How do you guys get meets on here?
I know it's more difficult as a single guy... But I'm verified and my DMS are still dry as hell.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I'm struggling to figure this site out.
I will be going to the Leeds social and maybe a club after |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Unless you're hung like a horse or can chat like a llama sucking a sweet, it's probably not going to be easy.
Socials and clubs are the best way to meet real life people. |
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By *TG3Man 36 weeks ago
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"How do you guys get meets on here?
I know it's more difficult as a single guy... But I'm verified and my DMS are still dry as hell.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I'm struggling to figure this site out.
I will be going to the Leeds social and maybe a club after "
so many things apply could be the area you live in, could be the way you message eg sexual messages to complete strangers, could be your profile, could be your pics  |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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If I'm being brutally honest your height will go against you, most women want at least 6ft. Your doing all the right things though by going to socials and clubs get your face out there and as long as you don't go with any expectations you will be fine. Just remember though the people you are talking to are just that people not just a fuck. |
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"Unless you're hung like a horse or can chat like a llama sucking a sweet, it's probably not going to be easy.
Socials and clubs are the best way to meet real life people."
Not packing a 10 inch monster can if that's what you mean |
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"If I'm being brutally honest your height will go against you, most women want at least 6ft. Your doing all the right things though by going to socials and clubs get your face out there and as long as you don't go with any expectations you will be fine. Just remember though the people you are talking to are just that people not just a fuck. "
Yeah I thought my height would be a factor in this... Seems like everyone wants 6ft plus on and off of the site haha |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"If I'm being brutally honest your height will go against you, most women want at least 6ft. Your doing all the right things though by going to socials and clubs get your face out there and as long as you don't go with any expectations you will be fine. Just remember though the people you are talking to are just that people not just a fuck.
Yeah I thought my height would be a factor in this... Seems like everyone wants 6ft plus on and off of the site haha "
Mate everyone is a 10 to someone your doing better than most blokes on here at least your reaching out for advice and you have already been verified |
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"If I'm being brutally honest your height will go against you, most women want at least 6ft. Your doing all the right things though by going to socials and clubs get your face out there and as long as you don't go with any expectations you will be fine. Just remember though the people you are talking to are just that people not just a fuck.
Yeah I thought my height would be a factor in this... Seems like everyone wants 6ft plus on and off of the site haha
Mate everyone is a 10 to someone your doing better than most blokes on here at least your reaching out for advice and you have already been verified"
Let's be honest... Some are 10s to more people than others are. I guess this site is so saturated by guys that the better options are just in abundance on here |
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By *WB85Man 36 weeks ago
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For single men accounts ite really hard and there's no way around it.
We have a couples account as well and trust me....it's not that much easier finding what you're after.
The idea that swinging is easy to find a fuck.....is a myth.
Keep looking and be patient.
Good luck.  |
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"For single men accounts ite really hard and there's no way around it.
We have a couples account as well and trust me....it's not that much easier finding what you're after.
The idea that swinging is easy to find a fuck.....is a myth.
Keep looking and be patient.
Good luck. "
Oh I know that swinging isn't just an all out orgy full of glory holes haha...
I see it as an extended version of a dating app |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"If I'm being brutally honest your height will go against you, most women want at least 6ft. Your doing all the right things though by going to socials and clubs get your face out there and as long as you don't go with any expectations you will be fine. Just remember though the people you are talking to are just that people not just a fuck.
Yeah I thought my height would be a factor in this... Seems like everyone wants 6ft plus on and off of the site haha
Mate everyone is a 10 to someone your doing better than most blokes on here at least your reaching out for advice and you have already been verified
Let's be honest... Some are 10s to more people than others are. I guess this site is so saturated by guys that the better options are just in abundance on here "
The other thing women are attracted to is confidence so don't be negative with your aproach, I have looked at your pics and your in not bad shape so hit them with the positives and what you can offer instead of what you cant! |
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Yeah I thought my height would be a factor in this... Seems like everyone wants 6ft plus on and off of the site haha
Mate everyone is a 10 to someone your doing better than most blokes on here at least your reaching out for advice and you have already been verified
Let's be honest... Some are 10s to more people than others are. I guess this site is so saturated by guys that the better options are just in abundance on here
The other thing women are attracted to is confidence so don't be negative with your aproach, I have looked at your pics and your in not bad shape so hit them with the positives and what you can offer instead of what you cant! "
Oh I don't approach like that... I just make it friendly and about their profile, and tell them to take a look at my profile so we can talk more..
