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What is an ‘exceptional’ male?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"Kidding. They don’t exist. "
Is it just another way of saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder?It is an expression I see used a lot & gym bodies & BBC aside what else qualifies? |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Insights?"
I can give you examples of who I think are exceptional in what they do. An actor, for example, a sportsperson. Why are they exceptional? It’s just my option I suppose, or in the case of Cristiano Ronaldo, for whatever you think about him. His records and achievements and awards speak volumes.
But to describe someone exceptional on Fab… I’d like to watch someone try.
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I don't find myself particularly interested in or attracted to most people.
There are exceptions. They are exceptional.
What makes them exceptions is wildly varied and nothing as simple as aesthetics.
You just know your people when you find them  |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Baby I light up your world like nobody else,
The way that I flip my hair gets you overwhelmed
But when I smile at the ground it ain't hard to tell
I don't know
Oh, oh
I don't know I'm exceptional. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Well I did ask my friend to list all the possible scents he wanted for Christmas. He sent me a message mentioning his favourites but did state he deliberately avoids all Coco products on political grounds.
To me that was an ‘except chanel mail’. |
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You want a guy that's sweet
A guy that's tough
A feminist who likes to pay for stuff
The kinda guy that gets along with your friends
Without being attracted to any of them
A good boy, a bad boy, a good bad boy
A half good, half bad, half boy
Loves your brother sensitive but not weak and
Is a great lover calls your mother on the weekend
Then you might think that this guy only exists in your mind
Well guess what
You're right |
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"You want a guy that's sweet
A guy that's tough
A feminist who likes to pay for stuff
The kinda guy that gets along with your friends
Without being attracted to any of them
A good boy, a bad boy, a good bad boy
A half good, half bad, half boy
Loves your brother sensitive but not weak and
Is a great lover calls your mother on the weekend
Then you might think that this guy only exists in your mind
Well guess what
You're right"
Sound like a gay bff tbh |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Somebody intelligent, kind, exciting, challenging, tall, witty, quirky, strong minded + willed with pools for eyes and lips to dive into "
me. Like I said. Plus a few inches.
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Somebody intelligent, kind, exciting, challenging, tall, witty, quirky, strong minded + willed with pools for eyes and lips to dive into me. Like I said. Plus a few inches.
So me then"
shit. I guess. 
Assuming your face lives up to expectation   |
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"I don't find myself particularly interested in or attracted to most people.
There are exceptions. They are exceptional.
What makes them exceptions is wildly varied and nothing as simple as aesthetics.
You just know your people when you find them "
the last bit  |
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If people use an epithet like exceptional when describing potential playmates, it must be intended to encourage those reading to self-select based on whether they consider themselves "exceptional" or not.
This thread suggests that it's not working  |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Fit, hung, intelligent and good looking. Oh and single. That’s exceptional.
All subjective
Especially the single bit . "
GSOH a given? And I reckon adding in arrogance/humility would probably split the crowd…… |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Makes me cringe a little when people describe themselves as exceptional. I mean they maybe, but people willing to say it so loudly and proudly in such a public manner makes me laugh. Definitely the type of people I avoid in real life and on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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I think it’s just a bit of fab nonsense. Can’t say I hear this expression much, if at all, away from here.
I think the term was born out of the fact that this place is saturated with single males. This leads to couples and single females having a large pool to search from. Thus the notion of being somewhat ‘exceptional’ is needed in order to stand out from one’s peers.
So this makes me wonder. As the sight is not equally saturated with single females, and applying the same logic as for single males, does the concept of an ‘exceptional female’ therefore not except. There is a smaller pool and maybe they don’t need to stand out as much. Some already label single females as being unicorns. So if an exceptional female did expect would that make her an exceptional unicorn? Now that would be a sight to behold. |
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To me, Men who aren't cocky, understated men. The quiet ones who look rugged and moody but can smile and crack a joke. They aren't insecure but also are modest and laid back. He needs to look like he is strong but doesn't need to be Muscular. He looks like he could rip you in half with his bare hands but also soft and yielding. He feeds off of a woman's reaction and reads her every signal. He knows how to hold a woman down by her throat or hands but gives her just enough room to squirm around underneath him as he watches. I give you my husband, the man of my dreams. My absolute fantasy and all round man of men. But that's just me, luckily I love to share him and see other women enjoying his amazing masterfulness under him.
Sian x |
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