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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"no all ive heard sorry, in the forum on the chats, just people planning to see eeach other !
im so lost x"
Sometimes, and I mean sometimes, people will hook up because of getting to know each other on the forums. It is not the best way to get meets though. |
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Without getting into the whole who is a swinger and who isn't debate, you need to assess whether your profile is engaging the people you want it to. I'd hazard a guess and say No, it's not.
Have a re-think of your profile, gain some patience, and basically treat the site as a giggle, not the be all and end all of getting laid. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Welcome, have fun... Join in the banter, send well crafted messages selling yourself to people whose profiles attract you...
All the best  "
View! Can you not for once come off the bloody fence and tell these young single blokes the reality! Rather than the fairytale?
We hope them all well, but there are harsh realities!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was gonna be sarcastic for a minute and then stopped myself with a somewhat contraversial thought !
Rather than ripping this lad apart and rather than taking the piss, shall we offer him the benefit of our experiences and expectations ?
Maybe make him feel welcome rather than alienating him ?
OP you have A LOT to learn about the site, its members and how to present and conduct yourself on here.
Have a browse through some of the historical forum posts and digest what is in there.
Seriously, you are gonna go backwards rather than forwards with 'offers' like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger."
 So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was gonna be sarcastic for a minute and then stopped myself with a somewhat contraversial thought !
Rather than ripping this lad apart and rather than taking the piss, shall we offer him the benefit of our experiences and expectations ?
Maybe make him feel welcome rather than alienating him ?
OP you have A LOT to learn about the site, its members and how to present and conduct yourself on here.
Have a browse through some of the historical forum posts and digest what is in there.
Seriously, you are gonna go backwards rather than forwards with 'offers' like this."
Good advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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profile def needs re-wording.
and u only been here a week..once u have started chatting to someone do it regular as that way prob get more luck.
but peeps here for all kinds of meets also or to meet at clubs..socialise etc
be patient as all things take time  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"And manage your expectations... It is harder than many lads think "
this.......
what you'll find is just because people here have an interest in sex, it doesn't mean they will have sex with just anyone..... you'll tend to find we are a picky bunch....
rome wasn't built in a day.... time, patience and some basic common sense will go a long way...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was gonna be sarcastic for a minute and then stopped myself with a somewhat contraversial thought !
Rather than ripping this lad apart and rather than taking the piss, shall we offer him the benefit of our experiences and expectations ?
Maybe make him feel welcome rather than alienating him ?
OP you have A LOT to learn about the site, its members and how to present and conduct yourself on here.
Have a browse through some of the historical forum posts and digest what is in there.
Seriously, you are gonna go backwards rather than forwards with 'offers' like this."
absolutely right....its really easy to take the piss,,,,but battle at it...there are alot of nice people on here ..not just the saddoes that take he michael |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was gonna be sarcastic for a minute and then stopped myself with a somewhat contraversial thought !
Rather than ripping this lad apart and rather than taking the piss, shall we offer him the benefit of our experiences and expectations ?
Maybe make him feel welcome rather than alienating him ?
OP you have A LOT to learn about the site, its members and how to present and conduct yourself on here.
Have a browse through some of the historical forum posts and digest what is in there.
Seriously, you are gonna go backwards rather than forwards with 'offers' like this.
Good advice "
Agreed - especially the bit about browsing through the recent forum posts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol."
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate."
Why bring it up then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate.
Why bring it up then? "
Because i wanted to correct him |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I was gonna be sarcastic for a minute and then stopped myself with a somewhat contraversial thought !
Rather than ripping this lad apart and rather than taking the piss, shall we offer him the benefit of our experiences and expectations ?
Maybe make him feel welcome rather than alienating him ?
OP you have A LOT to learn about the site, its members and how to present and conduct yourself on here.
Have a browse through some of the historical forum posts and digest what is in there.
Seriously, you are gonna go backwards rather than forwards with 'offers' like this."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate.
Why bring it up then?
Because i wanted to correct him "
Couldn't you have just offered him some of your expert advice instead! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate.
