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Don't want someone whose belly hides his winkle but don't want someone whose muscles are so hard I'll break my pelvis.  | |||
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"Being fit is always a good thing" Agreed but rugby players a fitter than most people but have dad bods so I am more on about shape then fitness if that makes sense | |||
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"Could I have someone with a dad bod who visits the gym twice a week. Please, thank you. There's only room in my bed for 1 middle-aged unfit person with wobbly bits and I've got that covered.
Don't want someone whose belly hides his winkle but don't want someone whose muscles are so hard I'll break my pelvis. "That first part made me spit my drink out haha. But that is a great answer x | |||
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"Either are fine if there is a handsome face to go with it. It seems many people appear to choose face first over body "Great so there is no hope for me then haha. Just kidding I would like to think this is the case but yet to be convinced | |||
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"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types. For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks. " That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X | |||
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"Being fit is always a good thing Agreed but rugby players a fitter than most people but have dad bods so I am more on about shape then fitness if that makes sense " I don't say anything about body shape. Sumo wrestlers are some of the fittest people on the planet | |||
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"Being fit is always a good thing Agreed but rugby players a fitter than most people but have dad bods so I am more on about shape then fitness if that makes sense I don't say anything about body shape. Sumo wrestlers are some of the fittest people on the planet "I wouldn't have guessed that. That's actually mental to think and now you say it I can probably see your right to be fair | |||
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"Lot of different body shapes at the gym." I would never make fun of someone trying at the gym no matter their size we all start somewhere and at least they are doing something either getting after a new pr/pb or just trying to get fitter/ lose weight | |||
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I’d say I’m somewhere in between. I have to suck my belly in for pics these days…   | |||
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"Whatever people fancy is all good
I’d say I’m somewhere in between. I have to suck my belly in for pics these days… "Why not just embrace it? | |||
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"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types. For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks. That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X" No and yes. It’s not a linear thing for me. Legs can grab my attention but can’t sustain it alone. I need more than just massive thighs to keep me interested. | |||
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"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types. For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks. That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X No and yes. It’s not a linear thing for me. Legs can grab my attention but can’t sustain it alone. I need more than just massive thighs to keep me interested. " So what you are saying is that you need three decent sized legs? | |||
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"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types. For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks. That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X No and yes. It’s not a linear thing for me. Legs can grab my attention but can’t sustain it alone. I need more than just massive thighs to keep me interested. So what you are saying is that you need three decent sized legs?" No, a cock the size of a leg is never going in me. | |||
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"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types. For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks. That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X No and yes. It’s not a linear thing for me. Legs can grab my attention but can’t sustain it alone. I need more than just massive thighs to keep me interested. So what you are saying is that you need three decent sized legs? No, a cock the size of a leg is never going in me. "*again  | |||
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"Whatever people fancy is all good
I’d say I’m somewhere in between. I have to suck my belly in for pics these days…
Why not just embrace it? "I do accept that with age I’m probably getting naturally less fit and more wobbly but I’d still rather be fitter/healthier than I am. I’m not a fan of embracing excuses or bad habits and I know that any belly on me is basically sweets and crisps which also caused me to be pre diabetic for a spell, so I’d always aspire to be healthy. That’s just my personal outlook  | |||
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"What your thoughts and why? " me i go for personality every day of the week - i have met with gym fit and 'dad' bod of various levels - its the person i want that connection with. my body is real and im not 20 - i have wobby bits and i have lumpy bits, you like it or you dont . if i cant talk to you then i got nothing | |||
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"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types. For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks. That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X No and yes. It’s not a linear thing for me. Legs can grab my attention but can’t sustain it alone. I need more than just massive thighs to keep me interested. So what you are saying is that you need three decent sized legs? No, a cock the size of a leg is never going in me.
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"Whatever people fancy is all good
I’d say I’m somewhere in between. I have to suck my belly in for pics these days…
Why not just embrace it?
