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I can guarantee if someone is drop dead gorgeous they wouldn't even need to fill out their profile and same as if they have a really well written profile and send really well thought out messages they would still get no reply blocked if they were hugly. Prove me wrong |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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My bio is shit and I’ve got face pictures up. No not interest than when I made an effort with my profile. You could be on to something.
BUT- who cares. That’s the game. You either got it or you don’t. (I don’t) |
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"I can guarantee"
How will you guarantee it?
"if someone is drop dead gorgeous they wouldn't even need to fill out their profile"
It's not all about their visage. Not everyone is shallow enough to go by just looks.
"...if they have a really well written profile and send really well thought out messages they would still get no reply"
Well, I seemed have bucked the trend with my below-average looks and above-average composition.
"Prove me wrong"
There's nothing to prove. |
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By *TG3Man 37 weeks ago
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"I can guarantee if someone is drop dead gorgeous they wouldn't even need to fill out their profile and same as if they have a really well written profile and send really well thought out messages they would still get no reply blocked if they were hugly. Prove me wrong"
not sure what you are saying but think you are saying if you look the bees knees you don't have to try unfortunately women rule here and its what they day goes  |
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We all have our ideals of what we want on here. We fancy who we fancy…an amazing profile and a well thought out message is good but it’s not a guaranteed shag…you still have to find them attractive regardless.
It just helps show an effort has been made…
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"I can guarantee if someone is drop dead gorgeous they wouldn't even need to fill out their profile and same as if they have a really well written profile and send really well thought out messages they would still get no reply blocked if they were hugly. Prove me wrong"
My profile is awesome, I'm awesome, everything is awesome!!
I do ok  |
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Maybe stereotypical and of course their are exceptions but we've found the gents with larger members, sell themselves on just that and with very little in their profile and/or messages... and hence forth, as attractive as the pics may be, it portrays an arrogance to us and consequent lack of interest. |
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"I can guarantee if someone is drop dead gorgeous they wouldn't even need to fill out their profile and same as if they have a really well written profile and send really well thought out messages they would still get no reply blocked if they were hugly. Prove me wrong"
They may not need to fill out a profile but then again they can't really complain if they get lazy messages when they have a lazy profile.
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There is also a weird assumption by a lot of people on here that good looking people are good in bed.
I've seen lots of complaints over the years from "hot" profiles about not getting repeat meets.
There seems to be a reluctance to tell someone with nice pics that they are a shit shag. |
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By *ags73Man 37 weeks ago
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"I can guarantee
How will you guarantee it?
if someone is drop dead gorgeous they wouldn't even need to fill out their profile
It's not all about their visage. Not everyone is shallow enough to go by just looks.
...if they have a really well written profile and send really well thought out messages they would still get no reply
Well, I seemed have bucked the trend with my below-average looks and above-average composition.
Prove me wrong
There's nothing to prove."
Slam
dunk. |
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"What's to prove?
Don't find someone both aesthetically and personality wise appealing? Why would you fuck them?i didn't say fuck them I said get a reply  "
I usually reply to everyone, though I'm currently in a rare just fucking delete the ones that obviously didn't read the profile phase. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"We should pick someone who we can all agree is attractive and have them make their profile blank and see if they still get replies. I'd bet alot they do "
May I ask what you classify as attractive op??? |
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I've met guys with hardly anything on their profiles and others that have war and peace, I love a good profile and one that makes me laugh but sometimes (and probably be included with this when I have had a funny profile) a funny profile is where the humour ends and doesn't always convey into the real world, I can be the funniest fucker on my profile but meet me, I'm awkward as fuck lol |
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
What attraction is ...let me know op "
yes totally agree but there's a general type of person who would be attractive to alot more people than another person you know what I'm saying. And a personality is alot more important than how attractive someone is but I'm talking about on here from a glance at a profile |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Ladies if a guy messaged you he had a really good profile ticked alot of boxes for you have a great body cock ect but he sent you a pic and his face was proper mashed up you wouldn't reply "
True. |
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"Ladies if a guy messaged you he had a really good profile ticked alot of boxes for you have a great body cock ect but he sent you a pic and his face was proper mashed up you wouldn't reply "
True for some people. Not for all.
Coyote is happily in the only wants to fuck the people she's physically attracted to camp. And that's what works for her.
Personally I don't care how someone looks if they don't actually excite me mentally. And it would have to be a real extreme for the aesthetics to make it a no if so.
