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If you catch someone eyeing you up
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"How do you react?
Smile
Wink
Look away
Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out
Say something"
Should that ever happen it will likely be in Specsavers… but I will definitely update the thread - i imagine I’d give them my ‘come hither sexy look’ and powerless they would be snared into my web of carnal desire…and unwilling to resist .. then theyd get the trademark Todger rummage up the jumper and be left ruined for other men!!!  |
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By *red333Man 24 weeks ago
Dorchester |
"How do you react?
Smile
Wink
Look away
Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out
Say something"
If i get the opportunity to say something i will but last night for example a very attractive woman came in the eatery i attended and looked and smiled but she was with her daughter i guess and her focus was on her  |
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By *red333Man 24 weeks ago
Dorchester |
"Not sure I'd actually recognise someone eyeing me up!
Random jogger this morning as I was walking to the station, waved and smiled at me. Does that count as being eyed up?"
yes lol he waved and smiled |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"I wouldn't notice it unless they slapped me round the chops with a wet haddock"
Same here .... I'd probably check I didn't have lipstick on my teeth or my dress accidentally tucked into my knickers .. |
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"How do you react?
Smile
Wink
Look away
Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out
Say something"
Feel a wave of anxiety
smile and get involved in something on my phone haha |
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By *enk15Man 24 weeks ago
Bidford On Avon |
Depends how the psyche be doing that day.
Good = It would give me a confidence boost, and I'd have a skip in my step the rest of the day.
Bad = I would assume there was someone behind me they were actually checking out.
Either way, I'm not responding directly to them. |
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seem to get into mischief with my female fab friend when we go out for a meal together
one time the pub owner kept leaning on the wall staring at us - we spent the entire time giggling like school girls
last time, the waiter was fit - poor lad got full flirt mode from both of us - he loved it.
yesterday i got flirted with by the guy on the help line i was calling - after we dealt with everything the conversation continued about ex partners and i got a text of him this morning saying he agreed and hoped i had a lovely day.!!!
I think people notice if your open and smiling and happy - well my theory - seem to get a lot of people smiling, so i beam back thinking that maybe I know them and being oblivious to general life events going on around me, wonder if my skirt is stuck in my pants or i am trailing some toilet paper  |
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"How do you react?
Smile
Wink
Look away
Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out
Say something"
Strangely, for me, it depends on the setting.
Of its a public bar or club then I'm usually a little shy snd Look away.
In a more cruiser environment like a club, beach or sauna etc , then I'm more confident snd ready to get going. |
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"Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out"
Sat at a pub, drinking with a girlfriend. Gorgeous guy stood by the door (behind me) and we exchanged a couple of smiles.
I looked back and he was gone! So I looked around the pub and located him, who was staring at me with a massive grin. That was his tactic and it worked... While I was blushing, he walked over and chatted me up.
Ended up at his place (nice hot-tub!) and he drove me home next day. |
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Initially, I'll try to subtly work out their body language if they're with friends, how their friends are reacting to them (warmth, or reluctant tolerance?).
If they pass my "not bad news" radar I'll make eye contact back, see how long they hold it.
If a long time, I'll beam a smile, watch their reaction, and then go over and talk.
If not a long time, I'll try another once or twice, but if they're too coy I'll lose interest and carry on with the rest of my night/day. |
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I will play it cool, calm and collected. Which probably means that I will walk into a lamppost, trip over the pavement and knock myself out on a bin. Obviously it is all part of the plan to see if they run over and check if I am ok. |
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"In my head Im giving them a flirty smile. In reality I'm giving just got out on day release vibes  "
Haha! This would be me too - Mrs
The Mr wouldn’t notice anyone eyeing him up unless they smacked him in the face! |
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I have realised that the correct reaction for a guy is to smile at the lady who lets you know that she finds you attractive. If she smiles back, walk on over and chat her up.
Then find out she's married |
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