I do accept that with age I’m probably getting naturally less fit and more wobbly but I’d still rather be fitter/healthier than I am. I’m not a fan of embracing excuses or bad habits and I know that any belly on me is basically sweets and crisps which also caused me to be pre diabetic for a spell, so I’d always aspire to be healthy. That’s just my personal outlook "And a good outlook to have. I personally used to be very toned etc but over time I have got a bit of a belly and I would love to say it's because of my job bla bla black but it's not it's just laziness on my behalf something that I am currently addressing | |||
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"What your thoughts and why? me i go for personality every day of the week - i have met with gym fit and 'dad' bod of various levels - its the person i want that connection with. my body is real and im not 20 - i have wobby bits and i have lumpy bits, you like it or you dont . if i cant talk to you then i got nothing" Conversation and personality is always a winner I would like to think | |||
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"What your thoughts and why? me i go for personality every day of the week - i have met with gym fit and 'dad' bod of various levels - its the person i want that connection with. my body is real and im not 20 - i have wobby bits and i have lumpy bits, you like it or you dont . if i cant talk to you then i got nothing Conversation and personality is always a winner I would like to think " for me it is - my choice - not speaking for anyone else - if i can flirt, banter and laugh with someone and basics are good then we there | |||
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"What your thoughts and why? me i go for personality every day of the week - i have met with gym fit and 'dad' bod of various levels - its the person i want that connection with. my body is real and im not 20 - i have wobby bits and i have lumpy bits, you like it or you dont . if i cant talk to you then i got nothing Conversation and personality is always a winner I would like to think for me it is - my choice - not speaking for anyone else - if i can flirt, banter and laugh with someone and basics are good then we there" | |||
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"Being fit is always a good thing Agreed but rugby players a fitter than most people but have dad bods so I am more on about shape then fitness if that makes sense " Depends if yr talking about professional or amateur and the level they play at. Many professional players have flat stomachs, 6 packs and nothing wobbles or bulges. They are solid muscle and extremely fit. I wouldn't class these as dad bods. | |||
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"Being fit is always a good thing Agreed but rugby players a fitter than most people but have dad bods so I am more on about shape then fitness if that makes sense Depends if yr talking about professional or amateur and the level they play at. Many professional players have flat stomachs, 6 packs and nothing wobbles or bulges. They are solid muscle and extremely fit. I wouldn't class these as dad bods. " Also appears to be dependent on what code of rugby is being played. I've only ever seen 'dad bod' players in Rugby Union. Rugby League players tend to be more svelte.. | |||
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"No such thing as a dad bod. And fit is good. " It's also very offensive to gym fit dads | |||
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"Could I have someone with a dad bod who visits the gym twice a week. Please, thank you. There's only room in my bed for 1 middle-aged unfit person with wobbly bits and I've got that covered.
Don't want someone whose belly hides his winkle but don't want someone whose muscles are so hard I'll break my pelvis. "Well if I Might do? | |||
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"No such thing as a dad bod. And fit is good. " Whaaaaat?! I am a dad and have a bod(y). Is that not a ‘dad bod’?!?! Dang it! All my hopes and dreams dashed in one sentence  | |||
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"What your thoughts and why? " My thoughts are I love a vending machine, the rowing machine mehhhhh Mr | |||
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"No such thing as a dad bod. And fit is good. It's also very offensive to gym fit dads" It's not a dad bod it's just a "I don't work out body" | |||
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"No such thing as a dad bod. And fit is good. It's also very offensive to gym fit dads It's not a dad bod it's just a "I don't work out body"" To be fair a handful of studies have shown that expectant fathers experience swings in hormones such as prolactin, testosterone and the stress hormone cortisol. It is possible that these hormonal changes could drive some gain in weight but there have been few studies to test this idea | |||
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"No such thing as a dad bod. And fit is good. It's also very offensive to gym fit dads It's not a dad bod it's just a "I don't work out body" To be fair a handful of studies have shown that expectant fathers experience swings in hormones such as prolactin, testosterone and the stress hormone cortisol. It is possible that these hormonal changes could drive some gain in weight but there have been few studies to test this idea" It's bollocks willy | |||
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"No such thing as a dad bod. And fit is good. It's also very offensive to gym fit dads It's not a dad bod it's just a "I don't work out body" To be fair a handful of studies have shown that expectant fathers experience swings in hormones such as prolactin, testosterone and the stress hormone cortisol. It is possible that these hormonal changes could drive some gain in weight but there have been few studies to test this idea It's bollocks willy" Could well be | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time." Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks... Mr | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time." Not every time. Also, where's my 100 men? | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Not every time. Also, where's my 100 men?" Next door Mr | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks... Would dearly love to be be proved wrong and see if anyone can see beyond a few extra pounds. Mr " | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time." Not always. I'm gym fit but a lot of times I hardly get no replies on some days. | |||
