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Halfway through the year? Next year is 2025, half way through the decade.
Soon be 2030. |
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Work is good, I'd like a larger proportion of it online and I am working toward that. I've allowed myself to get involved with two charities, something I'd vowed never to do again. One of which is a project that will almost certainly be a strain on my heart. Made a few friends in the process.
Personal life is good, sometimes joy; sometimes tears. I may be a touch in love, just a bit obviously. My health is quite good. I'm eating a more balanced diet and added a few dishes to my repertoire.
Fab, it's ok isn't it? Make a few connections here and there. Post a comment, get some nice feedback in your inbox, occasionally piss someone off without even trying. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Fairly mediocre. It seems to be flying by. Need to plan on a new hobby - son returns in June, so may convert my shed into a brewery. So second half may be fun."
Oh a brewery sounds like a really good idea! Will you have a micro garden pub attached to it? |
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"We'll soon be halfway through the year.
How has it been for you so far, whether that's in a work, Fab or personal way?
Are you in a good place as we approach the second half?"
It's been hard. It continues to be hard. I'll be glad to get to the end of it. |
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"If I look in detail at the year so far it’s been full of pain and heartbreak and disappointment and sadness at practically every turn, however as a whole, because most of those things have been overcome I’m actually pretty chipper and feel as tho I’m upbeat and really enjoying life at the moment. The medication helps.
What makes you ask OP?"
Also, what a fantastic username. Must be a highlight of 2024 all on its own   xx |
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It’s been a massive learning curve where I’ve questioned my desires. Not just on here but in life.
I’ve come to the conclusion I’m doing ok.
Happy rest of 2024! X |
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By *avexxMan 36 weeks ago
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not to bad reduced my working hours a little so feel better for that |
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The first half has been awful was in such a dark place but I’m feeling good and finally happy again |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"I'd say on the whole it's been pretty good. Work is pretty uneventful and the same as last year but personally and in Fab it's been great! I've been keeping in touch and meeting up with friends and even organised going abroad for the first time in over 10 years!
On Fab, it's been amazing too. This time last year, I felt I had lost my mojo for the first half of the year which hasn't been the case at all this time around because of the people I've met and because of someone special who I'm constantly in touch with and is always an absolute treat to meet up with when it happens "
Oh Joe you're an utter sweetheart.
How's the Italian going? It's really lovely that you've found your mojo again and are truly embracing your happy. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"It's better for first year in a while.
Some new challenges for sure but on the whole better. I just need to keep reminding myself that it is "
You should. At the same time, don't feel bad if sometimes those challenges make you pause. Not have such a great day. You'll get through them, I know you will. |
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Work life not bad, business is OK and reduced my hours, wife's starting dream job next week.
Fab wise we are very new to this and so far had to very good encounter with ideal partners, couldn't make up a better start. I've watched my wife grow so much as a person, freely express our desires and can honestly we have never been closer |
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"I'd say on the whole it's been pretty good. Work is pretty uneventful and the same as last year but personally and in Fab it's been great! I've been keeping in touch and meeting up with friends and even organised going abroad for the first time in over 10 years!
On Fab, it's been amazing too. This time last year, I felt I had lost my mojo for the first half of the year which hasn't been the case at all this time around because of the people I've met and because of someone special who I'm constantly in touch with and is always an absolute treat to meet up with when it happens
Oh Joe you're an utter sweetheart.
How's the Italian going? It's really lovely that you've found your mojo again and are truly embracing your happy."
Thank you Meli, it's very basic at the minute but I can introduce myself and order in a café which is really all I need |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"We'll soon be halfway through the year.
How has it been for you so far, whether that's in a work, Fab or personal way?
Are you in a good place as we approach the second half?
6.5/10 so far, could do better.
Personally I'm in a good place health wise. Two operations and a "give yourself a head wobble" helped.
Works been tough, but hopefully as of tomorrow on an upward arc.
