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"Yes i did she was attractive and oh my did she fuck me but i didn't like her personality one little bit, she was however very good at the sex thing  "
I’ve spoken to woman in pubs and clubs who I wasn’t initially attracted to but when we have got chatting then I can easily become attracted to their personality and my view of them change |
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By *oo..Woman 30 weeks ago
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"Personality wise - nope
Looks wise - probably once after a few too many Malibu's.
I'll hold my hand up too it
And did you regret it? Or think afterwards that was quite enjoyable?"
It never happened again and never will do put it that way |
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"Personality wise - nope
Looks wise - probably once after a few too many Malibu's.
I'll hold my hand up too it
And did you regret it? Or think afterwards that was quite enjoyable?
It never happened again and never will do put it that way "
Oops the demon alcohol |
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I was always attracted enough to want to do it. Fucking someone I'm not attracted to for the sake of it seems an odd choice.
There's definite levels though. Back in the earlier years there was a lot more fuck it, they look alright, why not. But there's a lot more of the if it's not a fuck yes then it's a fuck no from me these days  |
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"No, I wouldn't have sex with someone I'm not attracted too.
Miss S x
So a personality can never change your view of someone? X"
Not if I don't find them physically attractive even just a little bit no.
Miss S x |
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"I was always attracted enough to want to do it. Fucking someone I'm not attracted to for the sake of it seems an odd choice.
There's definite levels though. Back in the earlier years there was a lot more fuck it, they look alright, why not. But there's a lot more of the if it's not a fuck yes then it's a fuck no from me these days "
I think that’s called maturing lol |
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"I was always attracted enough to want to do it. Fucking someone I'm not attracted to for the sake of it seems an odd choice.
There's definite levels though. Back in the earlier years there was a lot more fuck it, they look alright, why not. But there's a lot more of the if it's not a fuck yes then it's a fuck no from me these days
I think that’s called maturing lol"
Maturing or just developing standards? |
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"I was always attracted enough to want to do it. Fucking someone I'm not attracted to for the sake of it seems an odd choice.
There's definite levels though. Back in the earlier years there was a lot more fuck it, they look alright, why not. But there's a lot more of the if it's not a fuck yes then it's a fuck no from me these days
I think that’s called maturing lol
Maturing or just developing standards?"
Either and/or both. We learn from our previous mistakes as the years go by |
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Nope.
I've had sex with people who weren't conventionally attractive because something about them has made them attractive to me.
If I'm not attracted to someone I'd rather have a wank. Although in fairness that could count, as I'm entirely not my type. |
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"I was always attracted enough to want to do it. Fucking someone I'm not attracted to for the sake of it seems an odd choice.
There's definite levels though. Back in the earlier years there was a lot more fuck it, they look alright, why not. But there's a lot more of the if it's not a fuck yes then it's a fuck no from me these days
I think that’s called maturing lol
Maturing or just developing standards?
Either and/or both. We learn from our previous mistakes as the years go by"
I don't know about mistakes.
I'd just rather focus on the things that actually bring me joy than use that time to entertain potential mediocrity.
I have no regrets about past conquests or consider them mistakes. Excepting the one I had to get a restraining order for obvs. |
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"I was always attracted enough to want to do it. Fucking someone I'm not attracted to for the sake of it seems an odd choice.
There's definite levels though. Back in the earlier years there was a lot more fuck it, they look alright, why not. But there's a lot more of the if it's not a fuck yes then it's a fuck no from me these days
I think that’s called maturing lol
Maturing or just developing standards?
Either and/or both. We learn from our previous mistakes as the years go by
I don't know about mistakes.
I'd just rather focus on the things that actually bring me joy than use that time to entertain potential mediocrity.
I have no regrets about past conquests or consider them mistakes. Excepting the one I had to get a restraining order for obvs."
Yeah maybe mistakes is the wrong word, but those moments of “maybe I should t of” help to shape what we do in the future and can actually in some cases be invaluable
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"Nope.
I've had sex with people who weren't conventionally attractive because something about them has made them attractive to me.
If I'm not attracted to someone I'd rather have a wank. Although in fairness that could count, as I'm entirely not my type."
Haha yeah I don’t fancy myself, and sometimes my hand doesn’t fancy my cock haha |
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"Wasn't initially attracted to but was by the time I had sex yes.
Fucked someone I wasn't attracted to at all - no.
Mrs "
So what was it that made you attracted to them after not initially being attracted to them? |
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"Wasn't initially attracted to but was by the time I had sex yes.
Fucked someone I wasn't attracted to at all - no.
Mrs
So what was it that made you attracted to them after not initially being attracted to them?"
Personality - I need that to find people attractive I'm not one who can just look at someone & think yeah I wanna fuck you, that part doesn't happen for me.
Mrs |
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"Wasn't initially attracted to but was by the time I had sex yes.
Fucked someone I wasn't attracted to at all - no.
Mrs
So what was it that made you attracted to them after not initially being attracted to them?
Personality - I need that to find people attractive I'm not one who can just look at someone & think yeah I wanna fuck you, that part doesn't happen for me.
Mrs "
I’ve met some attractive people with very ugly personalities |
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"Yes
And I also know I have been that person that someone wasn't really attracted to either"
I ended up in a 7 year relationship with someone who didn't fancy me (at the start at least)
Told me point blank nothing would happen, then 3 or 4 hours later was waggling legs in the air
(Still not quite sure how it happened, but life does like its curve balls) |
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"Wasn't initially attracted to but was by the time I had sex yes.
Fucked someone I wasn't attracted to at all - no.
Mrs
So what was it that made you attracted to them after not initially being attracted to them?
Personality - I need that to find people attractive I'm not one who can just look at someone & think yeah I wanna fuck you, that part doesn't happen for me.
Mrs
I’ve met some attractive people with very ugly personalities "
If they had an ugly personality then I wouldn't be attracted to them, looks alone do nothing for me.
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By *ornycougaWoman 30 weeks ago
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I've never fucked someone I wasn't attracted to. But all my enduring relationships have been with people that I was initially attracted to their personality... The physical attraction came later |
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"I took one for the team, turned out I got the better deal, so yes I have.
...but also was looking forward to a meet, ended up going off her before we met."
I couldn’t even get hard if I didn’t fancy there personality |
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"I've never fucked someone I wasn't attracted to. But all my enduring relationships have been with people that I was initially attracted to their personality... The physical attraction came later"
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