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How do you cope with rejection on here as women get massively dejected as much as males get rejected.
Do you cope well or do you suffer in silence. Should we cope alone? |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I don't like the word rejection because it's not really. They aren't rejecting you as a person because they don't know you, they are making a split decision based on something trivial. Even if its based on attraction, no one can be everyone's cup of tea but it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you.
As long as people know who they are and what they bring to the table, they won't see it as rejection. They will see it as redirection to things or people that are actually better for you. Don't let somebody else's preference dictate your self esteem. |
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"I don't like the word rejection because it's not really. They aren't rejecting you as a person because they don't know you, they are making a split decision based on something trivial. Even if its based on attraction, no one can be everyone's cup of tea but it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you.
As long as people know who they are and what they bring to the table, they won't see it as rejection. They will see it as redirection to things or people that are actually better for you. Don't let somebody else's preference dictate your self esteem. "
At times it's really difficult to see what i bring to the table but I'm trying to get there! |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Rejection is just an emotional state of mind. If you look at it from a different angle it could be a near miss, a lucky escape or a step on the way to what you really want or deserve. There’s no need to feel rejected because why would you want something with someone who rejects you?  |
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"How do you cope with rejection on here as women get massively dejected as much as males get rejected..."
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I do a 180° about-turn and retrace the steps back to my man-sanctuary, following the breadcrumbs of my broken porcelain heart and the sharp unforgiving fragments of my shattered dreams. |
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It's just part and parcel of the lifestyle, sadly we can't be everyone's cup of tea even if we like the look of them. I'd say 85% of messages we send out go un answered so we have just learned to have a thick skin and skip away down the road in some fluffy socks without giving it too much thought  |
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Is the context of the question related to fab rejection or outside of fab?
For the context of fab, rejection stung a little at first but you have to have skin thicker than the soles of your nans dry feet here.
In other aspects of life, the sting is deeper and last longer for me. I feel things and it’s hard to let those feelings go. |
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"I don't like the word rejection because it's not really. They aren't rejecting you as a person because they don't know you, they are making a split decision based on something trivial. Even if its based on attraction, no one can be everyone's cup of tea but it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you.
As long as people know who they are and what they bring to the table, they won't see it as rejection. They will see it as redirection to things or people that are actually better for you. Don't let somebody else's preference dictate your self esteem. "
Mostly this. |
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"How do you cope with rejection on here as women get massively dejected as much as males get rejected.
Do you cope well or do you suffer in silence. Should we cope alone? "
I don't cope at all as it's not a big deal.. we aren't for all... and we reject people.
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"How do you cope with rejection on here as women get massively dejected as much as males get rejected.
Do you cope well or do you suffer in silence. Should we cope alone? I don't cope at all as it's not a big deal.. we aren't for all... and we reject people.
100% I'm not for everyone. You can't let that can't you down
Cali"
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I've only approached one person, and I knew I'd be rejected when I did.
A man on a thread said women have the pick of the site, so I said that means every man on this thread will want me, and messaged the one I was most sure would reject me-and he did.
It wouldn't bother me if I was rejected, if I did the initial messaging; I'm more concerned about someone saying yes, because they just fancied a fuck.
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It's not really rejection on anything meaningful, don't take it to heart. I was rejected in message by the lady whose been my FWB for three years, soon as we sat at same table at a organised social was completely different, 3/4 or more of the lady's I've met off Fab, I've been rejected in messages, but it's different when we've met at socials. So it's not always rejection as such. |
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