Met some great Fab people and made some great new friends.
Found out I could be a bit too old and not furry enough for a Fab hotty I had my eye on, flipside, she likes a dick pic.
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I'm really happy for you Kill! I hope tomorrow is the start of happiness in terms of work, x
Friendship from Fab is wonderful isn't it? You come together with people you'd never normally meet and it works. Beautifully.
P.S Not furry enough?! You're furry! |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Alive, still breathing and in reasonably good health so can't complain."
That's the spirit. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Meeeehhhhhh.
It's been beyond terrible and also pretty good at times.
I have plans for penis in the next few months though and I need to probably find another job. But I'm ace at that stuff so I've no worries there.
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I hope the terrible lessens for you Coyote. And yay for you finding penis. Sad times for the disappearance of the I hate sex and men shtick but yay for you getting the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Fairly mediocre. It seems to be flying by. Need to plan on a new hobby - son returns in June, so may convert my shed into a brewery. So second half may be fun.
Oh a brewery sounds like a really good idea! Will you have a micro garden pub attached to it? "
I have an office currently sitting opposite it - that includes a beer fridge. Wondering if I can make a still too - now searching Google to see. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"My mum passed away about a year ago.
This year I'm slowly 'moving on' (whatever that means) and doing what I need to do. I just need to get more organised.
I kept her old phone and transferred the direct debit to mine. There's lots of her old contacts on there that I speak to on whatsapp sometimes. Some are old school friends of hers, some are colleagues etc.
They all tell me that I look just like her.
When I look at old photos, it's true. They are correct. "
Sending you hugs Falcon. Losing someone, especially a parent is incredibly difficult. Take your time, not moving on, but grieving. I hope that you're kind to yourself in the coming days, x |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Not great but ever the optimist I hope it'll be better the second half, how likely that is who knows.
Tinder "
Oh Tinder. I have everything crossed it will be for you. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Things have been.....challenging. I don't want to say terrible, because there have been many wonderful moments peppered in between the difficult stuff, but yeah, it's been tough.
However, things are on the up and I'm in a really good place. The next 6 months may be horrendous or marvellous, but I'm pretty much ready for anything. I just need to locate my missing mojo, then things will be nigh on perfect!"
Is that so you can be a naughty girl and have lots of naughty fun on your naughty playdates?
Understandable. Sorry it's been such a tough year, you're an absolute star Nell. I think things are on the up for you. |
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Yes been brilliant, minus our house going up for sale
Can't wait for the other things we have planned for this year.
Miss S x |
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By *hagTonightMan 36 weeks ago
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On fab, its been a dry year so far, but otherwise everything is going good and I am making good progress with my training too |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"It’s been rough, but mostly of my own doing. I’ve been a bit of a dick to myself.
High points have been few and far between, and I don’t see that improving much going into the 2nd half. Times are tough, but I’ll keep on smiling. "
Stop being a dick to yourself Wick. There are plenty out there who'll do that to you. I know you'll keep smiling but I have every faith that things will improve for you, even if slowly x |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Not the best for me so far, in terms of work/responsibilities/family life.
On the positive side, my health is better than ever and I have my priorities set right so I’m happy with that. "
That's brilliant DC. Health is so important, as is knowing yourself and your priorities. I hope work and family life are better for you in time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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This year has been so wet and cold i dont really think its started yet |
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"I've accepted that work will remain unfulfilling until I either get a new boss or find a new role. It did make me decide on a retirement plan though, so that is quite exciting!
Home life is ok - my step dad is much improved, so life returning to normal, albeit at a slower pace "
Midnight, when life is unfulfilling, make sure your sex life is fulfilling |
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I'm pleased with how work's gone so far and personal life is good generally. I'm just not happy with my body and my laziness. I'd do some exercise but then stop as I find it so hard to fit into my busy schedule (I'm very well aware it's not an excuse) and then I feel terrible in my own skin and it's a vicious circle! It just seems like such a long road that it's unmotivating. |
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For moi, Crap year work wise, job market in my area is in the shitter.
