"Would swop swinging
To be with. Someone just one who gave everything in out of the bedroom ."
Definitely not.
I am not egotistical enough to believe I am able to deliver everything to my partner, nor for them to me. Nor do I want to be in that position either because that's not a healthy place to be for the giver or the receiver.
The best solution I have found is to recognise where the gaps are and address them accordingly, giving each other full autonomy to pursue them own desires. |
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"Would swop swinging
To be with. Someone just one who gave everything in out of the bedroom .
Definitely not.
I am not egotistical enough to believe I am able to deliver everything to my partner, nor for them to me. Nor do I want to be in that position either because that's not a healthy place to be for the giver or the receiver.
The best solution I have found is to recognise where the gaps are and address them accordingly, giving each other full autonomy to pursue them own desires."
Very interesting. Thank you
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"Would swop swinging
To be with. Someone just one who gave everything in out of the bedroom ."
I did stop when I met my last long term partner. I thought she gave me everything I needed until I found out I wasn’t the only one she was giving it to…. |
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"Would swop swinging
To be with. Someone just one who gave everything in out of the bedroom .
I did stop when I met my last long term partner. I thought she gave me everything I needed until I found out I wasn’t the only one she was giving it to…."
Also interesting but I'm confident
In myself and my love that would. Never happen . |
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"Would swop swinging
To be with. Someone just one who gave everything in out of the bedroom ."
I was with my ex for 27 yrs. one to one was my thing, and I loved everything about it. If I could have a tiny glimpse of the feeling of wanting to share those intimate moments with someone again… of course I would. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Swap very occasional very average start-up sex with strangers, mostly with people who are doing it for the wrong reasons and mentally volatile, swap that for a perfect loving relationship with all boxes ticked? No brainer really  |
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"Would swop swinging
To be with. Someone just one who gave everything in out of the bedroom .
I was with my ex for 27 yrs. one to one was my thing, and I loved everything about it. If I could have a tiny glimpse of the feeling of wanting to share those intimate moments with someone again… of course I would. "
Its possible even when you've totally give up an Angel appears
It happen to me . |
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