Why bring it up then?
Because i wanted to correct him
Couldn't you have just offered him some of your expert advice instead! "
Could have done, but cant let everyone else have all my secrets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate."
how bloody old was you when you joined? you was on here for 3 years as a single female and you've had a couples profile for over a years and your only 21  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate.
how bloody old was you when you joined? you was on here for 3 years as a single female and you've had a couples profile for over a years and your only 21 "
I was 18 when i joined, when we became a couple admin changed the profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"
Women are in charge here mate - as Tiger Woods said to Rory Mcillroy recently 'you'll learn'
In the mean time - relax, get to know people and have fun |
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate.
Why bring it up then?
Because i wanted to correct him "
but who said your correct |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a young single male you as well as I are ten a penny.
Think about it you have to make yourself stand out from the (big) crowd.
The forums can be a useful tool for this, I have never had so much interaction with other users since I've started using these.
This is certainly not a dig but if you're expecting people to want to meet at the drop of a hat just because its a swinging site then you're in for a surprise. This site and your fellow fabsters can be a lot of fun so embrace it!
All the best |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate.
Why bring it up then?
Because i wanted to correct him
Couldn't you have just offered him some of your expert advice instead!
Could have done, but cant let everyone else have all my secrets "
True, the site would probably get over-run with under agers if you did! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate.
Why bring it up then?
Because i wanted to correct him
Couldn't you have just offered him some of your expert advice instead!
Could have done, but cant let everyone else have all my secrets
True, the site would probably get over-run with under agers if you did! "
Exactly, then we'd win the war on boring old scots |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate.
Why bring it up then?
Because i wanted to correct him
Couldn't you have just offered him some of your expert advice instead!
Could have done, but cant let everyone else have all my secrets
True, the site would probably get over-run with under agers if you did!
Exactly, then we'd win the war on boring old scots "
Lol. My name isn't scot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate.
Why bring it up then?
Because i wanted to correct him
Couldn't you have just offered him some of your expert advice instead!
Could have done, but cant let everyone else have all my secrets
True, the site would probably get over-run with under agers if you did!
Exactly, then we'd win the war on boring old scots
Lol. My name isn't scot! "
Apologies, sent too quickly, need to proof read!!! |
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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago
newcastle upon tyne |
I enjoy the forums as much as the Actual sex and flirting side to the site....
Many different opinions and very intelligent people(well mostly).
But just be patient, and get a feel of the site and get a rapport going |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"
Fairplay mate- you are a chancer, and certainly cheeky , stay at it long enough and I am sure you will go a long way "As a Swinger" ;p
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welcome, have fun... Join in the banter, send well crafted messages selling yourself to people whose profiles attract you...
All the best "
Nicely said mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Fairplay mate- you are a chancer, and certainly cheeky , stay at it long enough and I am sure you will go a long way "As a Swinger" ;p
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i don't think he is a chancer, i just think he hasn't got a clue
i don't mean that in a disrespectful way
you have to remember when a good deal of us were his age, the internet was just a pipe dream and we didn't have any option but to meet conventionally
the ease of access to the internet and sites like this open up a whole new world to a group who are often ill equipped in terms of experience and vastly optimistic in terms of expectations.
by the time the rise of sites such as this became evident, a good deal of users had acquired the life skills and communication skills necessary to make it an easier ride than this lad is gonna have.
at least he has had the balls (or naivety) to post something here rather than just bombarding the ladies of the north east with 'come n get me messages' (altho i dare say there have been a few of them too ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no all ive heard sorry, in the forum on the chats, just people planning to see eeach other !
im so lost x"
Just remember it's not all about sex.. a lot of us on here enjoy the social interaction before, during and after meets..all be it in the forums, chat, or via alternative means of communication..
Not judging you in anyway or form.. just be patience and don't be pushy.. engage in all the site has to offer and enjoy.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell the truth Ladies, a 20 year old young stallion like him, you must be tempted.......
