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SHOULD the postees of such messages be named & shamed and examples of the offending messages shown.
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"Personally I think they should as it might get rid of a good number of people.....sadly fab does not allow it! "Thing is one persons weird and disgusting is someone else’s fetish. | |||
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"Personally I think they should as it might get rid of a good number of people.....sadly fab does not allow it!
Thing is one persons weird and disgusting is someone else’s fetish. "You promised you wouldn’t mention that ‘thing’ I asked you to do to me with the cactus  | |||
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"Personally I think they should as it might get rid of a good number of people.....sadly fab does not allow it!
Thing is one persons weird and disgusting is someone else’s fetish. "That's a good point. I was thinking more of the abusive kind of messages x | |||
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"Personally I think they should as it might get rid of a good number of people.....sadly fab does not allow it!
Thing is one persons weird and disgusting is someone else’s fetish.
You promised you wouldn’t mention that ‘thing’ I asked you to do to me with the cactus "Oh a CACTUS duh! I read ‘lot of pricks’ didn’t think of plant based options sorry sugar  | |||
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"Nope. Would turn the forums into a pillory with people throwing rotten veg at the miscreants. Plus, people lie and exaggerate. The report button is there for a reason." But if you could screenshot the message and post it.....there would be no lies x | |||
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"OR just examples?I had somebody send me a text within MINUTES of me joining & the poster assumed/hoped I was gay without any preferences listed on my profile…." Implying you think being gay is weird or disgusting? Is that what you mean? | |||
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"I’m getting A LOT of messages at the moment from one guy who’s asking when I last had a poo and if he can sniff my bum. I can’t decide if he’s a bona fide pervert or someone I’ve known trying to wind me up, " Are you sure it's not your GP? | |||
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"OR just examples?I had somebody send me a text within MINUTES of me joining & the poster assumed/hoped I was gay without any preferences listed on my profile…. Implying you think being gay is weird or disgusting? Is that what you mean? " No….the assumption about my orientation from a complete stranger is what I found distasteful-the internet seems to give people permission to behave as they please & in a manner they could not in the real world…. | |||
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"I’m getting A LOT of messages at the moment from one guy who’s asking when I last had a poo and if he can sniff my bum. I can’t decide if he’s a bona fide pervert or someone I’ve known trying to wind me up, " I take it you've not blocked him then?  | |||
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"I’m getting A LOT of messages at the moment from one guy who’s asking when I last had a poo and if he can sniff my bum. I can’t decide if he’s a bona fide pervert or someone I’ve known trying to wind me up, "  | |||
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"OR just examples?I had somebody send me a text within MINUTES of me joining & the poster assumed/hoped I was gay without any preferences listed on my profile…. Implying you think being gay is weird or disgusting? Is that what you mean? No….the assumption about my orientation from a complete stranger is what I found distasteful-the internet seems to give people permission to behave as they please & in a manner they could not in the real world…." I get a lot of messages from people who aren’t what I’m looking for. Doesn’t make them weird or disgusting. | |||
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"OR just examples?I had somebody send me a text within MINUTES of me joining & the poster assumed/hoped I was gay without any preferences listed on my profile…. Implying you think being gay is weird or disgusting? Is that what you mean? " its defo not disgusting but considering we only make up less than 5% of the worlds population it could quite easly falll into the wierd catagory please dont get me wrong i aint saying it is my kink is prob less than 0.5% hence y name and shame wouldnt be fair cus it literaly is in the eye of the be holder | |||
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"I’m getting A LOT of messages at the moment from one guy who’s asking when I last had a poo and if he can sniff my bum. I can’t decide if he’s a bona fide pervert or someone I’ve known trying to wind me up, I take it you've not blocked him then? "I love the user names on here….Harley Quim….  | |||
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"I’m getting A LOT of messages at the moment from one guy who’s asking when I last had a poo and if he can sniff my bum. I can’t decide if he’s a bona fide pervert or someone I’ve known trying to wind me up, I take it you've not blocked him then? "I didn’t for a while because I was sure it was someone spoofing me, but I did block him today. “Trixie ShittyStinkyBum” started to feel more like abuse than entertainment | |||
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"OR just examples?I had somebody send me a text within MINUTES of me joining & the poster assumed/hoped I was gay without any preferences listed on my profile…. Implying you think being gay is weird or disgusting? Is that what you mean? its defo not disgusting but considering we only make up less than 5% of the worlds population it could quite easly falll into the wierd catagory please dont get me wrong i aint saying it is my kink is prob less than 0.5% hence y name and shame wouldnt be fair cus it literaly is in the eye of the be holder" This is a big non sequitur tbh | |||
