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"Just wondering, with so many profiles with endless dick pics from different angles. Is that what men think attracts women to a profile?"
Dunno. Having seen comments on fab I guessed no, but then again, I’ve never met anyone by sending messages. |
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"Just wondering, with so many profiles with endless dick pics from different angles. Is that what men think attracts women to a profile?
Dunno. Having seen comments on fab I guessed no, but then again, I’ve never met anyone by sending messages."
How do you get to know people that you do meet then, through clubs and socials? |
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Through my various incarnations here, I’ve found that my profile text has attracted me to people more than my photos have. My silly ramblings have always seemed to be a conversation starter.
One exception has been when my eyes are on display. It would appear that they’re VERY popular amongst women of Fab. |
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"Just wondering, with so many profiles with endless dick pics from different angles. Is that what men think attracts women to a profile?
Dunno. Having seen comments on fab I guessed no, but then again, I’ve never met anyone by sending messages.
How do you get to know people that you do meet then, through clubs and socials?"
Yep and yep. |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics"
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy. |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy."
I don't think there's enough IMO |
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I think women on here generally find, men that don’t look anything like me attractive. Based on descriptions in threads and celebrity crushes. So I just don’t dwell on it too much. I now post pictures of me that I like not what I think women will like. |
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"I think women on here generally find, men that don’t look anything like me attractive. Based on descriptions in threads and celebrity crushes. So I just don’t dwell on it too much. I now post pictures of me that I like not what I think women will like. "
Probably good idea |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO "
Meh I don’t have a shacket |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO "
I have a coatigan!  |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO
I have a coatigan! "
Wow, I'm not sure I've even seen a coatigan. |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO
I have a coatigan!
Wow, I'm not sure I've even seen a coatigan."
I love it! Even though my dad once asked me why I was going out in my dressing gown. But what does he know  |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO
I have a coatigan!
Wow, I'm not sure I've even seen a coatigan.
I love it! Even though my dad once asked me why I was going out in my dressing gown. But what does he know "
Isn’t that a ‘boyfriend cardigan’
I was confused when I saw the description in shop. |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO
I have a coatigan!
Wow, I'm not sure I've even seen a coatigan.
I love it! Even though my dad once asked me why I was going out in my dressing gown. But what does he know
Isn’t that a ‘boyfriend cardigan’
I was confused when I saw the description in shop."
It is actually called a coatigan. Bit thicker than a cardigan but not quite a coat  |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO
I have a coatigan!
Wow, I'm not sure I've even seen a coatigan.
I love it! Even though my dad once asked me why I was going out in my dressing gown. But what does he know
Isn’t that a ‘boyfriend cardigan’
I was confused when I saw the description in shop.
It is actually called a coatigan. Bit thicker than a cardigan but not quite a coat "
Oooooooh. |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO
I have a coatigan!
Wow, I'm not sure I've even seen a coatigan.
I love it! Even though my dad once asked me why I was going out in my dressing gown. But what does he know
Isn’t that a ‘boyfriend cardigan’
I was confused when I saw the description in shop.
It is actually called a coatigan. Bit thicker than a cardigan but not quite a coat
Oooooooh."
I know! Posh or what! |
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I have no clue reason being ... We're always told "ladies are individuals, therrs no one size fits all etc" so what one lady finds attractive another won't.
I post what I believe makes me look good shows me in the best light, the text is hopefully an indication of my personality after that its up to others to decide
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO
I have a coatigan!
Wow, I'm not sure I've even seen a coatigan.
I love it! Even though my dad once asked me why I was going out in my dressing gown. But what does he know
Isn’t that a ‘boyfriend cardigan’
I was confused when I saw the description in shop.
It is actually called a coatigan. Bit thicker than a cardigan but not quite a coat
Oooooooh.
I know! Posh or what! "
Curiousity is piqued. |
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"Just wondering, with so many profiles with endless dick pics from different angles. Is that what men think attracts women to a profile?"
Obviously most men think that most women are attracted to massive penises, gym sculpted bodies, and "Alpha-male" attitudes.
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By the amount of cock pix’s we get they must assume that’s what I “Jess” wants to see but nothing could be further from the truth
Had one the other day message us and attached two cock pictures, when I looked at the profile there were 42 photos of his cock and yes a couple over the toilet |
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"Just wondering, with so many profiles with endless dick pics from different angles. Is that what men think attracts women to a profile?
Obviously most men think that most women are attracted to massive penises, gym sculpted bodies, and "Alpha-male" attitudes.
Cal"
Most women just settle |
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I find a face pic always goes a long way and leaving a little to the imagination, failing that include a sky remote, a can of deodorant and wear nothing but socks, obviously ensuring there’s as much mess and dirt on your floor as possible  |
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"I find a face pic always goes a long way and leaving a little to the imagination, failing that include a sky remote, a can of deodorant and wear nothing but socks, obviously ensuring there’s as much mess and dirt on your floor as possible "
You are so true but you forgot about the dirty pants around their knees  |
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"I think women on here generally find, men that don’t look anything like me attractive. Based on descriptions in threads and celebrity crushes. So I just don’t dwell on it too much. I now post pictures of me that I like not what I think women will like. "
What do you mean by people who look like you? |
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"I think women on here generally find, men that don’t look anything like me attractive. Based on descriptions in threads and celebrity crushes. So I just don’t dwell on it too much. I now post pictures of me that I like not what I think women will like.
What do you mean by people who look like you?"
Short fat black guys
Which is ok. I know I’m still 9/10 in other spaces. |
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"I find a face pic always goes a long way and leaving a little to the imagination, failing that include a sky remote, a can of deodorant and wear nothing but socks, obviously ensuring there’s as much mess and dirt on your floor as possible
You are so true but you forgot about the dirty pants around their knees "
My bad, preferably white turned grey which show up any stains even better |
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"A quiet confidence.