Seriously though, if your this "lost" in finding a meet, and your expectations so high, how lost are you going to be in making a good impression when you do get one, its not just a simple case of WHAM BAM THANKYOU MAM, people like to have the sexy banter that leads hot wet smiling kisses and we all know were they lead.....so my advice is simple, enjoy the sexy banter with others you seek and build on that sexy rapport for a while before making a meet of it. Maybe then your first meet will be good sexy social fun, and if you do get to fuck, a Bonus....... |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"
lol we have all there lower the expectations my friend to somewhere around zero meets for several months if any meets at all and u are there. welcome "who wants to be my first meet as a swinger",
lol if only it was that easy bless  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Single bloke, unless youve got a girlfriend whos joining you on this "meet"-you arent a swinger.
So, single guys/fems aren't swingers then? Is that why your looking for 'single bi fems'? Lol.
And couples. If youre going to quote our profile at least do it right.
And no, i dont believe single guys and single fems are swingers, but that doesnt mean ive got anything against them, does it?
I was a single fem for three years on fab and i was a single, looking for sex, not a swinger.
Thats a whole other debate."
Oh, would love to have the 'What is a Swinger?' debate with you at some point.......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New on here - 20 years old !
open to suggestions, more local the better!
who wants to be my first meet as a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Fairplay mate- you are a chancer, and certainly cheeky , stay at it long enough and I am sure you will go a long way "As a Swinger" ;p
i don't think he is a chancer, i just think he hasn't got a clue
i don't mean that in a disrespectful way
you have to remember when a good deal of us were his age, the internet was just a pipe dream and we didn't have any option but to meet conventionally
the ease of access to the internet and sites like this open up a whole new world to a group who are often ill equipped in terms of experience and vastly optimistic in terms of expectations.
by the time the rise of sites such as this became evident, a good deal of users had acquired the life skills and communication skills necessary to make it an easier ride than this lad is gonna have.
at least he has had the balls (or naivety) to post something here rather than just bombarding the ladies of the north east with 'come n get me messages' (altho i dare say there have been a few of them too )"
Well said Bussy. Pity a few more people don't cast their minds back to when they started out in this little world of ours... |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
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My three golden rules
Triple H
Honesty
Humour
Hung like a horse*
If you can display these you ( _iew will like the latter ,,!!) you'll do okay
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.* the latter isn't important at all,, the other two are,,!! Have fun,, |
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swing·er (swngr)
n.
1. One that swings: a good swinger of baseball bats.
2. Slang
a. A person who actively seeks excitement and moves with the latest trends.
b. A person who engages freely in promiscuous sex.
c. A member of a couple, especially a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners.
Here's the definition of swinger as its used today for any that are confused.
Good advice for you here OP from most. Browse profiles, send messages, be polite. Have a decent profile and pics, be patient, don't get down about people not replying. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look at the bigger picture, get to know who you want to meet, build a raport.
Put in the effort and leg work and you will reap what you sow!!
Good luck and look forward to the fun that's on offer here and you will in time be part of  |
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By *kid1Man
over a year ago
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"swing·er (swngr)
n.
1. One that swings: a good swinger of baseball bats.
2. Slang
a. A person who actively seeks excitement and moves with the latest trends.
b. A person who engages freely in promiscuous sex.
c. A member of a couple, especially a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners.
Here's the definition of swinger as its used today for any that are confused.
Good advice for you here OP from most. Browse profiles, send messages, be polite. Have a decent profile and pics, be patient, don't get down about people not replying. X "
What a wonderfully crafted and honest reply.
:- 
I agree with everything you said.
Only thing is I'm shot with a baseball bat.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read so many of these good advice threads so I'm throwing my worldly wide advice on top. As everyone knows I'm always right so listen up me laddieo.
DO NOT sell yourself. You're not some sort of man whore. "There's 1000s of men all competing for limited couples/singles" there's thousands of bellends competing. DON'T compete. Be yourself. Have fun. Don't try and be one of the desperado crowd "selling themselves" if your honest, genuine and not taking it all to seriously then you'll be ok. If people don't like you, who cares. Bollocks to them. Plenty of others will. Good luck and sailing x |
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