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"If I'm being brutally honest your height will go against you, most women want at least 6ft. Your doing all the right things though by going to socials and clubs get your face out there and as long as you don't go with any expectations you will be fine. Just remember though the people you are talking to are just that people not just a fuck.
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Yeah I thought my height would be a factor in this... Seems like everyone wants 6ft plus on and off of the site haha "
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I disagree. My height has never been an issue for me. |
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"If I'm being brutally honest your height will go against you, most women want at least 6ft. Your doing all the right things though by going to socials and clubs get your face out there and as long as you don't go with any expectations you will be fine. Just remember though the people you are talking to are just that people not just a fuck.
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Yeah I thought my height would be a factor in this... Seems like everyone wants 6ft plus on and off of the site haha
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I disagree. My height has never been an issue for me."
How do you get meets as a guy similar hight as me?
Would you call it age?
Colour? (Seen that some won't meet anyone but black or white) |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Hey OP,
I've been on / off this site over many years,so not a newbie.
It's always more challenging for guys on here, and considering that you have only been here for a couple of months and already have a verification,is pretty good going.
You could be the nicest person on here but will still need oodles of patience!!
Unfortunately some people think it's sex on tap being on here, and it's not.
Just be yourself when messaging, and without sounding like your mother, always be honest.
Best place to get noticed is social events and clubs.
Personally I don't see your height as an issue,but that's probably because I'm 5ft2.
Good luck x |
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"How do you guys get meets on here?
I know it's more difficult as a single guy... But I'm verified and my DMS are still dry as hell.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I'm struggling to figure this site out.
I will be going to the Leeds social and maybe a club after "
You've only been here 2 months and already had a meet and got verified... I would say you're doing much better than most.
Just be positive and be yourself.
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"If I'm being brutally honest your height will go against you, most women want at least 6ft. Your doing all the right things though by going to socials and clubs get your face out there and as long as you don't go with any expectations you will be fine. Just remember though the people you are talking to are just that people not just a fuck.
Yeah I thought my height would be a factor in this... Seems like everyone wants 6ft plus on and off of the site haha
Mate everyone is a 10 to someone your doing better than most blokes on here at least your reaching out for advice and you have already been verified
Let's be honest... Some are 10s to more people than others are. I guess this site is so saturated by guys that the better options are just in abundance on here
The other thing women are attracted to is confidence so don't be negative with your aproach, I have looked at your pics and your in not bad shape so hit them with the positives and what you can offer instead of what you cant! "
Siri, what does "damning with faint praise" mean?
OP, you're doing just fine. Don't over think things. Don't be a dick. Don't try to be something you're not just because someone told you that's what women like. |
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"... ...Yeah I thought my height would be a factor in this... Seems like everyone wants 6ft plus on and off of the site haha
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I disagree. My height has never been an issue for me.
How do you get meets as a guy similar hight as me?
Would you call it age?
Colour? (Seen that some won't meet anyone but black or white) "
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I don't think age has anything to do with it. Colour? Most (not all) want to meet black or white. I'm neither of those colours, which puts me further down the hierarchy!
I simply play with the cards that I've been dealt with. |
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Magic, I think you may be having a bit of confirmation bias as height is definitely NOT a factor in meeting women.
Yes, on this site there are some who won't look at a man who is less than 6 feet tall, and you may have been told you're being spoken to because of your height (here's where the confirmation bias kicks in) but I can assure you there are many who are attracted to more than just how far the top of a man's head is from his feet. Even more so in person, where a man's personality can shine through.
It helps a lot on this site if you're a man and you can communicate well via the written word. And if you're not fugly. Some who wonder why they're not getting meets don't realise they're fugly. This only applies to single men who can't get a meet. |
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