We met up, said for ages they didn’t wanna meet people from fab anymore. Hated the whole concept of fab, hid their profile for months, then randomly after saying the above for ages decided they actually want a fwb. |
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"We met up, said for ages they didn’t wanna meet people from fab anymore. Hated the whole concept of fab, hid their profile for months, then randomly after saying the above for ages decided they actually want a fwb."
You were probably the backup option, and became the first option after the original first option bailed on them |
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I don't think people actually know what they want most the time so it's understandable when things change. Only thing you can do is stick with what you want and release the ones that don't align with that. |
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"So has anyone else met someone off fab that strings them along after afew meets, for them to actually want the thing they’ve said they don’t want all this time? Utter waste of time"
It's just people these days I'm afraid. No respect for anyone else. It's not just a fab thing unfortunately.
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"So they changed their mind?
They should be publicly flogged!!
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Choice is an illusion. Everyone knows that if you chat with someone here and don't follow through to actual penetration you can legally be called a timewaster in the forums |
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We were chatting with a lovely couple on here. We don't find many we click we but these guys were great. The lady had a male lover and they now wanted to meet a couple. Things were going really well until they asked us if we would still be seeing a particular couple we have met a few times. We said yes, and they said they were looking for exclusivity from a couple to reduce the risk of STDs. Although we always use protection, oral is still not risk-free they said.
Hang on a minute. She was still going to see her male lover but wanted exclusivity from us! They cut things off with us pretty abruptly after that. |
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Sounds like something they are ashamed of.
I could tell you a couple of stories but I will stick to one. The lady said she did not do anal. We went on holiday and on the last day she offered. I think she was afraid to scare me off. |
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"I don't think people actually know what they want most the time so it's understandable when things change. Only thing you can do is stick with what you want and release the ones that don't align with that."
First of all OP, it's grim and it does mess with heads a lot. So you have my full sympathy for it. It's not nice, but it is common human practice.
Secondly, what LL says above about sticking with what you want and releasing those who don't align - do that.
You'll drive yourself mad second-guessing others, because they really don't know themselves most of the time (as LL also said).
Do you, don't invest too much heart until you meet a good one or 2 or 7, and if you find some really great ones, enjoy it for as long as you all can.
That's a good life. |
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"Sounds like something they are ashamed of.
I could tell you a couple of stories but I will stick to one. The lady said she did not do anal. We went on holiday and on the last day she offered. I think she was afraid to scare me off. "
Ashamed of still wanting to find a fwb? Tbh I’m not bothered she made it clear she wanted to be friends, I was cool with that. Just doesn’t make any sense to me |
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