Neither way is better than the other. Just different  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Ladies if a guy messaged you he had a really good profile ticked alot of boxes for you have a great body cock ect but he sent you a pic and his face was proper mashed up you wouldn't reply "
Don’t take the forums too seriously. This statement is probably true for most of fab but everyone on the forums will say it’s cap |
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"One person's drop dead gorgeous is someone else's minger.
Attraction is subjective.
Well thought messages are meaningless if there's no attraction to your pics and/or profile.
Mrs "
^^ this is 100% true. If I don’t fancy the person messaging I don’t fancy them. Ain’t nobody making me get on that plane |
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"Ladies if a guy messaged you he had a really good profile ticked alot of boxes for you have a great body cock ect but he sent you a pic and his face was proper mashed up you wouldn't reply
True for some people. Not for all.
Coyote is happily in the only wants to fuck the people she's physically attracted to camp. And that's what works for her.
Personally I don't care how someone looks if they don't actually excite me mentally. And it would have to be a real extreme for the aesthetics to make it a no if so.
Neither way is better than the other. Just different "
so you would have sex with someone you didn't find attractive?
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Ladies if a guy messaged you he had a really good profile ticked alot of boxes for you have a great body cock ect but he sent you a pic and his face was proper mashed up you wouldn't reply
True for some people. Not for all.
Coyote is happily in the only wants to fuck the people she's physically attracted to camp. And that's what works for her.
Personally I don't care how someone looks if they don't actually excite me mentally. And it would have to be a real extreme for the aesthetics to make it a no if so.
Neither way is better than the other. Just different so you would have sex with someone you didn't find attractive?
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I think my inference is that she would have sex with people she finds attractive. That attraction isn’t dependent on physical features |
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
What attraction is ...let me know op "
Years ago, I showed a friend a pic of the boy I’d started seeing. A boy so beautiful I couldn’t look at him as his beauty was too overwhelming. So I proudly brought out my phone to show her his photo and she said the immortal line, “I thought you said he was good looking?”  |
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"Ladies if a guy messaged you he had a really good profile ticked alot of boxes for you have a great body cock ect but he sent you a pic and his face was proper mashed up you wouldn't reply
True for some people. Not for all.
Coyote is happily in the only wants to fuck the people she's physically attracted to camp. And that's what works for her.
Personally I don't care how someone looks if they don't actually excite me mentally. And it would have to be a real extreme for the aesthetics to make it a no if so.
Neither way is better than the other. Just different so you would have sex with someone you didn't find attractive?
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I would have to find them attractive. But that's a lot based in aesthetics than a lot of people think.
I'm not going to fuck someone who doesn't excite me.
Someone doesn't have to be objectively pretty for me to be attracted to them. If their personality sings to me, then I'll be drawn to their body however they look. |
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"I would have to find them attractive. But that's a lot based in aesthetics than a lot of people think.
I'm not going to fuck someone who doesn't excite me.
Someone doesn't have to be objectively pretty for me to be attracted to them. If their personality sings to me, then I'll be drawn to their body however they look."
*A lot less based on aesthetics.
Proof reading is not my strong point today. |
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"I can guarantee if someone is drop dead gorgeous they wouldn't even need to fill out their profile and same as if they have a really well written profile and send really well thought out messages they would still get no reply blocked if they were hugly. Prove me wrong"
Okay.
You are wrong.
Your drop dead gorgeous is someone elses unattractive.
My age group is not someone else's age group.
Some people go for the kinks not the looks ....
Some are attracted to the personality
Some don't like very young swingers as they don't want drama and inexperience
etc etc etc .......
I get where you are coming from but it's a very myopic view.
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I want someone I'm attracted to but also someone that doesn't bore me to death.
There is a lot of hot boring as fuck guys on here and I lose interest by the second message.
Then there's also some guys with great personalities but who I personally don't find attractive, also not for me.
I want it all!
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"There is also a weird assumption by a lot of people on here that good looking people are good in bed.
I've seen lots of complaints over the years from "hot" profiles about not getting repeat meets.
There seems to be a reluctance to tell someone with nice pics that they are a shit shag. "
Last time I met a hot guy he was in my house all of 45 minutes, lapped at me like my pussy was a saucer of milk, treated me like a cum dump and ran out the door claiming he couldn't miss House of the Dragon, so....  |
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"Ladies if a guy messaged you he had a really good profile ticked alot of boxes for you have a great body cock ect but he sent you a pic and his face was proper mashed up you wouldn't reply "
i try to reply to everyone - and i have met people who's profiles are rubbish - think its all subjective - what one person would find attractive another wouldnt |
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