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Are you insecure about size?
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Yep…
I stumbled across porn at a young age and other than opening my mind it’s left me feeling like I do t match up…that and I’ve had women tell me that I lack the girth to match my length.
I’m not small but clearly an 8” skinny cock isnt good enough  |
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"Of your penis?
Of your boobs?
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Depends on the day if it’s cold and damp and it looks a little bit sorry then yes
But if it’s a hot day blood is flowing
I’m walking down hill and it looks extra good then no  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"I used to be really insecure about my boobs, but I think I’m starting to feel a little better about them.
I’d like to feel them 
Forgive me for I have sinned.  "
Squeezing a boob a day, keeps the stress away! I won’t deny you of that fiddles |
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"I used to be really insecure about my boobs, but I think I’m starting to feel a little better about them.
I’d like to feel them
Forgive me for I have sinned.
Squeezing a boob a day, keeps the stress away! I won’t deny you of that fiddles "
m
Thank you, that’s very kind, and if you feel the need to stroke a cock, just let me know.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Boobs? No. They're small, but I quite like them.
I am slightly insecure about my longish inner labia, but not to the extent that I feel the need to hide them.
Nell |
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Can be, altough I get more insecure about my weight as thats in my control. Can't do much about the willy but I guess there will always be a social stigma around the size of a willy. It is what it is. |
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Him - penis, nope... a respectable 7-7.5 inch here. Always been smaller built/height compared to other males in my family and guys I've been friends with due to being a very premature baby, in y9 of high school, I couldn't force a computer chair down with my weight. So having an above average penis has been nice for abit of self confidence.
For her, she'd prefer her boobs to be smaller again, she grew to a b/c cup and hates it |
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"Of your penis?
Of your boobs?
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1. Don't have one 
2. Not really.
My body in general, do I think I'd like to tone up here or there and maybe loose a bit of weight, yes. Am I overall unhappy or self conscious, not really. I am what I am, I'm happy enough and my partner's have always been happy too, especially the arse and now my pierced boobs My body does it's job fairly well, so I'm happy with that
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My boobs shrank a bit and sagged more. I'm not massively keen on them, but I'm not seriously bothered one way or another.
Mr KC is very secure in the size of his manhood.
I don't have a penis to be self conscious about, fortunately! |
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Hmmm…
I guess sometimes I can get in my head about my penis size.
When everyone in my area is only looking for monster cock, when people on group chats are revelling in the new donkey cock that they’re fucking, when a partner is gushing about the gloriously big cocks that they’ve fucked… it can be difficult to be pragmatic about it and believe the old ‘size doesn’t matter’ line.
P in V isn’t everything about sex but for some people it really does matter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"Hmmm…
I guess sometimes I can get in my head about my penis size.
When everyone in my area is only looking for monster cock, when people on group chats are revelling in the new donkey cock that they’re fucking, when a partner is gushing about the gloriously big cocks that they’ve fucked… it can be difficult to be pragmatic about it and believe the old ‘size doesn’t matter’ line.
P in V isn’t everything about sex but for some people it really does matter"
This is real. You’re real. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Penis - yes and no. Always knew I was a grower not a shower. Joined fab then reality really kicked in at how small I was compared to lots on here especially when you read so many women after that elusive WE or VWE. Then I remember that actually I’ve had a few meets and play dates from here so all can’t be that bad and I have what I have |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Nah, it’s just sex fgs! Sex is a “tiny” little part (excuse me  ) of an amazing experience called life
When I think of all the things I could be worrying about, the size of a generally hidden part of my body isn’t one. I don’t think I’m small or massive though, so maybe I’d feel differently if people actually complained about my size… …who knows?  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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It is amazing considering the average dick size in the uk is supposed to be 5/6ins- there is a lot of pornstar size duds here so when you see the size queens coming out wanting massive willys, you do think that if you are not huge yourself, what chance have you got! |
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Was in my younger years but after being with hubby so many years . He's always loved them still has look on his face like it's 1st time he's seen them as he Watches me shower every day . Also had amazing compliments from so many guys here thank you xx |
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I used to be bothered about my penis, not the size, more the fact of surgery I had on it.
Now I'm in the mindset of it is what it is, and if people don't like me for me, the door I'd over there haha. |
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I dont have a penus so no to that one.
Boobs they are rather droopy due to their size and my age but that doesn't seem to put many off. Besides i can't do anything about that so why worry.
There is no agreement as to the perfect size so just find the audience you appeal to and ignore the rest. |
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By *sWyldWoman 37 weeks ago
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I'm insecure about so much of my body.
My boobs are too big, and they aren't pert, my tummy, my stretch marks, my wobbles and fat rolls, my thighs, my bingo wings, my pale skin and the fact I've always got a random bruise somewhere, my bum, my hips and even my foof. I've pushed out 3 humans, it's not petty, tight or aesthetically pleasing.
However, I can't spend my life focusing on all of these things and feeling bad or apologising for them. I refuse to let them hold me back.
In reality, I think most people have a hang up over something, or even many things. Just because I see all my flaws, others might view me differently. I need to believe they are capable of making their own judgment and not doubting them so much.
Life is hard enough without torturing myself about these things in the process
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Look at photo’s on here and you will see variety. Big, small fatter, thinner, that applies to boobs, cock body size. Then you have appearance to add.
I knew as a youngster that my erect penis was not large, nor was it small I was not aware of girth and could not understand why with some girls it was difficult.
Time and experience bring knowledge and that brought me a sense if security with how I felt. My insecurity is my height. I deal with it and get on with it
Cammy was never happy with her boobs, I have always loved them. Post menopause they have become bigger and yet still a huge turn on for me. |
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By *andS6571Couple 37 weeks ago
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Whilst not insecure about my penis size, it never fails to satisfy me or my wife. I did once have a lady with whom I was having a dalliance make a comment that she preferred bigger and I was a bit on the small side.