However personal life has improved, I'm going to the gym regularly and dance Salsa and I have my health. Can't complain. |
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"Things have been.....challenging. I don't want to say terrible, because there have been many wonderful moments peppered in between the difficult stuff, but yeah, it's been tough.
However, things are on the up and I'm in a really good place. The next 6 months may be horrendous or marvellous, but I'm pretty much ready for anything. I just need to locate my missing mojo, then things will be nigh on perfect!
Is that so you can be a naughty girl and have lots of naughty fun on your naughty playdates?
Understandable. Sorry it's been such a tough year, you're an absolute star Nell. I think things are on the up for you. "
You are impish bordering on knobish, dear Meli. |
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Less crap than it could have been, more crap than I want it to be. |
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Our fab life has exploded this year.
We were dabbling around the edges before with pics and cam sessions.
Had one soft play with a single gent. Went well but not what we were looking for.
Decided we needed to get on with it and try stuff
Went to our first club to watch and learn and had a great night not just watching..... (story of the night in the forum on our profile)
3 days later i went back to the club on my own to research the daytime as they allow single guys (which fit some of J's fantasies)
I ended up having very unexpected soft play with two lovely ladies...so going very well .
we are now chatting to a few couples with a view to meet.
We intend to go back to the club on a daytime to play out some fantasies.
And we have a standing invitation to meet a nice unicorn we have met but not played with yet to meet at the club for a long sensuous play
So this year is looking good as well xxx |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Things have been.....challenging. I don't want to say terrible, because there have been many wonderful moments peppered in between the difficult stuff, but yeah, it's been tough.
However, things are on the up and I'm in a really good place. The next 6 months may be horrendous or marvellous, but I'm pretty much ready for anything. I just need to locate my missing mojo, then things will be nigh on perfect!
Is that so you can be a naughty girl and have lots of naughty fun on your naughty playdates?
Understandable. Sorry it's been such a tough year, you're an absolute star Nell. I think things are on the up for you.
You are impish bordering on knobish, dear Meli."
I think I'm attracted to you now. This is weird. Erm. Hi. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"We'll soon be halfway through the year.
How has it been for you so far, whether that's in a work, Fab or personal way?
Are you in a good place as we approach the second half?
In work and personal life it has been great and we are both on top of the world and feeling full of confidence.
Fab not so great only a couple of social meets which were pretty rubbish to be honest. We were already planning to leave fab at the end of the year come what may confirmed that it was the right decision."
Full of confidence is wonderful.
When it comes to Fab... if it's not working for you, not bringing you happiness, taking a break is a very good idea. You can always return with renewed energy for it. I'm sorry the socials have been rubbish though, it must make you meh about it. |
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"Not the best for me so far, in terms of work/responsibilities/family life.
On the positive side, my health is better than ever and I have my priorities set right so I’m happy with that.
That's brilliant DC. Health is so important, as is knowing yourself and your priorities. I hope work and family life are better for you in time. "
Thank you Meli |
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By *929Man 36 weeks ago
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Mostly shit, mostly due to the wet weather affecting work I’m a mile behind schedule and not made anywhere near the amount of money I should
Also just got over a cough/bad chest/sickness bug that wiped me out for a month struggled with work for 3 weeks before giving in and taking a week off work, better now but it stripped me of 12kg of bodyweight got about 2kg back only another 10kg to go ffs haha |
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Nope I've no job everything has gone wrong this year |
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Well it's been non eventful just how I wanted it.
It's a year since my accident and so much has happened since then. But this year its non eventful
It's also a year since I packed up the fags so very pleased with that |
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To be truthful this year has been wank!
Currently sat with my head falling off, watching my mum lay in bed dying from lung cancer.
After watching my dad do the same 5 years ago.
I've decided if I didn't have bad luck, I would have no luck at all.
