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I wish I knew what I know now…
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By *ea monkey OP Man 36 weeks ago
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My apologies for the ear worm!
What do you wish that people knew about you before you meet them, whether that be personal or sexual?
Whether it’s a detail that would help ease social discourse or something sexual about you that will make the time together better? |
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"I probably have ADHD but I definitely have depression and anxiety so forgive me if I’m a lot. "
You're the second person I'm telling not to apologise for being a lot this morning  You have nothing to apologise for. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"I probably have ADHD but I definitely have depression and anxiety so forgive me if I’m a lot.
You're the second person I'm telling not to apologise for being a lot this morning You have nothing to apologise for. "
You haven’t spent enough time with me but I appreciate you homie |
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"I probably have ADHD but I definitely have depression and anxiety so forgive me if I’m a lot. "
I definitely have depression and anxiety and I have my suspicions about adhd/ and....I've been called intense before  |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I’m really not great at expressing my feelings past letting you know I like you. I have a tendency to shut down and distance myself when I start overthinking things. There’s probably going to be a point where you think I’m not interested, I am, my brain just works in a weirdly complicated way. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man 36 weeks ago
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"I’m really not great at expressing my feelings past letting you know I like you. I have a tendency to shut down and distance myself when I start overthinking things. There’s probably going to be a point where you think I’m not interested, I am, my brain just works in a weirdly complicated way. "
I’m very similar in some ways.
I think it’s a bit of a myth that people are comfortable and confident all of the time, I’ve found that actually expressing these things really help, especially as they’re often feeling the same |
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Im either a full on crazy whirlwind, or asleep in a corner.
I champion the underdog always, and cry at the news.
Oh and apparently my grammer sucjs and i cant be assed to correct typos .... hello me!! 
Sex is crazy fun thought.
Oh and i talk alot |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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That I really don't take kindly to people that label others,use sly digs or "in" jokes/stupid slang words.
Nothing is lower than that, just keep your mouth shut and move away.
Shows that persons mentality and it always goes full circle and comes back to them in the long run.
Playground behaviour
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Ugh what a thread.... it's probably loads. That I'm not rude or stand-offish like people often think, I just don't always know how to respond appropriately socially. (But I'm always trying!!!)
That I'm often unable to 'read between the lines' and therefore end up overthinking situations and conversations trying to understand the real meaning - so being very direct is easier for me to deal with.
Oh and of course that the things I mess up on due to the above are done out of genuine error but good intentions, rather than indifference or malice. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man 36 weeks ago
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"Ugh what a thread.... it's probably loads. That I'm not rude or stand-offish like people often think, I just don't always know how to respond appropriately socially. (But I'm always trying!!!)
That I'm often unable to 'read between the lines' and therefore end up overthinking situations and conversations trying to understand the real meaning - so being very direct is easier for me to deal with.
Oh and of course that the things I mess up on due to the above are done out of genuine error but good intentions, rather than indifference or malice. "
The perils of a masking autistic! |
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Probably loads but it depends on if its just a one off social or going to be a long term thing.
I like to talk, I can actually be very chatty but I often go quiet. Not because I've lost interest, just because I'm trying to do a million things at once and always drop a ball somewhere. I will happily pick up a conversation from months ago understanding life gets in the way but I know some people don't like that. I'm rubbish at working out if someone actually likes me or if they are just being polite so I just presume they are being polite.
I love a cuddle but have to know you really well before I'll actually ask for one, even if we've had sex.
I could go on but I think I've already shot myself in the foot enough. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man 36 weeks ago
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"Probably loads but it depends on if its just a one off social or going to be a long term thing.
I like to talk, I can actually be very chatty but I often go quiet. Not because I've lost interest, just because I'm trying to do a million things at once and always drop a ball somewhere. I will happily pick up a conversation from months ago understanding life gets in the way but I know some people don't like that. I'm rubbish at working out if someone actually likes me or if they are just being polite so I just presume they are being polite.
I love a cuddle but have to know you really well before I'll actually ask for one, even if we've had sex.
I could go on but I think I've already shot myself in the foot enough. "
It’s not shooting yourself in the foot to be honest about how you feel. Knowing how you actually feel is a positive thing |
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Nothing really. People see you through the lens of their own experiences and just knowing something about me before you've met me isn't really helpful. Unless of course people want to be warned about my vampire teeth, hooked nose and Denis Healey eyebrows  |
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By *ea monkey OP Man 36 weeks ago
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"Nothing really. People see you through the lens of their own experiences and just knowing something about me before you've met me isn't really helpful. Unless of course people want to be warned about my vampire teeth, hooked nose and Denis Healey eyebrows "
You had me with the eyebrows |
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"Nothing really. People see you through the lens of their own experiences and just knowing something about me before you've met me isn't really helpful. Unless of course people want to be warned about my vampire teeth, hooked nose and Denis Healey eyebrows
You had me with the eyebrows "
I'm an eyebrow man magnet  |
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