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What are your thoughts on race play?
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By *oxesMan 30 weeks ago
Southend, Essex |
This could mean three things.
1) a person who is attracted to another race
2) what the former Formula 1 boss was into allegedly.
3) a. Couple or individual who v like seeing themselves or partner with someone from another sex.
Number 2 I find probkematic while number 3 I'm not sure about. |
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Hate it, makes me really angry. It just perpetuates stereotypes and reinforces racism. This site is all about fun and seeking simple sexual pleasures in an open minded manner. The colour of a persons skin is totally irrelevant to that purpose, those that would like to introduce it as some form of play deserve no meets or mates, rant over! |
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By *oxesMan 30 weeks ago
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"Hate it, makes me really angry. It just perpetuates stereotypes and reinforces racism. This site is all about fun and seeking simple sexual pleasures in an open minded manner. The colour of a persons skin is totally irrelevant to that purpose, those that would like to introduce it as some form of play deserve no meets or mates, rant over!"
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"A form of sexual roleplay in which the players act out racially charged situations
Like the Los Angeles riots of 1992?"
I think the scenarios are actually way worse. Can involve use of slurs. It’s pretty mad |
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By *alcon77Man 30 weeks ago
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"I'm half hawaiian half singaporean and I hate running
I'm half Scottish and half Jamaican and I'm unable to walk.  "
I'd like to be half Scottish/ half Jamaican. I posted this on an ancestry discussion thread. |
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Probably not the opinion lots of people want to read on this thread, but the OP, a black man, posts a serious and genuine question about Race Play, then gets a load of silly responses about 'running' and the like, mostly from white people. This is not cool imo.
Here's how the urban dictionary defines race play:
a form of role play used by 2 consenting adults that incorporates racist, hurtful, & derogatory terms and comments regarding the others race, to fulfill and reach sexual pleasure.
OP - I think it's extremely questionable for people to indulge in race play (particularly white people towards black people, brown people or people from different ethnic backgrounds) given our history of colonialism and racism, or for black men to be reduced (no pun intended) to tired clichés such as 'BBC only' when it's written on people's profiles as their preference. Wikipedia has some more info on concerns around this type of language here:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/BBC_(sexual_slang)
For me in 2024,there's much better ways to express our desires that aren't loaded with the weight of history, prejudice and racism. |
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Whatever two consenting adults do behind their bedroom curtains that’s up to them.
It’s never been something I’ve really heard about before or fancy trying myself. But I do know about humiliation play (as that does turn me on) and if it’s part of those peoples dynamic, then I’m not one to judge. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Probably not the opinion lots of people want to read on this thread, but the OP, a black man, posts a serious and genuine question about Race Play, then gets a load of silly responses about 'running' and the like, mostly from white people. This is not cool imo.
Here's how the urban dictionary defines race play:
a form of role play used by 2 consenting adults that incorporates racist, hurtful, & derogatory terms and comments regarding the others race, to fulfill and reach sexual pleasure.
OP - I think it's extremely questionable for people to indulge in race play (particularly white people towards black people, brown people or people from different ethnic backgrounds) given our history of colonialism and racism, or for black men to be reduced (no pun intended) to tired clichés such as 'BBC only' when it's written on people's profiles as their preference. Wikipedia has some more info on concerns around this type of language here:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/BBC_(sexual_slang)
For me in 2024,there's much better ways to express our desires that aren't loaded with the weight of history, prejudice and racism. "
I’m with this comment. |
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But on a serious note to answer the OP, my privilege means that I don’t understand why someone would want to indulge in such a fantasy or scene that purposefully degrades your own race or heritage. I also don’t understand why they would want to sexualise their race such as the obvious BBC label, etc, in a time where we are struggling to find equality for everyone and be more inclusive. Labels should only be used to help you find comfort in your own identity and not to pigeonhole yourself into a specific box. |
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