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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Not a man, but I’ve met more people than I have verified.
I feel a verification or two is enough to show I’m real. Otherwise they don’t serve any real purpose. |
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"Why wouldn’t you verify someone you’ve just had sex with?
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its been known on here that some wont meet you because you have been with them.
as that happens for both the males and the females.
a verfy that you have met and your real would be better though |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Why wouldn’t you verify someone you’ve just had sex with?
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Let's be blunt us men need the verification more than you wonderful ladies. If you have left him one he should return the favour if not then he may feel he wants to keep it private.
I don't think we need to be keeping score on who has been upto what and who just a verification that yes the photos are reflective of them and they are pleasant company in every sense |
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If we've already verified each other previously then we wouldn't do it again.
If we've mutually agreed not to verify each other then we don't.
If I've slept with someone who is on the forums, or a known entity within Fab or a 'cause célèbre' etc then I wouldn't verify them because she wouldn't need the drama and I wouldn't want the nasty messages. |
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I've also met more people than I gave verifications for
I only verify people now if they ask. I once verified someone who I'd met, who was unverified, thinking I was doing them a favour. They went ape shit! Saying I was leaving a "digital trail" for people to stalk them
So no more unasked for veris lol |
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"Why wouldn’t you verify someone you’ve just had sex with?
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I have met a few people and have always verified them and for some reason they have not verified me back yet have never had any complaints from anyone I have met |
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By *irthandgirthMan 41 weeks ago
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"If we've already verified each other previously then we wouldn't do it again.
If we've mutually agreed not to verify each other then we don't.
If I've slept with someone who is on the forums, or a known entity within Fab or a 'cause célèbre' etc then I wouldn't verify them because she wouldn't need the drama and I wouldn't want the nasty messages."
Having had wonderful times with forum users in the past, including several 'cause célèbre' (lovely term - thanks Nero) I can confirm that it can cause trouble. Not everyone is as lovely as they portray. |
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I never verify if I've had a bad experience and if I have a good time I will always right out a verification and send it to them first for them to ok they might have done things with me that they don't do with others and I'd hate another man to expect something when they met because I got it !
If its someone I really like I write one and regret the competition it's going to bring me in the future but I can understand if somebody didn't verify and didn't want competition.
Think I hold the record for the longest verification on here! |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Maybe we're both unverified and therefore can't verify each other 
This is a situation I’m current stuck in. "
I imagine theres the very first "fab members" being the seed that connects every other fab member together. Like the Adam and Eve of Fabs. |
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Interesting responses, thank you for sharing.
I’m still very new to this and have only met a few men so far yet to meet woman couples and other sexy people.
Not sure on the general consensus on this one but it’s not difficult to start thinking I was the common denominator here. |
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By *ex LutherMan 41 weeks ago
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Verifications can be more trouble than they’re worth I have known of people messaging their verifications as a way to circumnavigate filters.
I prefer not to display them - I would write one but again I wouldn’t be offended if it wasn’t displayed |
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