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"What your thoughts and why? " Dad boddddd! That's my first impressions physical preference. Why? I'm a tactile person, dad bods to me lend more than way
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks... Mr " Agree with that Mr Mrs | |||
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"No preference either way. My only rule is don’t be a cunt "Best comment by far | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks... Would dearly love to be be proved wrong and see if anyone can see beyond a few extra pounds. Mr " Once as a single man before i met my partner on fab, im a fucking fat bastard and train wreck, guess what I even managed to get meets on fab...... | |||
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"No preference either way. My only rule is don’t be a cunt "• Do not, I repeat, do not trifle with this ^ woman. | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks... Mr Agree with that Mr Mrs" People love to put blame on external things as to why they have no success on fab, instead of looking inward and how they present on here... Mr | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks... You may have a look at my profile-any feedback always gladly received! And actually heeded. In any walk of life feedback suggesting change is always helpful. Mr Agree with that Mr Mrs People love to put blame on external things as to why they have no success on fab, instead of looking inward and how they present on here... Mr " | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time." • Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis? | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. • Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis?" My own experience of women in general-not just on sites but in life too. | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks... You may have a look at my profile-any feedback always gladly received! And actually heeded. In any walk of life feedback suggesting change is always helpful. Mr Agree with that Mr Mrs People love to put blame on external things as to why they have no success on fab, instead of looking inward and how they present on here... Mr " I may look at your profile and then again I may not, what I will say is look at other mens profiles get some inspiration feom there's, there are some great examples of great single mens profiles who use thr forums...... But alas you could have the best profile in the history of profiles, if people don't find us attractive, then we're fucked (not literally)... Mr | |||
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"My thoughts are that these threads are fucking annoying. One isn't any better than the other and it all comes down to personal preference, although those with a preference for Dad bods are more likely to say so as those with a preference for gym fit bodies may not want to appear shallow. I've also noticed that it's never those with a "gym fit" body that start these threads ",, this | |||
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"My thoughts are that these threads are fucking annoying. One isn't any better than the other and it all comes down to personal preference, although those with a preference for Dad bods are more likely to say so as those with a preference for gym fit bodies may not want to appear shallow. I've also noticed that it's never those with a "gym fit" body that start these threads ,, this"Fair enough I am new to the forum side of things so not seen this before. Plus I was gym fit body type and currently trying to get back to it just interested in the questions as it come up in my friendship circle occasionally that's all. But thank you for your input | |||
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"Could I have someone with a dad bod who visits the gym twice a week. Please, thank you. There's only room in my bed for 1 middle-aged unfit person with wobbly bits and I've got that covered.
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks... Mr Agree with that Mr Mrs" ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ i also agree with them both | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks... Mr Agree with that Mr Mrs ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ i also agree with them both" I win fab, got two women to agree with me, that's fab conoleted for me now.... Mr | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks... Mr Agree with that Mr Mrs ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ i also agree with them both I win fab, got two women to agree with me, that's fab conoleted for me now.... Mr "well there's a first for you | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks... Mr Agree with that Mr Mrs ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ i also agree with them both I win fab, got two women to agree with me, that's fab conoleted for me now.... Mr
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. Not every time. Also, where's my 100 men?" They're messaging your inbox with a hey and nothing else
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. • Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis? · My own experience of women in general-not just on sites but in life too." • Well, if I add my own experience of women then it's contrariwise to your viewpoint. | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. • Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis? · My own experience of women in general-not just on sites but in life too. • Well, if I add my own experience of women then it's contrariwise to your viewpoint." Of course it'll be contriwise to his experience it always will be, it's your experience. However, neither are less valid than the other. Mr | |||
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"Dad bod here " Very nice dad bod! Love hairy chest too! Nice to cuddle in to! | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. • Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis? · My own experience of women in general-not just on sites but in life too. • Well, if I add my own experience of women then it's contrariwise to your viewpoint. · Of course it'll be contriwise to his experience it always will be, it's your experience. However, neither are less valid than the other. Mr " • The validity isn't the issue. He's using his viewpoint to make a general sweeping statement, whereas I'm not. | |||
