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By *rUKsc OP Man 29 weeks ago
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So I’ve had my account for years now, I’ve met a few people on here but I’ve just never gotten into the swingers lifestyle properly. I think it’s because in my mind I need a partner to experience it properly?
Anyways I’ve never been to a club and I know of a few that are somewhat local to me. I’m a shy guy and I don’t drink. Should I go to one? What’s it like? What’s the process etc? Who can help me out here lol |
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I (Luke) used to go to clubs as a single man. It took a bit of nerve and I was definitely out of my comfort zone. I just went up to people and said hello and chatted. I made it clear that if they wanted me not around then I was happy to leave them in peace. After a while I found a lovely couple in the jacuzzi who I had a good natter with. Another couple came along and joined in the conversation. We barely talked about sex. It was really nice and from then on I knew four regulars at the club.
I think if you can't make conversation you are going to find it difficult. You're not likely to get any action without chatting. If you can bite the bullet and just give it a go to be a nice, friendly, personable guy, you could end up having a good time. |
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If you want to stay the same forever, keep doing the same thing. If you want to change and will make some effort, then visit a club that's affordable and treat it like being at a workingmen's club or party. We're social animals and can adapt when we want to |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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I don’t know what makes a club better for you.
But I’ve been alone, and I’ve now been with someone. I can tell you I found it better with someone.
Maybe is the club that helped? Because between the first one I went to, and the last one. I found the people in the last one a lot more friendlier. The club itself was very attractive too, it just felt comfortable.
I’m going back to your original point op, you definitely find proper swingers who are very openly sexual to be in a club, or at least that was my opinion. I think people on Fab, or in other hook up apps will only get you so far talking to people who want sex,…., Eventually. |
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"So I’ve had my account for years now, I’ve met a few people on here but I’ve just never gotten into the swingers lifestyle properly. I think it’s because in my mind I need a partner to experience it properly?
Anyways I’ve never been to a club and I know of a few that are somewhat local to me. I’m a shy guy and I don’t drink. Should I go to one? What’s it like? What’s the process etc? Who can help me out here lol"
Clubs aren't really for shy people unfortunately unless you get a forward couple or female which i guess I've had in my time but generally you have to chat to people to get play  |
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