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By *OYFB OP Woman 23 weeks ago
Jersey (sometimes Notts) |
It’s such a waste of energy isn’t it?
You spend ages fielding messages, filtering out unsuitable people, finally build a rapport with someone, plan to meet, psychology and physically prepare for that meet, only for them to cancel last minute.
Even worse when you turn up and they’re a no-show without explanation.
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Wasted yesterday morning waiting on a guy, my own fault kinda knew it wasnt gonna happen but hes the one who messages asking when im free all the time, had a rare free house and boom hasnt been online since yesterday morning, to be fair he was going to message when he was back from where ever he was going so maybe hes just not back haha.. |
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By *OYFB OP Woman 23 weeks ago
Jersey (sometimes Notts) |
I’m quite the introvert with a background of anxiety/depression, so it takes a lot of energy to psych myself up to meet someone!
I live in an area where there are few fab users so thankfully haven’t got the “I’d never let you down” messages!
That’s a good idea to report no-shows, because it’s likely they do it with other people. Will keep that in mind for when it inevitably happens again! |
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By *OYFB OP Woman 23 weeks ago
Jersey (sometimes Notts) |
"Most people are all talk and no action. You can't avoid it but just learn from it and make sure you give no second chances to these people."
This is some good advice, thank you |
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"Recently found women can also waste time.
Spend the odd night away in Birmingham with work and I’ve been let down twice!"
That’s totally different from what OP describes in her post. It’s safe to assume you’ve been chatting to fantasists. |
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By *WB85Man 23 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
Sadly, it happens and it's so frustrating.
Me and my partner both have solo accounts (and a joint) and I was so jealous of the volume of messages she gets. She's had the same though, people not turning up etc etc.
It's hard work isn't it. |
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cock was throbbing bulging hard ready for action 
. Then ‘sorry can’t come something came up’ 
Oh well, let’s get an ice pack cool this cobra down 
S xx