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"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time. • Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis? · My own experience of women in general-not just on sites but in life too. • Well, if I add my own experience of women then it's contrariwise to your viewpoint. · Of course it'll be contriwise to his experience it always will be, it's your experience. However, neither are less valid than the other. Mr • The validity isn't the issue. He's using his viewpoint to make a general sweeping statement, whereas I'm not." You asked him, how he arrived at his conclusion, which is based on his experience, so to him it's very real and a solid basis to make a sweeping statement. If he keeps getting passed by, for as he puts it "gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection" this will leave an impression and a belief system. Mr | |||
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"Dad bod here Very nice dad bod! Love hairy chest too! Nice to cuddle in to! " Why thank you very much | |||
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"Have you got any idea how fit you have to be to carry 21 stone around all day? "A man with my sense of humour. Bravo, sir! | |||
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A few years ago, I used to think that ‘gym fit’ guys would always appeal to ladies ahead of more rotund guys like me, but the reality for me is that it's not the case. I might not have all the gear, but ladies have told me I've got a good idea, and that's good enough for me | |||
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"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types. For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks. " You’ll love mine then! | |||
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"I’m a fat boy. Any love for those bodies?" Clearly fucking not | |||
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"Gym fat is never an option in these threads "It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass! | |||
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"Gym fat is never an option in these threads
It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!"Bulking season bro! | |||
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"Gym fat is never an option in these threads
It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!
Bulking season bro!"The last 5 years have been bulking season | |||
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"Gym fat is never an option in these threads
It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!
Bulking season bro!
The last 5 years have been bulking season "I’ve genuinely only just committed to my first bulk 3 months ago and I’m somehow slimmer than when I started. Strength is through the roof though | |||
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"Gym fat is never an option in these threads
It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!
Bulking season bro!
The last 5 years have been bulking season
I’ve genuinely only just committed to my first bulk 3 months ago and I’m somehow slimmer than when I started. Strength is through the roof though "How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again | |||
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"Gym fat is never an option in these threads
It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!
Bulking season bro!
The last 5 years have been bulking season
I’ve genuinely only just committed to my first bulk 3 months ago and I’m somehow slimmer than when I started. Strength is through the roof though
How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again "No idea. I’ve always been overweight so have avoided bulking but just decided to add about 1000 calories a day to my diet, increased my training intensity and stayed off the scales and just measure by how my clothes feel. | |||
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"How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again
No idea. I’ve always been overweight so have avoided bulking but just decided to add about 1000 calories a day to my diet, increased my training intensity and stayed off the scales and just measure by how my clothes feel."Ahhh I see, I have the opposite problem where I've always been skinny and so putting on any kind of bulk has been a struggle. I'm glad you've found something that works though as that's genuinely great progress | |||
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"Gym fat is never an option in these threads
It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!
Bulking season bro!
The last 5 years have been bulking season
I’ve genuinely only just committed to my first bulk 3 months ago and I’m somehow slimmer than when I started. Strength is through the roof though
How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again
No idea. I’ve always been overweight so have avoided bulking but just decided to add about 1000 calories a day to my diet, increased my training intensity and stayed off the scales and just measure by how my clothes feel."1000 calorie surplus per day is insanity…try 120-130 for a 0.5 lb per week gain you’ll also minimalise any fat gained It’s impossible to not add fat while adding muscle but the impact can be lessened by increasing calories sensibly, it took me 12 years to go from 2000 calories to 4700 calories per day | |||
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"Gym fat is never an option in these threads
It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!
Bulking season bro!
The last 5 years have been bulking season
I’ve genuinely only just committed to my first bulk 3 months ago and I’m somehow slimmer than when I started. Strength is through the roof though
How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again
No idea. I’ve always been overweight so have avoided bulking but just decided to add about 1000 calories a day to my diet, increased my training intensity and stayed off the scales and just measure by how my clothes feel.
1000 calorie surplus per day is insanity…try 120-130 for a 0.5 lb per week gain you’ll also minimalise any fat gained
It’s impossible to not add fat while adding muscle but the impact can be lessened by increasing calories sensibly, it took me 12 years to go from 2000 calories to 4700 calories per day "I should have clarified I was eating well under maintenance before I added 1000 calories. I’m probably 500 over maintenance and haven’t added any fat as far as I can tell. | |||
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"How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again
No idea. I’ve always been overweight so have avoided bulking but just decided to add about 1000 calories a day to my diet, increased my training intensity and stayed off the scales and just measure by how my clothes feel.