Cancer sucks arse |
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My fab life is crap can’t get anything |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Brilliant. Got a promotion, name is being bandied around for another. Entered into a new relationship with a lady I met from here which was unexpected yet beautiful so yeah, I've no complaints, life blesses as always. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 36 weeks ago
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"We'll soon be halfway through the year.
How has it been for you so far, whether that's in a work, Fab or personal way?
Are you in a good place as we approach the second half?"
Honestly? Great.
Work is good. Personal life has settled nicely. Partner is amazing. New friends are awesome. Been getting more 'me time' than I could have wished for and soon off on a holiday for the first time in years.
And there's been plenty of cake too. |
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By *omRPMan 36 weeks ago
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This years been crazy…
Started the year with the threat of redundancy. Ended up getting made redundant.
Found my dream job with a great group of people. All by March.
April was just a whirlwind. Blinked and I missed it.
May isn’t looking any different. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"My parent is waiting to die "
May it be peaceful, without pain and not drawn out. |
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By *zeroMan 36 weeks ago
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It's been OK. My dad is fully in the throws of illness at the moment and it's not great to see him change but myself and the family are adapting.
I was very depressed last year and I've started the year not feeling that so much. Also in better shape than I was this time last year so that a positive |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Been awesome to be honest with you
Year started off amazingly
Then I hit a little slump and went and domesticated myself again
Then someone light a match and started that fire
And put me back in to complete animal mode again
To be truthful this is the most scaryist version I have ever seen off my self
Never been faster stronger bigger so determined
I pushed new highest and behond
Somone asked me look how life turned out
Here’s my answer it turned out awesome I am really a monster
Thanks for lighting a die fire |
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Not a great year, been off my regular job for a year now !
It’s hot hard financially, but just gotta keep going |
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"My parent is waiting to die
May it be peaceful, without pain and not drawn out."
That's the hope |
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"My parent is waiting to die
May it be peaceful, without pain and not drawn out.
That's the hope "
I hope this for you darling
It is what I suffered and was awful |
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"We'll soon be halfway through the year.
How has it been for you so far, whether that's in a work, Fab or personal way?
Are you in a good place as we approach the second half?"
Fabulous |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"It’s been a tough year for me personally OP and I did a lot of off grid spoon whittling to make it through the tough times. But I feel I’ve come through it now and my happy smiley feeling is back. Life really is a journey at times but just keep on swimming "
Oh LB. Really happy you've made it through those tough times and I hope your swim is an easier one now, x |
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"We'll soon be halfway through the year.
How has it been for you so far, whether that's in a work, Fab or personal way?
Are you in a good place as we approach the second half?"
I am in the usual position of trying to keep my head above water whilst simultaneously kicking the squid of despair away. |
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"It’s been a tough year for me personally OP and I did a lot of off grid spoon whittling to make it through the tough times. But I feel I’ve come through it now and my happy smiley feeling is back. Life really is a journey at times but just keep on swimming
Oh LB. Really happy you've made it through those tough times and I hope your swim is an easier one now, x"
It is darling thankyou. Having good people around helps. So thankyou for that too |
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I bought a calendar but nothings happened so far, wondering if I can get a partial refund. |
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"I bought a calendar but nothings happened so far, wondering if I can get a partial refund. "
Some great new profile pics today. Pickle has done one - and you've nailed it too Glow xx |
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gosh May already ! seem to have done loads of shit things, need more fun things |
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Errrm, unbelievably stressful! Friday, if all goes to plan, should be a huge deal in a good wqy |
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"I bought a calendar but nothings happened so far, wondering if I can get a partial refund.
Some great new profile pics today. Pickle has done one - and you've nailed it too Glow xx"
Aww thank you. That’s so kind.
Scrubbed up a bit last night as was out out (even though I’m already out). |
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"I bought a calendar but nothings happened so far, wondering if I can get a partial refund.