I replied to her " I'm a solo artist, accustomed to performing in small, intimate venues. Do not blame a solo artist if he can't fill a concert hall".
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I have a terrible figure, but it's average for my age so I don't care.
I'll walk around naked in front of anyone.
My long term partner is very tall and has some muscles, and he sends me to the kitchen to make tea sometimes; which I do naked |
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Don't you find it interesting? All of us here saying this is too big or this too small, this is too wobbly and this is too flat etc. Yet, I am guessing not one of us would think so badly of another as we do ourselves.
It is peculiar we all do that.
Just my random musings, as you were
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"Well it would be nice if it was bigger
You could take even more photos of it then
Is that even possible
I'm sure he can manage a few more  "
I don't see a lynx can, sky remote, or a toilet so there's 3
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"Well it would be nice if it was bigger
You could take even more photos of it then
Is that even possible
I'm sure he can manage a few more
I don't see a lynx can, sky remote, or a toilet so there's 3
Mr "
Whatever floats your boat |
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I (Luke) am not insecure about my body. I would like it to be different but that's not the same thing. I don't have much hair left (lost most of it in my 20s) and I really want to lose weight. But that's not insecurity.
The thing is, I wouldn't shag me, but that's not what counts. It's whether anybody else would, and fortunately some do and there are others who would. I've been to bed with some blindingly hot women so I can't see that anything about my body would make me insecure even if I would like to be improved in some ways. |
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"Well it would be nice if it was bigger
You could take even more photos of it then
Is that even possible
I'm sure he can manage a few more
I don't see a lynx can, sky remote, or a toilet so there's 3
Mr
Whatever floats your boat"
There's a 4th,take one in the bath with a toy boat. Make sure it's a small one though to really impress the ladies |
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"Well it would be nice if it was bigger
You could take even more photos of it then
Is that even possible
I'm sure he can manage a few more
I don't see a lynx can, sky remote, or a toilet so there's 3
Mr
Whatever floats your boat
There's a 4th,take one in the bath with a toy boat. Make sure it's a small one though to really impress the ladies "
I don't need to but thanks for the advice |
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"Well it would be nice if it was bigger
You could take even more photos of it then
Is that even possible
I'm sure he can manage a few more
I don't see a lynx can, sky remote, or a toilet so there's 3
Mr
Whatever floats your boat
There's a 4th,take one in the bath with a toy boat. Make sure it's a small one though to really impress the ladies
I don't need to but thanks for the advice"
What we're here for, dic pic advice
Mr |
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"Well it would be nice if it was bigger
You could take even more photos of it then
Is that even possible
I'm sure he can manage a few more
I don't see a lynx can, sky remote, or a toilet so there's 3
Mr
Whatever floats your boat
There's a 4th,take one in the bath with a toy boat. Make sure it's a small one though to really impress the ladies
I don't need to but thanks for the advice
What we're here for, dic pic advice
Mr "
Not really sure if that was the point in the thread but I'm sure your wit will prevail |
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Na, there will be women who are size queens who prefer massive cocks, fair play to them. I’m quite lucky, in it’s a respectable size, but the key thing is, I can get hard, stay hard and repeat, this is the magic.
Ive a mate that’s a cock that looks like the size of a baseball bat, it’s magnificent. I’ve been to a few clubs with him, and he always struggles to get it hard and stay hard, or cums within seconds, so in that case size isn’t everything. |
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"Well it would be nice if it was bigger
You could take even more photos of it then
Is that even possible
I'm sure he can manage a few more
I don't see a lynx can, sky remote, or a toilet so there's 3
Mr
Whatever floats your boat
There's a 4th,take one in the bath with a toy boat. Make sure it's a small one though to really impress the ladies
I don't need to but thanks for the advice
What we're here for, dic pic advice
Mr
Not really sure if that was the point in the thread but I'm sure your wit will prevail"
Have a great day my friend enjoy fab
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I do believe having a larger cock is beneficial definitely looks better when having sex in the fab videos
Ladies be honest do you visually find them more attractive |
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I’ve always liked my small boobs, and love that I can get away without wearing a bra.
However, sometimes I wonder what it would have been like to have full, heavy, rounded breasts with erect nipples. Must be nice.
I hate my lower belly and am extremely insecure about it  |
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"I do believe having a larger cock is beneficial definitely looks better when having sex in the fab videos
Ladies be honest do you visually find them more attractive "
Visually, yes I do think so. However, it isn't something I would base my attraction to someone on nor is it a preference of mine.
I also struggle to take a vwe, basically I can't. Over 6" and some positions I have to be careful in. Over 7" and my fav positions are off limits.
Not all women are size queens.
I can only speak for myself but having a huge cock really doesn't increase my attraction to someone nor make me want to be naked with them.
MrsAbz |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"I’ve always liked my small boobs, and love that I can get away without wearing a bra.
However, sometimes I wonder what it would have been like to have full, heavy, rounded breasts with erect nipples. Must be nice.
I hate my lower belly and am extremely insecure about it "
Aviatrix, your body is stunning. |
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Definitely used to be with the size of my boobs, especially when the fashion was strappy tops.
These days more annoyed when I can buy certain clothes as they won't fit my boobs. And wouldn't mind if gravity could do one, but am realistic that big boobs are less likely to be perky compared to smaller ones. |
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Of your penis? Some days
Of your boobs? No
90% satisfied with our bodies the rest is an ongoing process of learning to like. But of course it's fun to hear when someone thinks you're sexy or good-looking, in the end it's me who has to like my body. |
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Belly, bum, thighs - yes 
Ah well, more of me to get hold of?
