"As a straight man surely you'd only be interested in one half regardless?
Depends Faerie.
I’ve some ideas beyond that sort of gratification sometimes. In a way… lol."
Well, if you're instigating conversation with a couples profile and asking how to immediately exclude one half in the opening messages, maybe just stick to singles. |
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"As a straight man surely you'd only be interested in one half regardless?
Depends Faerie.
I’ve some ideas beyond that sort of gratification sometimes. In a way… lol.
Well, if you're instigating conversation with a couples profile and asking how to immediately exclude one half in the opening messages, maybe just stick to singles."
I expressed it badly, it’s not my point. I mean you develop a dialogue often with only one half by chance. Someone above kinda gave me answer. ( I dislike ‘exclusive’.). |
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I sometimes end up talking to couples and become aware that he or she is doing 99% of the messaging. When that's the case, I talk to the person I'm talking to, but I'm always mindful that the other half might or will know what's going on. (Not like I'm trying to hide anything, more - I assume they're still part of the conversation even though they rarely show up in the conversation) |
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By *bi HaiveMan 40 weeks ago
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If one half of a couple isn't keen on you it's usually game over.
They're a couple. They're not (generally) gonna take one for the team.
You either suit both or you don't. Never push it.
Accept it and move on. |
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"I sometimes end up talking to couples and become aware that he or she is doing 99% of the messaging. When that's the case, I talk to the person I'm talking to, but I'm always mindful that the other half might or will know what's going on. (Not like I'm trying to hide anything, more - I assume they're still part of the conversation even though they rarely show up in the conversation)"
I n think what Peter and Jane said above covers it really. My intent was to work out how not to be divisive .. all good responses thanks |
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