Some great new profile pics today. Pickle has done one - and you've nailed it too Glow xx"
And Pickle’s a pretty boy. He always looks good. |
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"I bought a calendar but nothings happened so far, wondering if I can get a partial refund.
Some great new profile pics today. Pickle has done one - and you've nailed it too Glow xx
And Pickle’s a pretty boy. He always looks good. "
You're very welcome and agreed xx |
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"We'll soon be halfway through the year.
How has it been for you so far, whether that's in a work, Fab or personal way?
Are you in a good place as we approach the second half?
6.5/10 so far, could do better.
Personally I'm in a good place health wise. Two operations and a "give yourself a head wobble" helped.
Works been tough, but hopefully as of tomorrow on an upward arc.
Met some great Fab people and made some great new friends.
Found out I could be a bit too old and not furry enough for a Fab hotty I had my eye on, flipside, she likes a dick pic.
I'm really happy for you Kill! I hope tomorrow is the start of happiness in terms of work, x
Friendship from Fab is wonderful isn't it? You come together with people you'd never normally meet and it works. Beautifully.
P.S Not furry enough?! You're furry!"
Plus my freaky arm hair.
That's my USP. |
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Same as last year really - first world problems so can’t really complain.
Fabs …. Same |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Every day, for the past few months, just waking up is a miracle.
I’ve had a shit past few months but I try to remind myself daily it will one day not be as difficult.
Some days I’m a wreck but find my way through the day more easy than others. Other days I lay in bed and wonder why me?
Grief is a difficult roller coaster and an unpredictable ride. One day at a time sometimes becomes one hour at a time. |
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"Every day, for the past few months, just waking up is a miracle.
I’ve had a shit past few months but I try to remind myself daily it will one day not be as difficult.
Some days I’m a wreck but find my way through the day more easy than others. Other days I lay in bed and wonder why me?
Grief is a difficult roller coaster and an unpredictable ride. One day at a time sometimes becomes one hour at a time. "
On a positive note though, at least your cunt's not torn . |
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By *ags73Man 36 weeks ago
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Start of May, I guess?
2024 so far, not too bad and plans for later this month and start of next month.
Won’t grumble, although daftness is the tattoo appointments meant missing things I’d have loved to have went to. |
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By *ags73Man 36 weeks ago
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"Every day, for the past few months, just waking up is a miracle.
I’ve had a shit past few months but I try to remind myself daily it will one day not be as difficult.
Some days I’m a wreck but find my way through the day more easy than others. Other days I lay in bed and wonder why me?
Grief is a difficult roller coaster and an unpredictable ride. One day at a time sometimes becomes one hour at a time. "
I don’t know the answers. I got very lost about three years ago and nothing made sense other than what was right in front of me and what I had to do. The shock bit lasted too long and it was like going over a cliff when everything struck.
No-one really got it, no one me was there when I needed someone.
You’re welcome to message if you want to vent. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Every day, for the past few months, just waking up is a miracle.
I’ve had a shit past few months but I try to remind myself daily it will one day not be as difficult.
Some days I’m a wreck but find my way through the day more easy than others. Other days I lay in bed and wonder why me?
Grief is a difficult roller coaster and an unpredictable ride. One day at a time sometimes becomes one hour at a time.
On a positive note though, at least your cunt's not torn ."
I pulled that shirt out of the drawer the other day and laughed for a few minutes. Plunged in back deep into the drawer before I accidentally grabbed it unexpectedly another time and walked outside wearing it in my mind fog of late. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Every day, for the past few months, just waking up is a miracle.
I’ve had a shit past few months but I try to remind myself daily it will one day not be as difficult.
Some days I’m a wreck but find my way through the day more easy than others. Other days I lay in bed and wonder why me?
Grief is a difficult roller coaster and an unpredictable ride. One day at a time sometimes becomes one hour at a time.
I don’t know the answers. I got very lost about three years ago and nothing made sense other than what was right in front of me and what I had to do. The shock bit lasted too long and it was like going over a cliff when everything struck.
