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Struggling to meet women :(
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Your comment in your profile about "don't beat around the bush, we are all here for one thing", I find off-putting.
People are here for many different reasons and looking for many different things.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Sorry i could not find my last thread. Never expectations. Just be nice to get my profile more appealing. Meeting new people an making friends would be a great start. Have anxiety so find it all a bit difficult but have to try. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Sorry i could not find my last thread. Never expectations. Just be nice to get my profile more appealing. Meeting new people an making friends would be a great start. Have anxiety so find it all a bit difficult but have to try. "
If you click of the green arrow beside your name on this thread it will show you your previous posts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Thanks a lot all. Much appreciated. Have changed my profile up a little so hopefully this will help a little. Just be nice to meet an get to know new people. Start to socialise again now im back on my feet. Thanks again. |
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By *io--Man 38 weeks ago
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"Ladies looking for some advice. How do i make my profile more appealing to maybe get some replies or is it simply my face doesnt do it for you. "
Not a lady, but Id add a bit more info about yourself on your profile. I dont have a clue of the ratio of single men to women/couples but Im sure its 10:1 at least. So having pretty much the same thing the other 5 guys before you had they looked at wont be cause for any interest unless they go off your looks
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By *TG3Man 38 weeks ago
Dorchester |
"Sorry i could not find my last thread. Never expectations. Just be nice to get my profile more appealing. Meeting new people an making friends would be a great start. Have anxiety so find it all a bit difficult but have to try. "
press the green arrow to the right of your name it shows the other thread  |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Same tbh men pop up all the time but interested in making a fwb connection with a women also not into TV not trying to annoy anyone aswell but not my thing any points |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Hopefully engaging id like to think, i dont randomly send a dick pic or anything or just say hello do you fancy sex. Thank you, your pics are lovely an you have a great bio to read. |
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If you were to take what people say to put on your profile, it would read like War and Peace. You will never have a profile that fits all.
We all know "some" women like to shop, treat your profile like a shop window....Does it entice them to want to look inside...to find out more??
Personally I find your profile quite basic, it doesn't really say much of you as a person but that's just my opinion. |
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By *TG3Man 38 weeks ago
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"Hopefully engaging id like to think, i dont randomly send a dick pic or anything or just say hello do you fancy sex. Thank you, your pics are lovely an you have a great bio to read. "
Thanks nice of you to say |
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"Sorry i could not find my last thread. Never expectations. Just be nice to get my profile more appealing. Meeting new people an making friends would be a great start. Have anxiety so find it all a bit difficult but have to try. "
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1595572
Here's your last thread. Don't worry, we were all new here at some point 
Fab does need men to sell themselves in their profile, what they are going to be giving their partners. Read through a few posts from other single men and get tips too  |
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From my own experience of asking this question, I would say try not to cater your profile too much to what other people think is best. You just end up with a cookie cutter profile which shows very little of who you are.
Be like me, honest and authentic. It won't help you get meets but, it will reduce the risk that if you do meet somebody they will immediately come onto the site and tell everyone that you aren't who you portray yourself to be.
Even if I never meet anyone from here, I would rather be authentic. |
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"I was recently advised to remove all dick pics as apparently women don't wanna see them
Did you take that advice on board?"
I know you weren't asking me but, that is one of the few bits of advice I've been given about my profile that I have taken on board. |
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"I was recently advised to remove all dick pics as apparently women don't wanna see them
Did you take that advice on board?
I know you weren't asking me but, that is one of the few bits of advice I've been given about my profile that I have taken on board."
And that's what makes you bril, Phil. You listen |
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By *TG3Man 38 weeks ago
Dorchester |
"From my own experience of asking this question, I would say try not to cater your profile too much to what other people think is best. You just end up with a cookie cutter profile which shows very little of who you are.
Be like me, honest and authentic. It won't help you get meets but, it will reduce the risk that if you do meet somebody they will immediately come onto the site and tell everyone that you aren't who you portray yourself to be.
