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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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When I started swinging I said I would never let anyone stay over, but recently I have not only let someone stay over, I am looking forward to the staying again.
So have you ever had someone you met on fab sleep over, or would you ?
Or is it a definite no |
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"When I started swinging I said I would never let anyone stay over, but recently I have not only let someone stay over, I am looking forward to the staying again.
So have you ever had someone you met on fab sleep over, or would you ?
Or is it a definite no "
Mr has and enjoyed it in the past. I have and its not for me. As a couple I don't think we would ever spend the night with anyone else now
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"New friend no ... longer lasting regular and I have fun refuardless of sex then yeah why not ... who else will play Mario kart with me "
What if they are pretty good at Mario Kart ? |
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By *sus82Man 42 weeks ago
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"New friend no ... longer lasting regular and I have fun refuardless of sex then yeah why not ... who else will play Mario kart with me
What if they are pretty good at Mario Kart ? "
Depends on the version ..... most can be good at mk8
But I'm talking about n64 mario kart |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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It’s nothing something I want to do. I don’t enjoy sharing a bed and struggle to sleep when I’m away from home.
Having a good time together, then going home to our own bed is enough for me. |
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By *eliWoman 42 weeks ago
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Do you mean staying at my house or spending the night with them?
Staying here, there are a few friends I'd happily sort out the guest room for.
In terms of spending the night... if I'm fond of them yes. I wouldn't do it with anyone, I'd have to quite like them. |
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Sleep overs are our preferred meet. I mean it doesn’t have to be but we enjoy unhurried times where we aren’t clock watching.
Our regular FWB lady stays in our bed too. She has the choice to sleep separately but chooses not to.
A gent would sleep separately but if they become regular then C might wake them up nicely 
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"Sleep overs are our preferred meet. I mean it doesn’t have to be but we enjoy unhurried times where we aren’t clock watching.
Our regular FWB lady stays in our bed too. She has the choice to sleep separately but chooses not to.
A gent would sleep separately but if they become regular then C might wake them up nicely
K"
To be fair, some of your stays look very scenic, especially your photo of the sunset (or sunrise?) and clouds, with C standing naked on a balcony that you've added today in your public gallery. Looks absolutely mesmerising... and so does the view in the distance  |
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Yeah I have a few times. I've had people stay at mine and stayed at theirs. I have to get on really well with them to do it but it's all part of building a connection so I wouldn't meet them if I wasn't already establishing that. |
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In general it's a huge no. Regardless of whether we meet at theirs, mine or a hotel. But I first stayed over with my fwb for convenience after we'd been to a gig, and it wasn't awful. Usually I'm pretty antisocial, I like my own space, time to myself and yes my bed to myself too. He's one of the rare ones I can chill with for longer periods.
It's probably become more of a situationship but that's ok. We hang out platonically as much as we do sexual stuff. I'm currently teaching him how to cook and bake, and I've nicked one of his bass guitars and he's helping me out with that  |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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It's not something I thought I'd ever do when I joined Fab and have only done it (and will probably still only do it) with one person because I just feel more comfortable with them. I may do it again if the right person pops up and we've met beforehand too  |
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"I prefer a sleepover and it's something I actively look for. I like the sleepy, warm-skinned, loose-limbed morning sex."
Exactly this. Also coffee in bed. I usually am awake first but I pretend to be asleep so I don’t feel obligated to be the one to go downstairs and put the kettle on. It comes to me  |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"We have had a lady stay over a couple of times but in the spare room. She would be very welcome in our bed but as far as I'm aware that's not what she wants. "
It's such a comfy spare bed though  |
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By *dquestCouple 42 weeks ago
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We had a hotel meet with a favourite couple that turned into an all night session, a couple of hours of coma sleep together on a giant kindsized bed, and a happy breakfast chatting and laughing a bit too much for the other guests. |
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I've often stayed over on first meets, but also had flying visits where a meet only lasted for a couple of hours before we parted ways. It really just depends on the situation and how well you click |
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We had an apartment and did an overnighter with a chap last week.
Me and him had separate rooms, so along with MFM stuff, Mia hopped between both rooms throughout the night.
It was one of the hottest nights of sex we have ever had, and a good insight into hotwife and poly type scenarios (fantasies of ours).
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"We had an apartment and did an overnighter with a chap last week.
Me and him had separate rooms, so along with MFM stuff, Mia hopped between both rooms throughout the night.
It was one of the hottest nights of sex we have ever had, and a good insight into hotwife and poly type scenarios (fantasies of ours).
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That sounds amazing, an exciting way to spend the night |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"I’d only have a sleepover if I’d brought my PJs, and there were snacks for a midnight feast to have with a scary movie. Also, the other person needs to be cuddly and not snore!  "
Snoring is a no no for me too. |
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Unfortunately, I don't live alone so they can't stay over.
It's hard enough getting the house to myself at reasonable times without the chance my son could come home early from work.
It ruins my experience if I'm worrying my son might come home. |
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When I was single I did a couple of times, including my partner who I met here over 8 years ago.
I don't think I would now, my partner has had sleepovers with other women, with my blessing though.
I struggle to sleep at the best of times. |
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I generally like it, but it's a rare treat. I think that I sometimes sleep better when there is someone else nearby, although it might well be that my "octopussing" keeps them awake. Have been told before that I've grabbed all the bed space. |
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