No-one really got it, no one me was there when I needed someone.
You’re welcome to message if you want to vent."
I’m sorry you experienced that.
Feeling alone and lost is challenging. The feeling of nothing making sense and the shock of it all makes it feel all the more difficult to move forward every day. I try to remind myself I can do challenging things and I will find happier days one day. |
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"Every day, for the past few months, just waking up is a miracle.
I’ve had a shit past few months but I try to remind myself daily it will one day not be as difficult.
Some days I’m a wreck but find my way through the day more easy than others. Other days I lay in bed and wonder why me?
Grief is a difficult roller coaster and an unpredictable ride. One day at a time sometimes becomes one hour at a time. "
It’s been 10 years and I can honestly say it doesn’t go away, your brain just learns to manage it so it’s less prevalent.
Always here if you need to talk |
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By *ags73Man 36 weeks ago
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"Every day, for the past few months, just waking up is a miracle.
I’ve had a shit past few months but I try to remind myself daily it will one day not be as difficult.
Some days I’m a wreck but find my way through the day more easy than others. Other days I lay in bed and wonder why me?
Grief is a difficult roller coaster and an unpredictable ride. One day at a time sometimes becomes one hour at a time.
I don’t know the answers. I got very lost about three years ago and nothing made sense other than what was right in front of me and what I had to do. The shock bit lasted too long and it was like going over a cliff when everything struck.
No-one really got it, no one me was there when I needed someone.
You’re welcome to message if you want to vent.
I’m sorry you experienced that.
Feeling alone and lost is challenging. The feeling of nothing making sense and the shock of it all makes it feel all the more difficult to move forward every day. I try to remind myself I can do challenging things and I will find happier days one day. "
It’s doing the possible first and getting through the days where I didn’t want to do anything was a challenge at the time.
Less so now, I have occasional bad days, but it’s inevitable that random things can trigger a memory or thought.
Thoughts with you and it is sometimes a day at a time and reaching another sunrise. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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It has been one of the worse starts to the year that I've had in alot of years. It's improving though and can only get better. On a brighter note this weekends definetley been my best weekend of this year so far. |
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By *ags73Man 36 weeks ago
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" It has been one of the worse starts to the year that I've had in alot of years. It's improving though and can only get better. On a brighter note this weekends definetley been my best weekend of this year so far. "
Good to hear and hope it keeps going. |
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"If I look in detail at the year so far it’s been full of pain and heartbreak and disappointment and sadness at practically every turn, however as a whole, because most of those things have been overcome I’m actually pretty chipper and feel as tho I’m upbeat and really enjoying life at the moment. The medication helps.
What makes you ask OP?
Also, what a fantastic username. Must be a highlight of 2024 all on its own xx"
Erm. I’ll get back to you on that |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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On the downside, every passing day is a day nearer my death.
On the upside, it’s also a day nearer Christmas 
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Well (without wishing to tempt fate) we've got to May without someone close to me popping their clogs
This is a distinct upturn on the last two years! |
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Busy with tech work...glad I can take coffee breaks outside! |
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Forayed into the fabulous world of swinging and visiting clubs with my partner and wow, it's been amazing |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Well so far I have cut down on my fab meets this year concentrating on quality over quantity.
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Pretty awesome on all fronts thanks Meli! How has your year been? |
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The toughest year of my life, lost both my parents (one just before this year). Got a promotion into a challenging job, kept up my weight loss. But honestly I just feel a bit lonely, probably for the first time ever. Looking for a connection with someone I think is my next aspiration, having been married my counsel is close. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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" It has been one of the worse starts to the year that I've had in alot of years. It's improving though and can only get better. On a brighter note this weekends definetley been my best weekend of this year so far. "
I hope you have many more weekends like the recent to come Hope, x |
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Jan to march: split up with doughnut, found out what little friends I had around me when I needed support (even just to slap me and say I'm an idiot), grew a bit closer to my mum.
