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Regular life knocks over the horn.
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By *agnar73 OP Man 31 weeks ago
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I won’t be alone in this, but just sometimes things in regular life throw you off and then you think meh to being horny.
One of those today and I’m now feeling knackered after dealing with it but also thinking ‘oh if I could blow off steam’ but obviously not the mojo to send ‘how you doin’ messages’ at suitable or unsuitable ladies.
Any tips for refilling the horn? |
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"I won’t be alone in this, but just sometimes things in regular life throw you off and then you think meh to being horny.
One of those today and I’m now feeling knackered after dealing with it but also thinking ‘oh if I could blow off steam’ but obviously not the mojo to send ‘how you doin’ messages’ at suitable or unsuitable ladies.
Any tips for refilling the horn?"
I think sometimes a short break from this place does you the world of good. |
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"Any tips for refilling the horn?"
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Send a suitable message to an unsuitable lady and an unsuitable message to a suitable lady. Offer the former a suitable proposition in an unsuitable environment and the latter an unsuitable suite in an equally unsuitable hotel room. Offer them both afternoon tea served in unsuitability dainty teacups in a suitably salubrious environment.
It won't help your horn but in your gracious companionship they won't know they've been born.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Hope you’re ok fella. Sometimes this place won’t have the answers. Sometimes not having the horn is actually what you need and being confortable with that is empowering.
Hope you’re bone goes stiff soon bud  |
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"I won’t be alone in this, but just sometimes things in regular life throw you off and then you think meh to being horny.
One of those today and I’m now feeling knackered after dealing with it but also thinking ‘oh if I could blow off steam’ but obviously not the mojo to send ‘how you doin’ messages’ at suitable or unsuitable ladies.
Any tips for refilling the horn?
I think sometimes a short break from this place does you the world of good. "
Yeah this, I sometimes dissappear for months at a time when I have a lot going on.. then come back with a massive appetite to meet new people and play lol  |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 31 weeks ago
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"Mine left the building about a month ago, I've no advice. I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. I'm sure it will return "
Aw I’m sorry, yeah i think I’ll be waiting until my next weekend off and see how I go |
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I always find a break from this place does me good when I feel like that. Be it a couple of days, or weeks however long is needed.
Sending hugs OP I know life can take its toll and you have a lot on your plate. Remember you are doing a brilliant job, you've got this. I hope you find your mojo soon   x |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Don’t put pressure on yourself if you’re not feeling it. Regular life stuff gets in the way for us all at some point.
Sometimes a little break from here does wonders. I’m sure it’ll come back when everything else dies down. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 31 weeks ago
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"Hope you’re ok fella. Sometimes this place won’t have the answers. Sometimes not having the horn is actually what you need and being confortable with that is empowering.
Hope you’re bone goes stiff soon bud "
Yeah, I think it’s been ‘a day’ but sleep probably needed and see if I can perk up again |
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I've went through my phases of this and currently where I am at at the moment again, legit no mojo. Turned down 2 advances past week alone. Wish I had advice mate but life's stresses takes it out you it'll come back though man. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 31 weeks ago
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"Any tips for refilling the horn?
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Send a suitable message to an unsuitable lady and an unsuitable message to a suitable lady. Offer the former a suitable proposition in an unsuitable environment and the latter an unsuitable suite in an equally unsuitable hotel room. Offer them both afternoon tea served in unsuitability dainty teacups in a suitably salubrious environment.
It won't help your horn but in your gracious companionship they won't know they've been born. "
I think quite honestly i’d be ravenous in the right company but maybe not today or this week or maybe next.. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 31 weeks ago
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"I've went through my phases of this and currently where I am at at the moment again, legit no mojo. Turned down 2 advances past week alone. Wish I had advice mate but life's stresses takes it out you it'll come back though man. "
Ach if yer no feeling it yet no feeling it and nae point going over without some bounce |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 31 weeks ago
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"I always find a break from this place does me good when I feel like that. Be it a couple of days, or weeks however long is needed.
Sending hugs OP I know life can take its toll and you have a lot on your plate. Remember you are doing a brilliant job, you've got this. I hope you find your mojo soon x"
Thanks Ms Bella x hugs for you , I know you’re kept busy too |
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Many people don't want fast meets and are also deterred by men who message powered by sexual interest.
It's potentially the better time to connect when you're more thoughtful and not exerting hidden pressure
But if you need time and space to regather yourself, take a break for your wellbeing |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 31 weeks ago
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"Rest, de-stress, do things that make you happy. Easier said than done, but that's how mine comes back if it fucks off"
Thinking cream cakes or a nice lemon tart. I’ll make a point of having something tomorrow |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 31 weeks ago
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"Many people don't want fast meets and are also deterred by men who message powered by sexual interest.
It's potentially the better time to connect when you're more thoughtful and not exerting hidden pressure
But if you need time and space to regather yourself, take a break for your wellbeing "
Ach i’m usually considered, polite, discreet, respectful responsible type.
Probably just need to physical counter to a day that’s did my box in.
It happens and a little wander off fab for a few days is probably the fix as others have said |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 31 weeks ago
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"I get this often, normally at least once a month!
Horny but just cant be bothered most of the time. "
I sort of want to message profiles I see on local updates and then send t a combination of ‘the fear’ and the day to day stuff I have to do. If only sort of thing |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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My sex drive has totally disappeared. I'm not concerned though as I know it's just because I'm overworked. Long hours daily catches up with you and bound to take its toll. I'm sure my sex drive will return and I'll be at it like a rabbit once my workload eases.
I think the main thing is to not judge ourselves for not feeling horny or the swinging vibes and listen to our bodies. |
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