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Do you find a lot of people attractive
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"Yeah, it's a basic human feeling. There is nothing wrong with looking at somebody and thinking they are attractive. It's not the same as developing an actual crush on somebody "
I get that. Offline out in the real world I’ve had straight guys come over and say I’m not gay but just wanted to say xyz. It’s nice it’s just being nice to someone. If I did that to a straight guy on here I’d prob get abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Um, I’m not sure. I can look at someone and see why people would be attracted to them, but I don’t think I find lots of people attractive. Does that even make any sense?  |
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"Yeah, it's a basic human feeling. There is nothing wrong with looking at somebody and thinking they are attractive. It's not the same as developing an actual crush on somebody
I get that. Offline out in the real world I’ve had straight guys come over and say I’m not gay but just wanted to say xyz. It’s nice it’s just being nice to someone. If I did that to a straight guy on here I’d prob get abuse. "
I suspect there are quite a few straight men on here who are actually discretely bi (purely based on the winks I get from men like that) |
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"Yeah, it's a basic human feeling. There is nothing wrong with looking at somebody and thinking they are attractive. It's not the same as developing an actual crush on somebody
I get that. Offline out in the real world I’ve had straight guys come over and say I’m not gay but just wanted to say xyz. It’s nice it’s just being nice to someone. If I did that to a straight guy on here I’d prob get abuse.
I suspect there are quite a few straight men on here who are actually discretely bi (purely based on the winks I get from men like that)"
ALL the men who message me on here state straight on their profile. I don’t mind that, it’s the game I guess. But I can’t say to a straight guy on here hey I know you’re straight but you look xyz. And that’s a shame. |
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By *a LunaWoman 35 weeks ago
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"I think lots of people are attractive but it's rare I'm attracted to them. Even people I'm not particularly fond of - I can see why others are attracted to them. Sometimes.  "
This for me too. They usually have to have a sense of humour that is similar to mine so we gel well. THAT is the tricky part for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"Sexually attractive no. Attractive to look at loads of people, men and women. oh this has blown me
Why? "
Most of the people I find attractive I find sexually attractive. I don’t often think about people that I *just* think are attractive and no more |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Physically yes.
Mentally no."
Exactly this .... can physically appreciate someone and then they start to talk 
But also can talk to someone and then become attracted to them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"Physically yes.
Mentally no."
Oh word. There’s few people that I am attracted to mentally. Well sometimes it grows as we get to know one another I guess but not really on here |
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By *rBobbMan 35 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"Physically yes.
Mentally no.
Exactly this .... can physically appreciate someone and then they start to talk
But also can talk to someone and then become attracted to them"
I totally agree with this 100%  |
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No, I find very few people attractive. I can appreciate beauty and see that someone is good looking, but, similarly to a couple of previous posters, I'm not attracted to someone until I've got to know them a bit. On here it's never someone's looks that reel me in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"No, I find very few people attractive. I can appreciate beauty and see that someone is good looking, but, similarly to a couple of previous posters, I'm not attracted to someone until I've got to know them a bit. On here it's never someone's looks that reel me in."
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By *oxy jWoman 35 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
sexual attraction no .. attraction as in just looks plenty but as others have said when they start talking it can nose dive quickly .... i find more women attractive than men ...a;ot of people are attractive but gross inside ie personality / views wise |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"Actually, no. Turns out I'm quite picky
I look like will smith if you think about it with your eyes closed 
Can I take both please? Two for one?! "
Good luck getting us both in a room |
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"Actually, no. Turns out I'm quite picky
I look like will smith if you think about it with your eyes closed
Can I take both please? Two for one?!
Good luck getting us both in a room"
I'll find a big room. Accessible rooms are usually big  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"Actually, no. Turns out I'm quite picky
I look like will smith if you think about it with your eyes closed
Can I take both please? Two for one?!
Good luck getting us both in a room
I'll find a big room. Accessible rooms are usually big "
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"Actually, no. Turns out I'm quite picky
I look like will smith if you think about it with your eyes closed
Can I take both please? Two for one?!
Good luck getting us both in a room
I'll find a big room. Accessible rooms are usually big
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They usually come with a big shower too
And lovely red handles to hold. Red is the colour of luuuuurrrrrrrve, right? |
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By *irthandgirthMan 35 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder and you can see it everywhere if you look. Except maybe Grimsby.
Having the ability to judge someone as attractive (which is completely subjective) doesn't necessarily equate to wanting to put my penis in them. |
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By *ony MannMan 35 weeks ago
Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura |
"I once date a man whose mind was extremely attractive but he was quite ugly. I adored him.
I don't remember us dating?..."
That it's what she adores about you,you forget some much....hopefully not her birthday. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Yeah, I think there are a lot of people who are objectively attractive. Who I find personally attractive? I'm going to be boring and say it depends. I know when I see... |
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