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Not sure this is going to end well or how you'd expect. Maybe she has seen your profile and is following your advice, namely "If your married/attached that's your business not mine. Discretion assured."
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In fairness, the OP's been on here for a mere 7 weeks. He said his wife's been cheating for a few months; that's probably roughly 10 weeks, or thereabouts.
Also, he probably joined to garner some advice from you kindly folk. |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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"In fairness, the OP's been on here for a mere 7 weeks. He said his wife's been cheating for a few months; that's probably roughly 10 weeks, or thereabouts.
Also, he probably joined to garner some advice from you kindly folk."
In fairness joining a swinging site is probably not the first step in cheating, it's more a 3rd date kinda thing.
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"In fairness, the OP's been on here for a mere 7 weeks. He said his wife's been cheating for a few months; that's probably roughly 10 weeks, or thereabouts.
Also, he probably joined to garner some advice from you kindly folk.
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In fairness joining a swinging site is probably not the first step in cheating, it's more a 3rd date kinda thing.
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I wasn't being serious.  |
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"When you find out your wife has been seeing someone else for the last few months, what do I do, accept the fact or go and find my self someone???"
I think I would want to know the reason why and take it from there. |
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"When you find out your wife has been seeing someone else for the last few months, what do I do, accept the fact or go and find my self someone???"
Fix things or walk away, revenge cheating is no better, joining a swingers site behind her back isn't an ideal way to fix things.
You either want to be with her or you don't, don't be a child about it it's not enough excuse to cheat because she did 
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"When you find out your wife has been seeing someone else for the last few months, what do I do, accept the fact or go and find my self someone???"
What do you do? Simple.
Talk to her. Calm, rational, patient. And listen. And most important, hear what she says.
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"In fairness, the OP's been on here for a mere 7 weeks. He said his wife's been cheating for a few months; that's probably roughly 10 weeks, or thereabouts.
Also, he probably joined to garner some advice from you kindly folk."
Ah sorry OP and Nero, you are right, a few months is more than seven weeks.
To give a fair response OP, if you want to save the relationship, then not convinced a tit for tat approach is best, if you want to spice it up, see what she thinks about a couple's profile - but otherwise, it does look like you have made up your mind, so good luck in the search. |
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Hi op
You need to decide if you both want to work to fix this and stay together.
Just cheating yourself isn't the answer and won't solve your issues.
Only you know if your marriage is worth saving or not. |
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"Hi op
You need to decide if you both want to work to fix this and stay together.
Just cheating yourself isn't the answer and won't solve your issues.
Only you know if your marriage is worth saving or not. "
This.
Dragging another person into your drama is not fair. |
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I'm more thinking this.
Are you upset that your wife has cheated on you or are you upset that she didnt tell you?.
You are on a swingers site. Does her cheating upset you or turn you on?.
Does she know you are here ?.
Do you want to stay together ?. Does the idea of her being with another man (or woman) and perhaps you with another woman (or man) excite or repulse you ?
Too much unknown data for me |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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I don’t get it after reading your profile? You’re happy to help another wife cheat? If that’s the case then you’re happy to make another guy feel the way you do now if he discovers you are seeing his wife, right?
I thinking your business and know what’s wrong and right and and so do all the other people involved or potentially involved, so nobody seems to be in a position to take the moral high ground in this situation from what I can see…  |
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