Even if I never meet anyone from here, I would rather be authentic."
when people meet you thats the authentic you, no matter what you write on your profile. Its always prone to misinterpretation. |
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By *oxy jWoman 38 weeks ago
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swinging is a lifestyle for people interested in meeting others whom there is sexual attraction for fun ... its not sex on a plate for everyone who joins it ...
you are in a sea of men with only a pool of women and couples that alone will tell any guy that its not just going to be hard but for many impossible ish....
you dont need advice how can anyone advise they dont know you only you know you or what you want and into your profile should be you not pretend you.... advice gets you a bog standard boring profile like all the others whom have asked ....
the number one thing for guys if you want to get notice is and its been said a million times clubs go to a club see what things are about chat be friendly and if your lucky you may get your foot on the ladder...
sexuak attraction is key for most but by far not the only thing ...
its super super hard for most men some will milk it and get lots of meet some may get a meet here n there most wont get any .... dont belive the veris as there are so many fake women/couples accounts giving out free veris |
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"I was recently advised to remove all dick pics as apparently women don't wanna see them
Did you take that advice on board?
I know you weren't asking me but, that is one of the few bits of advice I've been given about my profile that I have taken on board."
Yeah I reckon I got rid of em all , just a few decent ones with my clothes on |
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"Can be confusing. Some women seem to want to see what you’ve got and others do not. Can’t win!"
If I were a guy I'd have one well taken cock photo in public, or none.
My reasoning is that some women want to see them and some don't, and having one (alongside other pictures) is not an enormous amount of penis for those who don't want to see it. As someone who would prefer not to see it up front, I can understand why guys would have one on show.
"well taken" and "other photos" is important, though. |
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Most women want to meet a person, not just somebody who wants to fuck somebody. Your profile basically says "I'm a man and I want sex". There's nothing about that which is different from several thousand other men here and it won't entice a lot of women.
My advice is to show a bit of personality in your text. Your photos are reasonable but are mostly very similar. Some variety who help I think. |
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"Ladies looking for some advice. How do i make my profile more appealing to maybe get some replies or is it simply my face doesnt do it for you. "
It's not you mate, it's them. There's only 15 ladies in here, and they're well spaced around the country |
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I don't claim to know why people aren't always popular, and having a lot of meets.Sometimes it's their personality.But could be their looks.
Im not attracted to certain people.And they aren't attracted to Me.
Im Marmite |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Thanks everyone for all the advice. Ive tried to change profile up a little. Where would one begin when it comes to parties please. Be nice to meet new people. |
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OP your profile is pretty good. But it doesn’t jump out at me. I can’t get a sense of you from it.
Join in on the forums. Take the piss. Have a laugh. Fab is about making friends and finding your crowd. Then you may just bump into someone you get a proper connection with.
Most of all just enjoy yourself.  |
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"OP your profile is pretty good. But it doesn’t jump out at me. I can’t get a sense of you from it.
Join in on the forums. Take the piss. Have a laugh. Fab is about making friends and finding your crowd. Then you may just bump into someone you get a proper connection with.
Most of all just enjoy yourself. "
LB such wise words, you've changed
Mr |
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"OP your profile is pretty good. But it doesn’t jump out at me. I can’t get a sense of you from it.
Join in on the forums. Take the piss. Have a laugh. Fab is about making friends and finding your crowd. Then you may just bump into someone you get a proper connection with.
Most of all just enjoy yourself.
LB such wise words, you've changed
Mr "
I’m a wise old bird me….
Apart from being mad as a box of frogs. Obvs |
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"OP your profile is pretty good. But it doesn’t jump out at me. I can’t get a sense of you from it.
Join in on the forums. Take the piss. Have a laugh. Fab is about making friends and finding your crowd. Then you may just bump into someone you get a proper connection with.
Most of all just enjoy yourself.
LB such wise words, you've changed
Mr
I’m a wise old bird me….
Apart from being mad as a box of frogs. Obvs "
As mad as Broadmoor you girl |
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