Ahhh I see, I have the opposite problem where I've always been skinny and so putting on any kind of bulk has been a struggle. I'm glad you've found something that works though as that's genuinely great progress "I honestly believe putting weight on a naturally slimmer person is a lot harder than losing weight for a naturally bigger one. | |||
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"For me it’s all about connection, if I find your personality attractive then we are all good " I’m surprised you say that after all the countless hours you obviously spend working on your bod. Most people who gym expect the same from what I read in most profiles… “We keep in shape and prefer others that also take care of themselves..” etc. | |||
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"For me it’s all about connection, if I find your personality attractive then we are all good I’m surprised you say that after all the countless hours you obviously spend working on your bod. Most people who gym expect the same from what I read in most profiles… “We keep in shape and prefer others that also take care of themselves..” etc. " No not at all, I take it to an extreme with competing and don’t expect anyone else to, as long as others understand I have to gym then we are all good We are all individuals and I like to connect with someone | |||
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"For me it’s all about connection, if I find your personality attractive then we are all good I’m surprised you say that after all the countless hours you obviously spend working on your bod. Most people who gym expect the same from what I read in most profiles… “We keep in shape and prefer others that also take care of themselves..” etc. " God no…I’ve been on a few dates with gym bunnies and I’d probably chalk them up as some of the worst dates I’ve been on It’s fine to be gym fit but it’s another thing to base your entire personality off of it. | |||
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"For me it’s all about connection, if I find your personality attractive then we are all good I’m surprised you say that after all the countless hours you obviously spend working on your bod. Most people who gym expect the same from what I read in most profiles… “We keep in shape and prefer others that also take care of themselves..” etc. No not at all, I take it to an extreme with competing and don’t expect anyone else to, as long as others understand I have to gym then we are all good We are all individuals and I like to connect with someone " Ah ok, I get. Competitors are a different story. A member of my family ran for Britain at 2 olympics and a commonwealth but none of us do it and she doesn’t even associate with other athletes. I wish you continued success | |||
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"Gym fat is never an option in these threads
It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!
Bulking season bro!
The last 5 years have been bulking season "And now they're telling me I need to "cut" at some point too. FML. | |||
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"For me it’s all about connection, if I find your personality attractive then we are all good I’m surprised you say that after all the countless hours you obviously spend working on your bod. Most people who gym expect the same from what I read in most profiles… “We keep in shape and prefer others that also take care of themselves..” etc. No not at all, I take it to an extreme with competing and don’t expect anyone else to, as long as others understand I have to gym then we are all good We are all individuals and I like to connect with someone " I agree, I would rather have a general laugh and good time then someone just because they exercise | |||
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"What your thoughts and why? " Gym fit. Mr Sensei works hard at the gym and I respect his dedication. Plus he's sexy AF. | |||
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"I could do with cleaning up my diet a bit. I have an awful sweet tooth and I quite literally see it on my love handles. " This is me. 100% me. | |||
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"I could do with cleaning up my diet a bit. I have an awful sweet tooth and I quite literally see it on my love handles. " You have love handles? I’m in disbelief. | |||
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"I have a 6pack bod and I like the fitness lifestyle. I train 3 times a week and I do yoga everyday, with a lot of cardio too "your bod is awesome shag | |||
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"Could I have someone with a dad bod who visits the gym twice a week. Please, thank you. There's only room in my bed for 1 middle-aged unfit person with wobbly bits and I've got that covered.
Don't want someone whose belly hides his winkle but don't want someone whose muscles are so hard I'll break my pelvis. "I was going to say something along the same lines as this, summed up so perfectly x | |||
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"I have a 6pack bod and I like the fitness lifestyle. I train 3 times a week and I do yoga everyday, with a lot of cardio too your bod is awesome shag "Hi amber, ty, it is fun to workout too | |||
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"I have a 6pack bod and I like the fitness lifestyle. I train 3 times a week and I do yoga everyday, with a lot of cardio too your bod is awesome shag Hi amber, ty, it is fun to workout too " | |||
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