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"OR just examples?I had somebody send me a text within MINUTES of me joining & the poster assumed/hoped I was gay without any preferences listed on my profile…. Implying you think being gay is weird or disgusting? Is that what you mean? No….the assumption about my orientation from a complete stranger is what I found distasteful-the internet seems to give people permission to behave as they please & in a manner they could not in the real world…. I get a lot of messages from people who aren’t what I’m looking for. Doesn’t make them weird or disgusting. " I’m not saying or implying gay or homosexual is disgusting-just that people can be pretty thoughtless. | |||
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"OR just examples?I had somebody send me a text within MINUTES of me joining & the poster assumed/hoped I was gay without any preferences listed on my profile…. Implying you think being gay is weird or disgusting? Is that what you mean? No….the assumption about my orientation from a complete stranger is what I found distasteful-the internet seems to give people permission to behave as they please & in a manner they could not in the real world…. I get a lot of messages from people who aren’t what I’m looking for. Doesn’t make them weird or disgusting. I’m not saying or implying gay or homosexual is disgusting-just that people can be pretty thoughtless." It’s quoted above in your own words as an example of a weird or disgusting example that a gay person contacted you. | |||
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"I’m getting A LOT of messages at the moment from one guy who’s asking when I last had a poo and if he can sniff my bum. I can’t decide if he’s a bona fide pervert or someone I’ve known trying to wind me up, I take it you've not blocked him then?
I didn’t for a while because I was sure it was someone spoofing me, but I did block him today. “Trixie ShittyStinkyBum” started to feel more like abuse than entertainment "He sounds delightful! | |||
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"I’m getting A LOT of messages at the moment from one guy who’s asking when I last had a poo and if he can sniff my bum. I can’t decide if he’s a bona fide pervert or someone I’ve known trying to wind me up, I take it you've not blocked him then?
I didn’t for a while because I was sure it was someone spoofing me, but I did block him today. “Trixie ShittyStinkyBum” started to feel more like abuse than entertainment "That’s what I mean-it’s clear you aren’t interested, never will interested but he feels entitled to send you messages out pique or hoping he’ll wear you down | |||
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"I’m getting A LOT of messages at the moment from one guy who’s asking when I last had a poo and if he can sniff my bum. I can’t decide if he’s a bona fide pervert or someone I’ve known trying to wind me up, Are you sure it's not your GP?" What kind of a relationship do you have with your GP  I think you’ve been groomed, report them | |||
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"I’m getting A LOT of messages at the moment from one guy who’s asking when I last had a poo and if he can sniff my bum. I can’t decide if he’s a bona fide pervert or someone I’ve known trying to wind me up, I take it you've not blocked him then?
I didn’t for a while because I was sure it was someone spoofing me, but I did block him today. “Trixie ShittyStinkyBum” started to feel more like abuse than entertainment "Yes, maybe don't get that printed on a t-shirt | |||
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"OR just examples?I had somebody send me a text within MINUTES of me joining & the poster assumed/hoped I was gay without any preferences listed on my profile…. Implying you think being gay is weird or disgusting? Is that what you mean? No….the assumption about my orientation from a complete stranger is what I found distasteful-the internet seems to give people permission to behave as they please & in a manner they could not in the real world…. I get a lot of messages from people who aren’t what I’m looking for. Doesn’t make them weird or disgusting. I’m not saying or implying gay or homosexual is disgusting-just that people can be pretty thoughtless. It’s quoted above in your own words as an example of a weird or disgusting example that a gay person contacted you. " Gonna catch da ghay | |||
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"A guy messaged me I was working nights was about 3am asked me do I think he can circumcise his own cock " | |||
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"Abusive messages should certainly be reported to admin but you should also consider that some of the producers of these overtly unpleasant messages seem to get off on causing shock and disgust, and disseminating the messages so that more people share in the outrage will just amplify their pleasure. Don't give them the satisfaction of broadcasting your upset - just delete and block and move on." Fair point….the frustrating thing is people like them create a toxic atmosphere for everyone else  | |||
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"Abusive messages should certainly be reported to admin but you should also consider that some of the producers of these overtly unpleasant messages seem to get off on causing shock and disgust, and disseminating the messages so that more people share in the outrage will just amplify their pleasure. Don't give them the satisfaction of broadcasting your upset - just delete and block and move on. Fair point….the frustrating thing is people like them create a toxic atmosphere for everyone else "But calling gay people disgusting isn’t creating a toxic environment? | |||
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