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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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Does it matter whether a person is wealthy when considering a match with someone or even a meet?
It doesn’t matter to me if someone is wealthy but I do hope someone I matched or planned to meet with has some sort of income 
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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I can’t fathom discussions about one’s financial standings would have anything to do with any reason I’m on Fab.
Is ‘FAF?’being replaced with ‘got an income?’ |
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I could be being dumb (it happens a lot) but I can’t see how wealth has any impact in who you meet. Yes there can be expenses, like hotels and champagne [special brew] but as long as you’re both prepared to contribute and compromise you can work something out |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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The wealth of someone doesn't really come into consideration other than can he pay his way for any social, hotel etc
Definitely a consideration if I am considering a relationship... don't need wealthy ... I am happy to pay my own way just don't have any desire to keep a man. |
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I would have said that if you meet at theirs then a wealthier person may live in nicer surrounding, a private garden, better quality plonk. Me, I tend to ask if they can use a club hammer rather than drink a club soda |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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The reason for this query is to try and justify requests to fund Fab subscriptions in return for a “meet” etc.
Most folk have an income yes and this is irrelevant as is anything beside FAF, which I’m yet to encounter 
But yeah mutual cost sharing when booking something or if asked, like Dutch dinner, is plausible. |
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It dies matter to me, yes.
If I met at my place and someone asked yo in a bad car it's an instar turn off. If I met at theirs, I like nice sheets, fluffy towels... or nice hotels suits! Nice perfume, manners... nothing turns me on more than a man that can discuss business and investments... I like an equal I can resonate with and that shares a similar lifestyle, so I never feel attracted to someone without a good income |
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I hope someone has the income they need to survive and hopefully have one that lets them live comfortably. But then I hope that for everyone 
Whether they do or not is none of my business and is immaterial as to whether I will find them attractive  |
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Yeah it's actually my main priority when meeting someone. I want to make sure they can afford more than a Tesco meal deal because I like to be fed before anal. And I want fancy hotels not Premier Inn. I want them to be able to spoil me with fancy coffee and a trip to legoland because I am not easy and them having money shows me they are good hardworking men. |
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I only meet Ladies if the barrel requires a little sçräpíng, otherwise it's my usual — in hierarchical order — Duchess, Marchioness, Countess, Viscountess and Baroness.
I refuse to date a Dame. They're rarely go 'dutch'. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"The reason for this query is to try and justify requests to fund Fab subscriptions in return for a “meet” etc.
Most folk have an income yes and this is irrelevant as is anything beside FAF, which I’m yet to encounter
But yeah mutual cost sharing when booking something or if asked, like Dutch dinner, is plausible. "
I'd block requests for money and report people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"The reason for this query is to try and justify requests to fund Fab subscriptions in return for a “meet” etc.
Most folk have an income yes and this is irrelevant as is anything beside FAF, which I’m yet to encounter
But yeah mutual cost sharing when booking something or if asked, like Dutch dinner, is plausible.
I'd block requests for money and report people"
I have done just that thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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I guess it matters to a certain degree. If I wanted to continue seeing someone beyond just meeting for sex, it would matter. If one of us can’t afford to do things together, it’s not going to work is it? |
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By *oxy jWoman 35 weeks ago
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if someone feels the need to say rgey are wealthy then that to me is a turn off i get a few messages like i work in law or banks or dont work dont need to or i drive a aston martin some women may well like that but me im here to swing and nothing else but swing |
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"What kinda forum is this??
Welcome to The Lounge…
Ps. This is kinda normal compared to most days
Kinda slow innit LB
Mr
It has its moments "
Yeah when it all kicks off.....love a good slanging match
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Wealth and willingness to spend is often conflated. The latter can be on credit and not a true indicator of wealth. (New) Money shouts, wealth whispers.
The latter can factor into to meet considerations: ie. Will I end up footing the bill for a hotel/club/drinks, and if so, will the juice be worth the squeeze.
Whereas wealth does not, given that I’m not looking for a future with meets.
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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No. I’m fortunate enough to be on the ‘thy’ side of things but the financial status of a meet has never crossed my mind.
It would actually put me off if that was a motivation for someone. I’m really not in to sharing anything other than myself and partner ??
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By *eliWoman 35 weeks ago
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No. Well, I wouldn't want to pay for everything for anyone and I also wouldn't want to feel bad if I'd rather not stay at a budget hotel.
On the same hand, and with a smidgen of hypocrisy, I don't like those who are snobby and with a superiority complex, believing wealth makes them better. Does zilch for me and I'm never impressed. |
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For a shag, not at all
I'm not interested in anything other than them being clean, fresh and horny
For a partner, yes
Not wealthy (cos I'm not either) but the ability to do nice things together is important and, to me, that is a joint input / joint output thing
I wouldn't be happy with someone else carrying me and whilst I love to treat people, I wouldn't make it the norm / expectation |
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