As a long time member and short time participant...
I'd say those people who engage in the forum are people who Id be happy to chat with, granted, not every chat will lead to something but it's pretty easy to tell those who are here for a speedy wank...and those who are genuine...
And when you like someone...it's easy to get lost in the inbox...
I'm sure its been tried\failed before....but is there any traction in a 'safe phrase' in the subject to help the opposite party know if you are someone whos engaged in the community or just after a short shifty ham shank?
...here's looking at you Mr 'sheffield' forum posts.
Right...back in my box... |
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"I guess if you message directly from a thread the thread title is the message subject. That’s a good indicator?"
You sir...know this site much better than me...also...I didnt even realise you could direct message from a post...
I'll..just get back in my corner. |
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"I guess if you message directly from a thread the thread title is the message subject. That’s a good indicator?"
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Agreed.
However it also depends on the thread. You're not going to get much traction if you message directly from a "Rate My Cock" thread. The recipient will probably purge that one straightaway. |
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By *eliWoman 23 weeks ago
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The easiest way would be if it was a thread that says to private message people. Even then you're not guaranteed a reply though. It's best if you're part of the thread as well.
I'd avoid private messaging people off the back of threads where the topic is sex related unless you've already spoken before. |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 23 weeks ago
East Northamptonshire |
I find my inbox quite depressing, and that’s with filters, I think it’s why I spend so much time in the forums, I can have a laugh & banter with folk, but once it goes to my inbox, it gets lost |
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By *exyEggsCouple 23 weeks ago
North East Scotland, mostly |
Re. keep it on the thread... I have posted this before, usually when someone uses my post to dm me about something sexual, and if we haven't engaged in the forums before. If it's someone I have spoken to on here, I don't mind the dm. There's not a hard and fast rule.
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"Keep it to the forums …
^has any GUY. ever needed to say this? 
No one needs to say it.
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I never say it , never have. I think it's worse behaviour than the message in the first place.
Just message them privately , ignore totally or block.
In reality very few would get a kick out of shaming or outing someone who spoke to them privately in front of everyone present.
A needless and hateful little 'law' that sprang from nowhere. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 23 weeks ago
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"Whoever pissed in everyone’s cornflakes this morning is a real villain.
That was piss?!  You told me it was love juice  "
Cornflakes don't turn the milk yellow like coco pops turn it brown....... |
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If more than one person sent me a sexual message after from a thread I'd commented on I might say replies on the thread please.
They usually get ignored anyway, or told to respond on the thread, if I don't want to be dragged into a sex chat or they want to meet me.
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