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Do you actually meet new people?
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It just occurred to me that we haven’t met anyone new from fab for a very long time!
We do have some irons in fires currently but it’s definitely been a while…
I think we’ve just gotten comfortable, lazy maybe.
Do you tend to find people that work in your dynamic and kinda stick to that?
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We're not ashamed to say that we didn't meet newbies , we thought that we are not there to hold there hand
But that has definitely changed over time
We realised that everyone was new once
Someone took a chance on us , so now it's our turn to help people to get a start in this lifestyle |
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"We're not ashamed to say that we didn't meet newbies , we thought that we are not there to hold there hand
But that has definitely changed over time
We realised that everyone was new once
Someone took a chance on us , so now it's our turn to help people to get a start in this lifestyle "
That wasn’t quite what I was aiming at but it’s a valid response.
If a newbie had everything we liked and we were sure they were legitimate then being new to the site wouldn’t put us off.
I actually meant new people to know, that we haven’t met before.
It’s all good though, thank you for sharing  |
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I haven't met anyone new in 4 years for various reasons including health and circumstance as well as suffering from cantbearseditis.
On this profile and my couples profile, real life has just been too raw and too real so meeting new people is very low on my list of priorities. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I can’t comment on my experience of Fab because I don’t have any prior experience but I’d say that I’ve definitely changed post COVID.
I used to be more social and would make more of an effort but I think the lockdown really created a strong comfort zone that I haven’t quite broken out of. I haven’t been on a single night out with friends post covid and the thought of it actually makes me quite anxious.
Apart from work and the gym I’ve stopped socialising and meeting new people.
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I know what you mean. I met someone, we got on great and I just stopped looking for anyone else for a while.
I guess it was a case of, I know i’m going to have a good time with that person, so what’s the point. It was easy to arrange things and there’s was no initial awkwardness to get over. I think I got comfortable too.
I haven’t met anyone new in a while. When you find someone like that it’s difficult to find that again with someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I met a new person solo in December, but nobody since.
Tbh we hardly even meet people we do know! Life has been tricky and it's the last thing on our minds right now. Also, familiar faces are comforting. You know you'll have a nice evening for sure, and meeting someone new always has the risk of being not so good.
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Well, I'm heading to a ladies only social just to say hi this wk end.
We are having a wee jolly down the road in June so I can meet someone I have been wanting to have drinks and chatter with for ages.
There is another person I am hoping to arrange a little jolly to meet cos I just think they are lovely and awesome.
There are 2 others I am hoping to build up the courage to see if they want to maybe go for drinks or something. Probably need to reach out if one of them wants to even chatter first. Baby steps.
So not exactly swinging as such but it is being social with like minded people. Its a start to making more effort.
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By *eliWoman 37 weeks ago
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Hello associate, I'm less of a dick now. 
I think part of it is down to being comfortable.
I do find that I tend to find a few people and stick to them. I think that's because I really enjoy the intimacy and connection that comes from a more established dynamic. That trust, that ease and comfort, knowing someone's body and how they respond. It's also about not always having headspace for more dynamics.
As a tangent I've started to saying yes to meeting new people this year. They might become those I'm more comfortable with, have a dynamic with. I won't know unless I've given it a go. Hopeful though. |
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i have organised a few group socials which were fun and a great success
i do try to meet people, met someone a few weeks back - but I find it tricky and people are so unreliable they arrange to meet and then cancel - if you dont want to meet dont organise stuff. Was chatting with someone earlier and they were having the same issues, last minute cancellations - or ghosting one they organise something.
I love meeting people - just get a bit disillusioned at times with time wasters and dreamers. |
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"It just occurred to me that we haven’t met anyone new from fab for a very long time!
We do have some irons in fires currently but it’s definitely been a while…
I think we’ve just gotten comfortable, lazy maybe.
Do you tend to find people that work in your dynamic and kinda stick to that?
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I've actually found it difficult to find people for repeated meets, just seem to end up with one offs. Would love to have a few semi regulars but doesn't look like that will be the case |
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By *eannaTV/TS 37 weeks ago
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About 6 months prior to COVID I had a heart attack and so I was off work for the same time then COVID and since then I've been working from home, so prior to all this I was quiet outgoing and met many people and now I've become withdrawn so I don't meet many people now but that doesn't stop me from talking to them on here unfortunately as someone else said there seems to be a awful lot of time wasters, the conversation may be promising and even exciting but when it comes down to it nothing transpires.
But to answer your question I'm always interested in meeting new people of course when time permits  |
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It's probably different for couples than single profiles.
For couples you've got to find someone or two that appeals to both of you and fits in with what you're looking for. The longer you're here the easier it is to stick with people you've already met and know it works. Time is limited.
With singles it's easier to be more open to meeting new people IMO. |
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By *edeWoman 37 weeks ago
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I don't meet anyone ever! I'm a crazy hermit lady but if someone wants to tempt me out for cake and coffee I'd be game for a new connection. I might even brush my hair and not just the stuff on my toes!  |
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Meeting new people on here has become just to much hassle by the time you wade through all the fakes and fantasists you've forgotten what you were looking for  ..
We did get slightly lazy and just stayed within a certain group but we have started meeting different people in group socials..
We love meeting new people it's just gotten extremely difficult to do on here.. |
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By *ags73Man 37 weeks ago
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I’d like to meet more new people and learning as I go with clubs. I’ve tried messaging and got nowhere.
First went in January and I guess lots more to learn.
Was hoping I would maybe have a chance of daytime meets, even if just go for a coffee and have a chat sort of things.
I guess that’s not really happening and it’s a bit disheartening.
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I do meet new people, I’ve found the longer I talk to people that are on my wavelength turn into pen pals, and we never meet.
So I take chances talking to new people who might want to get together and have a laugh, I’m about to put some fab miles on my account this week.
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We haven't met in ages, mainly because I (Mrs) just am not feeling it.
I struggle meeting off here anyway, I prefer the socials - it's just easier at face value.
Maybe by the next social I'll have sorted my head out a little.
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