Shoulders?
EQ over 10?"
Shoulders mentioned again, I'm not even sure I've intentionally looked at a guys shoulders before, I'm not sure what makes a good shoulder or not. I will pay more attention. |
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By *elloWoman 35 weeks ago
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"A quiet confidence.
Shoulders?
EQ over 10?
Shoulders mentioned again, I'm not even sure I've intentionally looked at a guys shoulders before, I'm not sure what makes a good shoulder or not. I will pay more attention."
Shoulder pictures are good, got to know if they're sturdy enough to hang onto  |
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"Just wondering, with so many profiles with endless dick pics from different angles. Is that what men think attracts women to a profile?"
There are a lot of men who are incapable of self assessment, self criticism. This is evidenced by them having multiple cock pics on their profile, little to no text on their bio and then being totally bamboozled as to why they cannot get anywhere.
I don't think they think that's what attracts women to their profiles, I think it's more the case that they haven't a clue where to start. |
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"I think women on here generally find, men that don’t look anything like me attractive. Based on descriptions in threads and celebrity crushes. So I just don’t dwell on it too much. I now post pictures of me that I like not what I think women will like.
What do you mean by people who look like you?
Short fat black guys
Which is ok. I know I’m still 9/10 in other spaces. "
Ugh ice cube? |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO
Meh I don’t have a shacket"
This is where you're going wrong, Ragnar |
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"I think women on here generally find, men that don’t look anything like me attractive. Based on descriptions in threads and celebrity crushes. So I just don’t dwell on it too much. I now post pictures of me that I like not what I think women will like.
What do you mean by people who look like you?
Short fat black guys
Which is ok. I know I’m still 9/10 in other spaces.
Ugh ice cube?"
Fatman Scoop never struggled either. Maybe upload a pic with a $50 bill |
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I think women put more emphasis on personality than physical appearance, which is great for me cos I’m an ugly fucker, Oh, wait, I don’t have much of a personality either, shit, I knew there was a flaw in my plan somewhere. |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO
Meh I don’t have a shacket
This is where you're going wrong, Ragnar"
Don’t I know it. I’ll search hipster shacket later |
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By *ister_EMan 35 weeks ago
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In no particular order the science says, Facial asymmetry, physique, pheromones, body language, behavior, tone of voice, humor, confidence, and mannerisms.
Most of those are subject to individual bias and perception so rather than worrying about it I just try to be myself and open and friendly.
If she finds me attractive I'll be receptive, but there's no point trying to be something or someone I'm not to try attract a woman. |
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"I believe women like to be teased. Leave something for the mind to run away with. Maybe to odd cheeky jacket/shacket
But then I look at hot pics
Are there many jackets/shackets in hot pics? I don't know I don't look. Your jacket does look comfy.
I don't think there's enough IMO
Meh I don’t have a shacket
This is where you're going wrong, Ragnar
Don’t I know it. I’ll search hipster shacket later "
I'll send you the link |
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"I think women on here generally find, men that don’t look anything like me attractive. Based on descriptions in threads and celebrity crushes. So I just don’t dwell on it too much. I now post pictures of me that I like not what I think women will like.
What do you mean by people who look like you?
Short fat black guys
Which is ok. I know I’m still 9/10 in other spaces.
Ugh ice cube?"
I do like him. I’ll go with it |
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"Just wondering, with so many profiles with endless dick pics from different angles. Is that what men think attracts women to a profile?
There are a lot of men who are incapable of self assessment, self criticism. This is evidenced by them having multiple cock pics on their profile, little to no text on their bio and then being totally bamboozled as to why they cannot get anywhere.
I don't think they think that's what attracts women to their profiles, I think it's more the case that they haven't a clue where to start."
That never occured to me, I just assumed that they were extremely proud of their penis |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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I am not attracted to a body at all.
How you conduct your behaviour
How you hold a conversation without it feeling false,pushy,non egostatsticial and more about wanting to know me.
Does anyone here really find it hard? Is it a natural progression on here. I believe so.
I like listening to others comments.Agree or disagree but no conflict |
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By *eliWoman 35 weeks ago
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I think men when uploading cock pics aren't really thinking about what women would like to see but what they like. Want to show. What feels right for them on a sex site.
I like a person's mind. My current celebrity crushes are a fictional character from a crime show because the depiction of his mind has me feral. And Neil Gaiman who can have me stuttering over literature and folding in a way no one else has when I've met them.
It's not about the physical appearance. My physical taste is varied. |
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"I think women on here generally find, men that don’t look anything like me attractive. Based on descriptions in threads and celebrity crushes. So I just don’t dwell on it too much. I now post pictures of me that I like not what I think women will like.
What do you mean by people who look like you?
Short fat black guys
Which is ok. I know I’m still 9/10 in other spaces.
Ugh ice cube?
I do like him. I’ll go with it"
He's a sexy, short, chubby, black guy *shrug*
Size, colour, height, has no bearing on who I will find attractive or crush on.
If I was to write a list of everyone I've found hot it would be a very mixed bag of all the above. |
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"A quiet confidence.
Shoulders?
EQ over 10?
Shoulders mentioned again, I'm not even sure I've intentionally looked at a guys shoulders before, I'm not sure what makes a good shoulder or not. I will pay more attention."
I sincerely thought that was a thing.  |
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"A quiet confidence.
Shoulders?
EQ over 10?
Shoulders mentioned again, I'm not even sure I've intentionally looked at a guys shoulders before, I'm not sure what makes a good shoulder or not. I will pay more attention.
I sincerely thought that was a thing. "
Hey, it probably is a thing, I will pay more attention to shoulders from now on. I'm looking at shoulders right now. I think I may be immune to the shoulder thing |
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