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Do you notice when

By *onko OP Man 30 weeks ago

here and there

People are trying to chat you up?

I don’t

I was at a concert at hampden stadium in Glasgow and a lass was trying to chat me up but I was enjoying the music so much I didn't notice

My friends said she walked away during the on core looking u happy

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By *icecouple561Couple 30 weeks ago
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East Sussex

No idea in real life. If I didn't notice at the time I'm still oblivious

On here I assume people are just being friendly unless they actually tell me

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By *ommander_StraxMan 30 weeks ago

Telford

Not a clue. My wife often says “you know she was flirting with you? That was so obvious” and I’m totally confused.

I have a massive blind spot for it.

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By *lym4realCouple 30 weeks ago

plymouth

If we were honest most of us don't and Mrs4 is infamous amongst our friends in failing to notice if females ( not males as she notices them) are interrested in her unless they make make it 100% obvious and Mrs4 is just as clueless though ! xxx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 30 weeks ago

Central

I'm a bit mixed and unless it's ever pointed out somehow, if I don't grasp it, I'm never going to know what I'm missing out on. Some men are helpful and make big efforts to make it glaringly obvious

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By *sWyldWoman 30 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I always just assume people are being friendly

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By *EAT..85Woman 30 weeks ago

Nottingham

I just assume everyone new is hitting on me

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By *earded-OneMan 30 weeks ago

Woolwich

I am always oblivious

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By *2000ManMan 30 weeks ago

Worthing

It's not so much words but eye contact without them breaking it.

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By *eliWoman 30 weeks ago

Sometimes it's glaringly obvious. Most of the time I think people are just being nice.

Works for me because then it's a pleasant surprise when I realise they are.

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By *ot to giggleWoman 30 weeks ago

Coventry

obvious - just think they are flirting because I do and having a laugh

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By *ake_or_deathMan 30 weeks ago

Manchester

"People are trying to chat you up?

I don’t

I was at a concert at hampden stadium in Glasgow and a lass was trying to chat me up but I was enjoying the music so much I didn't notice

My friends said she walked away during the on core looking u happy "

Oh god no. In retrospect I've missed a number of opportunities because I didn't realise what was happening until it was too late. Honestly my life could have been quite different if I had any idea of being flirted with - I'd certainly have more happy memories.

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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago

Once in a library many moons ago I was followed by some stranger who wanted to go for coffee. I blanked him out found it creepy.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman 30 weeks ago

somewhere

Nope, you would literally have to come out and ask me on a date or something and even then I'd be a bit "are you sure"

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By *orny-DJMan 30 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Nope. Completely oblivious

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