March to May: got back together with doughnut, started trauma focused CBT to deal with my past, settled on trying new things and get a circle of friends (it's not worked lol). Went on the best holiday I have ever been on in my life!!
Workwise, I couldn't be happier x |
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"Jan to march: split up with doughnut, found out what little friends I had around me when I needed support (even just to slap me and say I'm an idiot), grew a bit closer to my mum.
March to May: got back together with doughnut, started trauma focused CBT to deal with my past, settled on trying new things and get a circle of friends (it's not worked lol). Went on the best holiday I have ever been on in my life!!
Workwise, I couldn't be happier x"
Oh and I lost 3 stone but being on an all inclusive resort means I have to work even harder than before lol x |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Every day, for the past few months, just waking up is a miracle.
I’ve had a shit past few months but I try to remind myself daily it will one day not be as difficult.
Some days I’m a wreck but find my way through the day more easy than others. Other days I lay in bed and wonder why me?
Grief is a difficult roller coaster and an unpredictable ride. One day at a time sometimes becomes one hour at a time. "
Oh Bella. I shan't patronise you. I hope one day it's not as difficult, it will happen.
Grief can catch you when you least expect it - it being one hour at a time is more than fine. I don't think you realise how hard it is until you experience it. Earlier today I cried whilst looking for a new pen because I found one a dear friend gave me to celebrate something. It becomes more manageable over time, not easier though. |
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By *eli OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"The toughest year of my life, lost both my parents (one just before this year). Got a promotion into a challenging job, kept up my weight loss. But honestly I just feel a bit lonely, probably for the first time ever. Looking for a connection with someone I think is my next aspiration, having been married my counsel is close."
Sorry to read that Lena but well done on the promotion and keeping up the weight loss! It's not an easy thing to do at all.
Loneliness can be truly wank, I hope in the second half of the year you find that connection with someone, x |
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This year has been not good and the weather hasn't helped...roll on my holiday in July |
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Well Meli,
A lot later than I was planning, but seems silly to wait any more.
From a passion/sensual contact/shag perspective, the year has been what I hoped for, and next year looks the same.
The larger part of life has been more complex. A combination of friend/death/duty was intense from August '23 to March '24. Finances were seriously mangled until February too. Then a knee injury that was irksome for 6 weeks, but a great driving holiday through France and a bit of Spain was close to epic. It really was that good, with a terrifying moment too as my tyre exploded and went past me on the autoroute. But that is part of its epic weave.
Plenty of tennis and gym, but recently a friend's extreme mental health issues have been emotionally intense and time-consuming, and that will continue for a while.
My flat is exactly how I want it, and makes me smile hugely, and I'm doing things in line with my overall social/philosophical intentions.
So a mixed bag - a few exhausting points too many, slightly fewer superb highs, and a gentle line upwards to my overall ambitions surrounding them both.
How's your quim?
Nick xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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This year my theme tune should be "Tubthumping" but Chumbawamba as I've been knocked down so many times. Losing the will to get back up again though 😜 |
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Meh averaging. Slow lots of family stuff going on (I am a carer for very ill parent ) |
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By *luefire2Couple 22 weeks ago
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Well the 1st half has been a bit poo! A death, breast cancer scare (all clear though), emergency eye surgery and a long recovery!
Things are on the up now, back playing, and a possible new home to look forward to!!
Mrs R |
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By *eli OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Jan to march: split up with doughnut, found out what little friends I had around me when I needed support (even just to slap me and say I'm an idiot), grew a bit closer to my mum.
March to May: got back together with doughnut, started trauma focused CBT to deal with my past, settled on trying new things and get a circle of friends (it's not worked lol). Went on the best holiday I have ever been on in my life!!
