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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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A fetish is more a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity and not necessarily about the sex itself or sexual organs. Eg heels, boots, feet, leather latex etc etc
A kink is more a non-conventional (non vanilla) sexual practice, concept or fantasy. Eg cnc, being in bondage, perhaps enjoying something like dogging or anonymous sex etc could even go in there.
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Kinks would be things like rope, impact, wax play, electrics, denial or forced orgasms, breath play.
A fetish can be where you are turned on by things like foot worship, leather and pvc wear, smoking, there are all kinds of fetishisms |
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By *eliWoman 36 weeks ago
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I've always thought of it as a fetish being something you need in order to experience arousal/sexual pleasure. A kink is more of a choice, an option. Something that enhances, like Prey said above. |
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Best way to explain the difference for me is.. You are in control of a kink , you pick and choose as and when... a Fetish however controls you It’s always at the forefront of your sexuality.. that can be a good thing and be embraced.. depending on the extremes obviously |
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