Workwise, I couldn't be happier x
Oh and I lost 3 stone but being on an all inclusive resort means I have to work even harder than before lol x"
Sometimes people find it hard to say "you're being an idiot". I hope a few weeks down the line you've found some real friends, the weight loss is continuing and the CBT has helped. x |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Devastating split with my DD after 5.5 years, accidentally discovered his secret profile... his veris were coming to look at my profile. Clearly non of them are particularly bright.
On the plus side I've discovered what it's like to have healthy, open sex with younger people |
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By *eli OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Well Meli,
A lot later than I was planning, but seems silly to wait any more.
From a passion/sensual contact/shag perspective, the year has been what I hoped for, and next year looks the same.
The larger part of life has been more complex. A combination of friend/death/duty was intense from August '23 to March '24. Finances were seriously mangled until February too. Then a knee injury that was irksome for 6 weeks, but a great driving holiday through France and a bit of Spain was close to epic. It really was that good, with a terrifying moment too as my tyre exploded and went past me on the autoroute. But that is part of its epic weave.
Plenty of tennis and gym, but recently a friend's extreme mental health issues have been emotionally intense and time-consuming, and that will continue for a while.
My flat is exactly how I want it, and makes me smile hugely, and I'm doing things in line with my overall social/philosophical intentions.
So a mixed bag - a few exhausting points too many, slightly fewer superb highs, and a gentle line upwards to my overall ambitions surrounding them both.
How's your quim?
Nick xx"
Hello Nick!
There's not a set time to reply, I'd almost forgotten about this thread. :D Sorry to read about the complex nature of life in the early part of the year - I lost a close friend and it hit me really hard. Awfully so.
I hope that in time your friend's mental health improves and you're both in a better place with it.
The flat sounds perfect though! Like you've made a home that you're proud to call home.
The exhausting times sound draining but here's hoping the latter half of the year brings you more superb highs.
My quim is very happy. It's discovered intensity and passion at a level that's very unexpected and almost addictive. Intoxicating in the best of ways. |
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By *eli OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"This year my theme tune should be "Tubthumping" but Chumbawamba as I've been knocked down so many times. Losing the will to get back up again though 😜 "
Oh Cinnamon! Really hope that resilience is rediscovered. No, actually. Ideal scenario? No more knocking down. You, happy, spooky things and beautiful slim white men aplenty. |
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By *eli OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Devastating split with my DD after 5.5 years, accidentally discovered his secret profile... his veris were coming to look at my profile. Clearly non of them are particularly bright.
On the plus side I've discovered what it's like to have healthy, open sex with younger people "
Rage, Midnight. I feel rage at reading that. Why? Why do that? But then you know how I feel about that sort of behaviour. 100% didn't deserve you.
Yes, healthy open sex is a wonderful thing - I hope you keep finding that empowerment and the sad times fade very soon for you, xx |
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This year in a nutshell has been a little up and down for reasons that I’d care not to share really.
But now I’m happy in myself for many reasons really.
I’ve got some incredible plans and a beautiful life, that for me is enough to make me happy and want to explore many things in the near future 🥰 |
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"I bought a calendar but nothings happened so far, wondering if I can get a partial refund.
Some great new profile pics today. Pickle has done one - and you've nailed it too Glow xx
And Pickle’s a pretty boy. He always looks good. "
Yeah he does |
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"Devastating split with my DD after 5.5 years, accidentally discovered his secret profile... his veris were coming to look at my profile. Clearly non of them are particularly bright.
On the plus side I've discovered what it's like to have healthy, open sex with younger people "
Jesus Midders!! What a cockwomble ❤️ |
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By *eli OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"This year in a nutshell has been a little up and down for reasons that I’d care not to share really.
But now I’m happy in myself for many reasons really.
I’ve got some incredible plans and a beautiful life, that for me is enough to make me happy and want to explore many things in the near future 🥰"
Ah Preston that's wonderful! Fingers crossed those plans bring you as much joy as you deserve and your happiness continues in to the final third of the year.😊 x |
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It was going well but this past week everything has fallen apart |
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